5 Common Mistakes That Make People Dislike You

26. april. 2021
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Shark Tank has had roughly a thousand pitches air so far, and one stands out as possibly the worst ever. This pitch goes SO badly that after it aired Maneesh even started to get threats.
Now this video isn’t a critique of Maneesh, we don’t know anything about his personality based on a TV show. But there’s a lot we can learn from this pitch.
Specifically, we’ll go over 5 fairly common mistakes that instantly make people like you less.
We’ll also review what you can do instead to make better impressions in business meetings, job interviews, and even when meeting new friends or going on dates.

0:00 - Intro
1:18 - #1: A bad first impression in the first 7 seconds
2:03 - #2: Reacting defensively to laughter
3:13 - #3: Trying to hide your weaknesses
3:20 - #4: Not answering the question behind the question
6:18 - #5: Being critical of a person rather than their behavior
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  • Maybe they should have listened less to how is presenting and more what he is presenting. Someone might say a dozen times they love you, and then piss on you. And then there is this one person who is always there when you need him. But never says it. Think more deeds, actions, and facts. Less words. Think.

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  • The sale is only as good as the salesman.

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  • Your mistake is thinking that I want people to like me.

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  • Conclusion: He has bad social skills

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  • Although many of the Sharktank hosts are very wealthy, most of them have serious personality disorders, that reveal their true lack of riches where it counts most. Cuban is the poster boy for an ignorant, judgemental know it all. Baldy is not far behind. Barbara and Hercovick are the only ones with a bit of class. Only the desperate want to work with a vulture like O'leary. His personality would be a stain on any legitimate company.

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  • 1-Smile while talking, don't be weirdo tho 2-Laugh WITH people even if they are laughing on you 3-Dont try to hide your weakness, just like when some people try hiding their pimples and people understand they feel embarrassed because of pimples and take it into the conversation but when you don't hide it like you don't care they will prob leave it unnoticed it too. 4-Answer the question behind the question if someone asks where did you used to live then also tell why you left that place don't tryna hide it 5-when you don't like a person point our their particular behaviour which you don't like instead of saying I don't like you, say I don't like how you Become angry so quick

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    • #5 looks like a typo

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  • "Studies show that first impressions form within the first seven seconds of an interaction. Which means an interviewer, potential client, or a date are all deciding if they like you, before they actually know much about you." Here's me, with AN ENTIRE LIFETEIME of trauma and setbacks to draw upon and inflate via learned helplessness and inferiority complex, trying to BETTER myself by entering the world of the "sharks" and being extroverted and outgoing instead of introverted and accepting, and then... NOPE! REJECTED AUTOMATICALLY! Wow. What a great system. So interesting that Maneesh's product is about GETTING OVER PAVLOV CONDITIONING! It's literally for people who don't respond to socially-imposed conditioning. AKA people who are trying to BETTER themselves and cannot easily do so given the socially acceptable methods of doing it. This is why people hate the rich. The most vocal of them are assholes by necessity.

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  • 7 seconds? If somebody has made their judgement of me in that time Idk if I'd want to know them anyway. ha

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  • I REALLY appreciate these mistakes videos - helps me a lot... I’m just like Maneesh LOL

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  • It's just amazing how thin skinned those rich pricks all are. Of course they hate Manish for being like them, except that he wont play the game by kissing @$$. O'Leary is a despicable fraud who got rich on an insider scam he pulled with some Mattel execs. He's been riding that one score ever since. He's just another I.P. troll.

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  • Americans are different

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  • Surprise Barbara is out...

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  • So, I think the "sharks" should have been more professional. From my point of view, they didn't have charisma either.

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  • You should do one on Rener Gracie when he pitched his hoodie on the Shark Tank.

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  • I like the fact that this guy pissed off the sharks. They’re are bunch of know it all a holes who think they are superior to the rest of us and who are probably complete scumbags in their private lives.

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  • Thank you.

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  • Brilliant

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  • I like anyone who can piss off the Shark Tank hosts. I can't stand any of them.

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  • That guy seems like human debris. Not a good look if you're trying to get investors in your product.

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  • A real man would have WANTED to do business with kevin and attempted to change his opinions through this partnership rather than just spewing more hate. That’s what all participation trophy kids seem to lack... patience, open mindedness and wisdom.

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  • How do we know he got death threats? From him? Bull. Why would anyone threaten his life?

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  • Please do a video about how to tactfully manage someone who dominates or speaks way too much in group conversations! (Especially if you have some authority over the group.) Thanks!

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    • Try inserting, "Thanks for your ideas! Let's see if anyone else has any thoughts " and look around. You sweep around the room and come back to yourself and say your peace.

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