5 Common Habits That Make People Instantly Dislike You

6. mai. 2019
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A few recent Brie Larson interviews have caught the attention of Marvel fans. People have asked if the cast doesn’t get along with Brie, and even as an audience member it’s hard to sit through some of these interviews without cringing.
Today I will talk about what you can learn from these situations, and how to prevent yourself from doing specific behaviour patterns, that can make people dislike you without you even intending or even realizing it.

0:41 - Issue #1: Reading negative intent in an ambiguous situation.
1:15 - Issue #2: Sarcasm requires a “tell”
4:33 - Issue #3: Don’t jump on every opportunity to call praise or attention to yourself.
7:15 - Issue #4: You should not try to win each moment of banter.
9:53 - Issue #5: Handling a compliment improperly
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  • that woman will end up alone, lmao

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  • I think the problem here is not Brie or any other person not even their lack of sarcasm. Its how this video is focused on people's one sided tiny narrow frames, and lines. The video lacks sarcasm

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  • It's sad how people are attacking Brie Larson, we actually don't know what she is going through or gone through in life. May be she is the most authentic person of them all. But there is no charm in being real, we need to spice up things. She needs some spicy tricks up the sleeves to be liked and worshipped.

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  • She reminds me of my history teacher

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  • I disagree with the flat delivery. I deal with this daily and I’m just learning there’s more bitchmade than we need.

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  • Last half of this video is pure fax that hemsworth cheadle interview was cringe and she was being super bitchy

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  • Brie Larson watching this like: 👁 👄👁

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  • She comes across as defensive, like she's had to deal with alot of criticism growing up and needing to defend herself - that could be why she's seeing/expecting the negative. Clearly I don't know her personally, but that is my guess. Instead of judging her, be thankful It's not something you have to heal and have it all over the tv. Grant her some compassion and grace y'all...

    Leanne ChristiansonLeanne Christianson2 dager siden
  • I'm GoInG tO waTch tHIs WiTh a StRaiGht faCe I said.

    Tobi ArabaTobi Araba2 dager siden
  • do louis tomlinson cos he has the most sass ever given to a person and he delivers it flat and not rude like how??

    Lillian AlvarezLillian Alvarez2 dager siden
  • Hit like if you think Charlie has a crush on Russell. He's his go to example in every video

    Anas BilalAnas Bilal2 dager siden
  • I relate to Brie. I was normal once but then I became an emotionaless robot who is perceived as a rude person through no fault of my own

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  • Who the hell is Brie Larson?

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  • Bri’s reactions seem scripted, but if not she reacts like a trauma victim.

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  • It's not bree , but Ferguson master of conversation who brought best out of her.

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  • I think people are too sensitive. Brie is not worrying about 2nd and 3rd order effects, she's just talking.

    Kenneth CoppleKenneth Copple4 dager siden
  • This anaylsis failed, I understood all her humor. You didn't because you're insecure and easily hurt.

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  • She’s masculine instead of feeling inspired by masculinity she’s intimidated

    Coco MochaCoco Mocha4 dager siden
  • Brie is a snoot

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  • I'm from the UK and I sort of agree to some extent about us having a more flat sarcasm but IMO it doesn't matter you know what to expect with a Brit. Brie being American she is expected to have a less flat tone so she is either pissed off and trying to hide it with a passive aggressive and awkward response to every answer similar to a lot of professional athletes in sport who have a vendetta against the media or she is trying to copy us Brits which I highly doubt is the case. Luckily for us as a nation have mastered the art of flat (dry) sarcasm same can be said for people in most of Europe trust me it isn't just a British thing. We detect the subtle difference very easily. She just looks pissed off in that google thing using a tone that clearly shows an attitude problem, I like a girl with attitude but she can leave the feminist crap at the door.

    Michael LedgerMichael Ledger4 dager siden
  • I couldn't make it through this video she is so god damn unlikable I made to 8:39, I really tried I went got a glass of water splashed a little on my face and went back at it, 8:47

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  • She might be the most unlikable actress going

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  • Look how bummed Jeremy renner is

    Jayme FortuneJayme Fortune5 dager siden
  • Not gonna lie...I really liked her as superwoman, until this video lol

    Brooke JarvisBrooke Jarvis5 dager siden
  • She's just terrible. That's what "toxic feminism" does to you. "Look, I'm so strong, I'm the most awesome, I'm the best" - nah babe.. you're not, you're just full of yourself.

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  • (Someone) says anything about captain marvel (Brie Larson) is that a personally attack? SJWs have joined the chat

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  • not all the men hating on Brie Larson...

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  • You should do a video about Lady Gaga - she is the total opposite of Brie...

    MissNickyPuppyMissNickyPuppy6 dager siden
  • it must have been hard having to work with her. Chris is a good guy who deserved a high paying job to work with her.

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  • the real reason people hated her was that she was a woman, that's just the truth.

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  • Yes do break down of The British guy

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  • I love Chris Pratt

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  • British don't need American rules to deliver sarcasm. We have a 6th sense and can detect the aura of its presence.

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  • I dunno. These 'don't dos' seem to work for Trump. And he does them to the max.

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  • I think it's awkward because I see myself in doing these things 😭💔

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  • Can't wait to do the exact opposite of these. Thanks.

    Mark D.Mark D.8 dager siden
  • This is why nobody like Brie Larson

    Joseph PrnkaJoseph Prnka8 dager siden
  • Shes straight up rude! Never liked her

    Jonathan ArokapitiJonathan Arokapiti9 dager siden
  • Dead right in the UK we don't like that comment. If your too thick to know it's sarcastic from the choice of words, god help you, if you need to basically be told it's sarcastic then it kind of defeats the point.

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  • Gina Rodriguez's Wired interview was the same - she sounded so defensive and like she was taking everything as an attack, even if she was trying to be sarcastic. She seems like a nice person, but it was so uncomfortable to watch.

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  • Dont know how not to be rude? Simple..be quiet and smile like a child

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  • Am British, did hate it. You should be able to work out sarcasm without an obvious tell.

    Tristan BealTristan Beal9 dager siden
  • I dont see anything wrong with her.

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  • This is ridiculous.

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  • When she argue with Chris it looks like my 12 year old students who debate on who is the best member of BTS.

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  • Maybe she's INTJ.

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  • Don't be sarcastic on a phone call. Mostly ends up bad for me lol

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  • She has the depth of a urinal.

    Brian CourtneyBrian Courtney10 dager siden
  • I do those things before I'm about to break up the relationship so they don't feel so sad. Its funny how someone can like love u so much as a partner/employee/friend... and when u say a couple things theyre like 🥴 and then u say "I'm outta here" they're like "good gtfo". Lol

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  • i'm often sarcastic. Then finding out later my joke sounds rude and offensive lol sorry

    Rika ShinozakiRika Shinozaki10 dager siden
  • Wow this channel is so good for robots (I’m a robot btw)

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  • I’m tempted to take the course mostly because I don’t hate you which is a great sign that the course is good... also because I lack consistency. Even the word, ‘consistent’ made my eyes roll into my head as though somehow ‘consistency’ = ‘boring’ and that there’s something so inherently ‘wrong’ with being ‘boring’, it’s worse than .... I’ve just realised that my daughter has crossed out words on her drink bottle. It said, BE KIND, DO GOOD, WORK HARD, NAP OFTEN and she’s put a line through the first three! Hahaha I thought that I couldn’t love her any more but she somehow just went up a notch.

    Nadine PetschauerNadine Petschauer11 dager siden
  • Simple rule : destroy your own ego. If you do so you don't really need try to defense yourself ever again. Example - I also joke around about myself, which makes it way more acceptable to joke about others too. For instance I may have the face of Brad Pitt, but my body is like Smeagol (LotR). I look like someone who just returned from a 10 year vacation in a KZ-camp...

    Jacob ChristensenJacob Christensen11 dager siden
  • Brie found feminism, when women are feminists they loose any humour and personality they once had

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  • I know this is a good video but she is so cringe and makes it hard to watch

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  • The other guys hahahah

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  • Charisma is difficult to master. Let's learn from Chris. I wonder if Bree saw this video 🤔I hope she didn't get upset but instead learned from it

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  • I think I'd rather spend the last minutes of my life with the White walkers, Darth Vader and the Demogorgon than with this woman...

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  • #1 become brie larson that’s it. that’s the list.

    Lily StormeLily Storme12 dager siden
  • A cute middle finger from me to whoever hates Brie Larson :)

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  • Brie has an eggshell ego and inferiority complex.

    John ClearyJohn Cleary12 dager siden
  • Young Brie and Karen Brie are two DIFFERENT people. Period.

    Orhtodox ShadyOrhtodox Shady12 dager siden
  • Boo hoo ...people don't like me....charisma fail....lol

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  • Well, sarcasm isn't sarcasm if you need to change everything. At that point is just a joke... and that is a clear sign of lower inteligence...

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  • 6:00

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  • she isnt in any way likeable, shes the exact opposite, and she has zero charisma.

    john jaggerjohn jagger13 dager siden
  • As a socially awkward person I understand her lmaoo. She's not mean she just doesn't fit in. I stopped talking to people bc of this. I gave up on human interaction

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    • @Rose Ravenclaw I work for myself haha. Always one step ahead

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    • you got to build those social skills to a decent level,you don't want to constantly get fired for not wanting human interaction.

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    • I completely understand, had the same thing myself. But I found out that the key is to keep trying. Social skills are just a skill. You don't have to be great at it but it can be developed the more you do it.

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    • Same. I wanna he normal again

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  • I don’t believe she’s trying , and failing at being sarcastic . I think she’s just truly bratty and self centered with absolutely NO sense of humor.

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  • Is it really possible to watch and have the self awareness to effect a change change in ur behaviors?

    francis halloranfrancis halloran14 dager siden
  • So, all five points could be summarized by... don't be a narcissist.

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  • I wanna kiss her

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  • She's arrogant and trying hard to be cool or funny

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  • The free videos are always so good, I wonder how awesome the paid one would be!

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    • Text him up in whatsap

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    • Do you want your ex back immediately, I know someone powerful who can help you get your ex back immediately okay

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  • I watch this many times because I behave like her ..hope I ll stop it for good

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  • She is a deeply unpleasant and unlikable person.

    Jacob GallowayJacob Galloway14 dager siden
  • is video is like when u find a comic book in fallout 4 and u get some bonus to damage

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  • just dont care...

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  • Im still to meet a likeable radical feminist

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  • Yeah, Go for the breakdown.

    Tomas ContrerasTomas Contreras15 dager siden
  • I don't take compliments very well. I just make them regret it by saying I know lol

    champe82champe8215 dager siden
  • God damn it, I love being sarcastic with an absolutely blank face. No wonder people hate me.

    András ZiegenhamAndrás Ziegenham15 dager siden
  • My god i always wondered why did i dislike her instantly

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    • Text him up in whatsap

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    • Do you want your ex back immediately, I know someone powerful who can help you get your ex back immediately okay

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  • Very interesting video. Affirmed a few things for me, taught me a few things.

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  • You know when you remember a cringe-worthy conversation that went south like 6 years ago? Pretty sure that happens with Larson every single day.

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  • She's simply not very nice, highly defensive, always seeing the negative in people even when they are attempting to pay her a compliment. All of these are bad traits.

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  • Brie Larson, what a turd.

    Bob DobalinaBob Dobalina16 dager siden
  • Take home message: Muricans are too thick to understand sarcasm

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  • Angry square

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  • Obviously understands sarcasm.

    Paul BloggsPaul Bloggs16 dager siden
  • Everything wrong with American comedy

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  • It's insane how uncomfortable that interview still is to watch. I can't imagine being there. The black dude looks like he straight up wants to get up and leave.

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  • Chris Hemsworth and Brad Pitt look very similar

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  • See the Manuel Ortiz Show

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  • Its because its all fake and an act.... since she was 4 she has been chasing fame and money..(cuz of her greedy mom) I dont think Brie even knows who Brie is. Because her whole life has been an act.

    MrBeansMrBeans17 dager siden
  • In summary: Episode title Uncharisma on command.

    Sir.Raphim RevelatorSir.Raphim Revelator17 dager siden
  • Wow this chick has serious confidence issues.

    Jason DeRousselleJason DeRousselle18 dager siden
  • 3:18 no its her projection of insecurity.

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  • Help! My boyfriend doesn’t have a tell when he’s being sarcastic... idk what to do 😂

    Olivia DawnOlivia Dawn18 dager siden