3 Habits That Make Bad Boys More Attractive

22. april. 2019
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Avengers Endgame is finally here! One of the things that stands out the most as I watch clips from Avengers Infinity War in preparation is how much people love Thanos.
You can learn quite a bit from dangerous personalities like Thanos’ by taking pieces and adding them to your own charisma arsenal, which is why in this video, I want to explore 3 ways that dangerous personalities can actually be more attractive.

0:44 - Reason #1: They’re non-reactive
2:26 - Reason #2: They have extreme conviction
4:56 - Reason #3: They tend to carry out random and surprising acts of kindness
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  • 2:42 Only a sith deals in absolutes.

    Scientific TailsScientific Tails6 dager siden
  • please cover anxious/avoidant attraction

    Donald ChristensenDonald Christensen14 dager siden
  • But who do fearful avoidants date??? Answer: No one. We just get crushes on fictional bad boys, or sometimes good boys, just whoever walks within 100 feet of us bc we mostly alone

    sunset orangesunset orange17 dager siden
  • all of these traits are something unthinkable to me, even if i try i cant rly imply any of them. i am what you'd call a "nice guy" basically i put others opinions first, i seek approval and while driven by passion i am shy to show it.

    El1ijahEl1ijah17 dager siden
  • Love your videos..its a go for your attachment theory videos

    Donicka BuddDonicka Budd17 dager siden
  • 7:54 "A vicious cycle" ohhh I have memories with that line ... You shall know Pain.

    azhar hamaazhar hama22 dager siden
  • 5:25 That cycling also reminds me of Zaheer from Legend of Korra. He was so violently aggressive towards Korra but didnt harm the Air Nomads or anyone else.

    growingoaks productionsgrowingoaks productions22 dager siden
  • Damn, what crappy dialogue. Just one of the handful of reasons I can't stomach superhero movies.

    Black Death 1347Black Death 134724 dager siden
  • I prefer being like Thanos.

    Frank CastleFrank CastleMåned siden
  • WTF?! THANOS' plan makes more sense than any other plans that I have EVER HEARD!!! How else can you make suffering go away? That plan would be the best one ever made!!!

    Frank CastleFrank CastleMåned siden
  • thanos literally killed half the universe for a girl that likes deadpool

    MayMayMåned siden
  • So in order to be liked, you have to force your self to betray your body and resist reacting. I'd rather be my self and not hurt my self trying to not react to anything.

    Several_RevolutionSeveral_RevolutionMåned siden
  • It's not just nice guys that lose its nice girls that lose to

    no Time to say hello goodbye.no Time to say hello goodbye.Måned siden
  • michael knowles

    Ramiro LinaresRamiro LinaresMåned siden
  • Idk why I have to argue marvel on this channel but He’s not wrong, if thanos can kill half the universe with a snap he could also just make more resources in the universe to support a greater population. And if culling the population incites prosperity, birth rates will go up..... do you see where I am going with this? What made him so compelling was his confidence and assurance this was the answer. He had an air of wisdom abd toughness to do what was necessary. But really he just had a big ego and when faced with contrary evidence (like the snap not creating peace) he dismissed it in favor of doubling down

    Tyler McraeTyler McraeMåned siden
  • Thanos is non-reactive? His entire motive is reactive. Being calm is not the same as being non-reactive.

    Patient GrasshopperPatient Grasshopper2 måneder siden
  • 1)Non Reactivity 2) Extreme Conviction 3) Surprise recognition and acts of kindness

    Unknown QUnknown Q2 måneder siden
  • His noble plan makes a ton of sense. There's too many humans for this planet to sustain itself. The same applies to their universe.

    NielsNiels2 måneder siden
  • people actually like me?

    Thanos.Thanos.2 måneder siden
  • If you duplicate all of Thanos’ behavior you will be dead or in jail. 😄

    Dropped On My HeadDropped On My Head2 måneder siden
  • So... Thanos is attractive?

    ShadowBosS TSGShadowBosS TSG2 måneder siden
  • Well, Ted Bundy was quite charismatic.

    the_Haakinton 89the_Haakinton 892 måneder siden
  • It's becase of *confidence* and *vulnerability* . Everyone not only girls are attracted to badass types even guys do. It's because they're both confident and vulnerable. *Confidence* gives the energy of self-awaress, maturity, and experience. *Vulnerability* on the other hand, releases our protective instinct, and makes these types more human to us.

    Prince CarlosPrince Carlos2 måneder siden
  • if you're seeking life advice from comic book movies, you got bigger problems than your dating situation.

    roflmowsroflmows2 måneder siden
  • Obama Sux

    TraversTravers2 måneder siden
  • Thanos is a hero

    My Old CatMy Old Cat2 måneder siden
  • Thanos was right!!!

    Julià RíosJulià Ríos2 måneder siden
  • 1:14 yes

    MikeMike3 måneder siden
  • The thumbnail should have been loki😑

    Ayesha QamarAyesha Qamar3 måneder siden
  • Yeah Thanos is handsome indeed

    SoSo3 måneder siden
  • Even though Thanos talks in a low baritone, he's pretty soft spoken.

    Shannon CurryShannon Curry3 måneder siden
  • "His noble plans make no sense at all" . Really?

    Finance GuyFinance Guy3 måneder siden
  • He plan is pretty logical though, remove 50% of the population and there are enough resources for the remaining 50%.

    Connor Richmond-ClarkConnor Richmond-Clark3 måneder siden
  • Please don’t encourage abusive men. Thanks!

    Sally Isabel BoyerSally Isabel Boyer3 måneder siden
  • Thanos’ plan makes sense to me

    Maria DanilaMaria Danila4 måneder siden
  • Let me just break it down for you guys : have confidences in your self and dont care about what other people say

    Margarvy ValcinMargarvy Valcin4 måneder siden
  • Actually his plan makes perfect sense, and may be the only option

    AM ReviewAM Review4 måneder siden
  • Lot of personality traits of sociopath 😂😂

    John KJohn K4 måneder siden
  • Summart of this channel: fake till you make it 👍

    John KJohn K4 måneder siden
  • Date a bad dude marry a good dude

    John KJohn K4 måneder siden

    Allison AwesomeAllison Awesome4 måneder siden
  • Here's a shoutout to all the nice guys though, many of us still find that exceptionally attractive.

    Alexa hAlexa h4 måneder siden
  • Thanos was calm because he knew even if peter shot at his eyes those blasters wouldnt burn an eyelash lmao. Also he had backup.

    Zaber AnsaryZaber Ansary4 måneder siden
  • Anybody else got their heart broken

    Bernaldiego 17Bernaldiego 174 måneder siden
  • If you were 'nice' to a woman, yet disappointed that the woman you were being 'nice' to didnt express gratitude in the form of attraction or sexual favors then your 'niceness' had creepy ulterior motives and therefore you are in fact not a 'nice guy'..

    The SoliloquistThe Soliloquist4 måneder siden
  • Is that why Thanos is so hot?

    ItsafishItsafish4 måneder siden
  • Wanna be a better bad boy? Act like thomas shelby when a gun pointed at him

    HoxHox4 måneder siden
  • I am inevitable

    African WarlordAfrican Warlord4 måneder siden
  • Wait...so in order to be attractive and successful in life, you need to not be nice and you need to be far away from what the Abrahamic religions (Christianity, Islam and Judaism) taught you? 😧😨

    Antonio MaldonadoAntonio Maldonado4 måneder siden
  • "Most of us will never have a space blaster pointed at us" Ummm... most of us?

    BoomboxBenBoomboxBen4 måneder siden
  • I'm going to be honest I thought he was saying thanos wrote a book at 1:42

    JoltedJonJoltedJon4 måneder siden
  • I think #3 on the list can be called - Lovebombing

    Dolorhictibiproderitolim 1776Dolorhictibiproderitolim 17764 måneder siden
  • Unpredictable bursts more dopamine

    Louis BLouis B4 måneder siden
  • 1 they're non-reactive 2 they have extreme conviction 3 they do random acts of kindness

  • I find the "I'll be okay no matter what" a little too much of "fake it till you make it" in terms of confidence.

    AronzoAronzo4 måneder siden
  • Nice guys finish last.... because they always make sure she finishes first

    charjlcharjl4 måneder siden
  • Be a good man, not a nice guy

    Cool DudeCool Dude4 måneder siden
  • "Nice guys finish last" No wonder they never get the girl. They're still busy with their three-course dinner while their date walks off with someone able to finish in a timely fashion

    messiha666messiha6664 måneder siden
  • Should I use these tactics on the preschool children I teach?

    AARon LamoreauxAARon Lamoreaux4 måneder siden
  • Thanos is thickkk

    bogdan dinchevbogdan dinchev4 måneder siden
  • so you make a video about "bad boys", and you feature Obama instead of Trump. i guess you don't want to trigger ppl. but it's kind of disingenuous, lol

    Heart EyesHeart Eyes4 måneder siden
  • This video was mad because of the thickness of Thanos

    TýrTýr4 måneder siden
  • Wtf do you mean his noble plan makes no sence at all, he was the only one with the balls to actually realise thats it was the right thing to do

    KanalenKanalen4 måneder siden
  • Just like vindiesel

    miracle manoj kumarmiracle manoj kumar4 måneder siden
  • Recording giving people money or food is not random acts of kindness its clearly scripted and seeking attention

    The Beard BlokeThe Beard Bloke4 måneder siden
  • First of all? How dare you say my mans plan made no sense

    Rocky MckayRocky Mckay4 måneder siden
  • Nice people lose because they have a distorted perception of what winning truly means.

    High Society CWHigh Society CW4 måneder siden
  • Sad fact.

    HolySaintKnightHolySaintKnight4 måneder siden
  • Say that to your cop when he asks you if you are doing essential travel

    Jim CuddyJim Cuddy4 måneder siden
  • Thanos' plan is so interesting that it makes sense

    Owen Gabriel AlidonOwen Gabriel Alidon4 måneder siden
  • the title made me want to commit seppuku

    NCR TrooperNCR Trooper4 måneder siden
  • Don't be a nice boy or a bad boy, be yourself, naturality is attractive, your essence will attract someone, you just gotta wait for them, trying to be a bad boy when you are a nice one, won't make you look good in the long term, and neither will the opposite, sure bad boys get more ladies, but natural boys get the right ones, remember that.

    _Just_ a_dude__Just_ a_dude_4 måneder siden
  • I can never find needy, validation seeking guys attractive, aka nice guys in real world. They cannot even digest their food without getting some daily validation from people around 😆 It’s such a turn off.

    MansiMansi4 måneder siden
  • Every time I watch your channel logo at the end if a video, I realize that your voice don't really suit you! - from a Fan of your videos :)

    Sreekumar Menon KSreekumar Menon K4 måneder siden

    Grace VictoriaGrace Victoria4 måneder siden
  • Woman want a nice guy that's going to kiss her arse yet same time look after her and protect her truth is that guy doesn't exist

    Steven BrownSteven Brown4 måneder siden
  • what did they say to obama..?

    californyeahcalifornyeah4 måneder siden
  • Well, maybe not so popular now. But. Negan from twd has kinda the same personality. He is a bad guy, but who ever watched him, loved his character. Because he was cool and all that.

    KoleMotosportKoleMotosport4 måneder siden
  • the one thing this video and all the comments are forgetting is ACTION. Action is what amplifies and really enhances the traits you talk about. Your words backup your actions. Without action you are all talk, and no one cares about that. Thanos - hes the baddest MF in the universe. He takes and destroys whatever he wants. Obama - hes a two term president of america Top Fighters - they are physically superior to the average man. (but when they loose, their conviction as you put it works against them because another man has demonstrated superior physical attributes over them) This all applies to 'good' and 'bad' guys. All that matters is ACTION!!!!

    Oms AOms A4 måneder siden
  • The worlds cruel. People are hostile and nasty, the social market.

    sam elsmoresam elsmore4 måneder siden
  • I never understood Thanos' plan. The human population has doubled in 50 years, so Thanos killing half of all life will be redundant a few decades later.

    Richard HorrocksRichard Horrocks4 måneder siden
  • 3rd is pretty shallow.

    Loud ItalianLoud Italian4 måneder siden
  • Charisma on command is so cringe... this guy has ZERO charisma!

    Mr. BluntMr. Blunt4 måneder siden
  • 1. Shitting in the streets with a red dot on your forehead 2. Pouring ice-cold beer down your pants on Japanese game show 3. Looting and torching your own neighborhood in Minneapolis

    AJtheoryAJtheory4 måneder siden
  • Her: Sorry, you’re just a friend to me. Me: Peace was never an option

    AlexAlex4 måneder siden
    • He’s INFP.

      F R E N Z AF R E N Z A2 måneder siden
    • lmao

      MrEvldreamrMrEvldreamr3 måneder siden
  • A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger. proverbs 15:1

    alienclay2alienclay25 måneder siden
  • You made me realize a lot from the movie scenes which it didn't made any sense before... Yess please do a video to work myself for attachment & likeability... Thankyou so much

    das rdas r5 måneder siden
  • You have posted cringe. You are going to lose subscriber.

    Zack WoodsZack Woods5 måneder siden
  • I don‘t find Thanos particularly attractive...

    Sascha SchultzSascha Schultz5 måneder siden
  • Please do a video on Raymond Reddington!🖤

    RouvenRouven5 måneder siden
  • He’s completely misinterpreted Thanos here

    Eduardo SalamancaEduardo Salamanca5 måneder siden
  • Thanos's plan makes perfect sense.

    NEKKRONNEKKRON5 måneder siden
  • Is he just trying to apply thanos behaviour on real life?

    HarlekinHarlekin5 måneder siden
  • My younger sister is really good at this without trying, but I don't really fall for it thankfully. :)

    Charlotte VCharlotte V5 måneder siden
  • The source of non reactivity comes from his mindset.."I already know I'm going to wipe out half of the everyone" that thought is what keeps him calm all the time...the doesn't mind reacting to everyone in his way..

    Danny BenhurDanny Benhur5 måneder siden
  • Learning to be non reactive...that's a new thing for me...

    Danny BenhurDanny Benhur5 måneder siden
  • Narrator: 8:33 - “it’s time to surprise someone you care about with an e-mail” Me: *texting my ex who’s married and who I can’t get over*

    Zokhid AbdullaevZokhid Abdullaev5 måneder siden
  • People still believe this? Just know what you and what you can't have. And stop trying to change others because it's not your job to do so. That's not being bad, that's just common sense.

    Da'marius WingfieldDa'marius Wingfield5 måneder siden
  • Thanks for telling people what you find attractive in a man.

    Meow MeowMeow Meow5 måneder siden
  • Wow CJI character have more confident than me 😂

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