5 Easy Steps To Be Effortlessly Charming

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George Clooney has a subtle and almost effortless charm. And unlike some of the people we’ve covered on the channel, you don’t have to take drastic steps to emulate it.
So today, we’re going to be looking at some of the habits that makes Clooney so effortlessly charismatic and learn what you can do to convey that same charm in your own life.

0:15 - Lesson #1: Focus on setting the tone for the interaction.
2:37 - Lesson #2: Laugh with your eyes.
3:56 - Lesson #3: Genuine eye contact.
5:57 - Lesson #4: Self deprecating humor & complimenting others.
7:57 - Lesson #5: George’s goal is to feel good.
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  • Excuse me, but 2:08 he sits down like any older person who has back pain or hemorrhoids. He doesn't look comfortable at all.

    Ana SAna S4 dager siden
  • Man!! He is so charistmaic!!💖💖

    Ankit RawatAnkit Rawat5 dager siden
  • 3:31 i didnt even hear the joke but I laughed

    SyborgCatSyborgCat8 dager siden
  • I'm noticing a key similarities to all of these; self depreciation. But it's not just making fun of yourself, it's throwing a jab at yourself here and there in the middle of the overarching story/point. It's a quick reference to a flaw, or an embarrassment, and then right back to the main story as well as the fact that story/point isn't oversaturated with these self insults. Seems like figuring that part of your social lineup is one of the most important parts to get figured out.

    Anon YmousAnon Ymous10 dager siden
  • 5 Easy Steps To Be Effortlessly Charming: Be George Clooney

    Jose RiveraJose Rivera20 dager siden
  • Basically, try to be chill lmao

    Afonso Maia de LoureiroAfonso Maia de Loureiro27 dager siden
  • Well can you do for a woman?

    Thotla MeliThotla Meli27 dager siden
  • Awesome!!

    Tony - Persuasion SecretsTony - Persuasion SecretsMåned siden
  • That progressive ad was way funnier than Clooney!!

    Jesus BarajasJesus BarajasMåned siden
  • Instructions were very unclear. I started laughing and pointing at people when I enter a room and now people like me even less.

    L ML MMåned siden
  • What on earth are you talking about?

    LeeLeeMåned siden
  • charm

    gothsorrowsuffergothsorrowsufferMåned siden
  • chill

    gothsorrowsuffergothsorrowsufferMåned siden
  • The best compliment I ever got in my life was 3-4 years ago when I was in my early forties. My girlfriend's young co worker told her that she thought I looked like George Clooney. While not even close to the truth it made me feel great, charming, debonair and confident. Whenever I'm faced with a new social challenge like a job interview or meeting the gf's parents etc, I say to myself. "I am George Clooney". In a Michael Keaton's Batman voice. I always laugh of loud at the obsurdity of that statement but laughing at myself calms me, puts me in a relaxed frame of mind and a relaxed/jovial mood that transfers into my mannerisms. From there it's almost second nature to be charming and charismatic. Confidence is key as they say. Now I'm an introvert with a touch of social anxiety to boot. For 40 years I lacked confidence in myself and that showed in everything I did. I've been able to change my situation in life for the better. My confidence has grown tremendously with each new success and I don't need to say this ridiculous thing anymore to have charisma but you know what? I still do, every single day. It's important to me to stay grounded and true to what got me to where I am today.

    G.W. SmithG.W. SmithMåned siden
  • Doesnt work. I was attending a funeral and people thought im a psychopath.

    Blue S PBlue S PMåned siden
  • 1. Become super hot like George Clooney...not a good example for real life people....

    HBHB2 måneder siden
  • How do I know if people are really responding to their charisma and not just their physical attractiveness and fame?

    Mcm RvrMcm Rvr2 måneder siden
  • 4:48 and remember to hit that bell

    [BosS] HITMAN 20[BosS] HITMAN 202 måneder siden
  • Of course he’s charming! He’s a dapper dan man!

    Anime Profile pictureAnime Profile picture2 måneder siden
  • Man he looks gorgeous not just in a beautiful way, but in a mythically charismatic way.

    Adnan RakshaAdnan Raksha2 måneder siden
  • Clooney charming??

    E BE B2 måneder siden
  • *Mindset:* _To be charming, don't try to be charming - following a set of rules robotically. The goal is to make those around you feel good in an authentic way. The rest will follow._

    T MT M2 måneder siden
  • Please make a video analyzing Sophia Loren charm

    Rana AlQahtaniRana AlQahtani3 måneder siden
  • Barf

    Matt TaylorMatt Taylor3 måneder siden
  • Clooney is the best. Come back to the US. As Athena says to Frank Walker played by George in Tomorrowland, “you’re not funny.” And that’s probably the case. His ballplayer quickness & looks make up for it. When I first saw Clooney on a talk show he was probably the most nervous person I’d ever seen next to myself who’s never been on a talk show. Dusk Till Dawn & Tomorrowland among many greats. The ending of TL reminds me of the 2020 George Floyd demonstrations across the world.

    Real NoidReal Noid3 måneder siden
  • Can't be touching people during corona🙃

    Obeng-Yeboah K.DObeng-Yeboah K.D3 måneder siden
  • Pretty sure the interviewer was laughing because she thought Clooney was hot, not because he was 'laughing with his eyes'.

    Kai JohnsonKai Johnson3 måneder siden
  • He reminds me of Robert downey jr

    TalMishanTalMishan3 måneder siden
  • Can you do the singer Prince method. Rest In Peace prince

    Estevan MendozaEstevan Mendoza3 måneder siden
  • So, let me get this straight... we got here a George Clooney fan?

    Pollo Dolla SonPollo Dolla Son3 måneder siden
  • Since purchasing the charisma course from Charisma University for only $599.99 I now have all the confidence that I ever dreamed possible. When I want to impress the ladies, I just put on a really nice pair of speedos and go to the supermarket to shop for fresh produce. Before purchasing this course I used to be way too shy to shop in my speedos but not anymore. Since graduating from Charisma University I now realise that the nasty and uncomfortable looks and stares I receive in the supermarket from "lesser status males" are because they wish they could also shop in speedos. Charisma On Command is really changing lives one at a time.

    ASSMANASSMAN4 måneder siden
  • I watched this before going to an interview but they threw me out after 20 seconds. Apparently hugging and shaking hands was against company's protocol.

    Masood MUFCMasood MUFC4 måneder siden
  • 👶❤💕❤

    aleksandra kettneraleksandra kettner4 måneder siden
  • People down here, says he looks handsome. And they’re not wrong, but it’s his charm. His charm makes how we see him. If I try and pause, to look besides the charm, he doesn’t look that handsome. This shows, that charm is almost everything. Think of someone you know, who has a lot of friends and are really charming, if you think of them without thinking of their charm, they might not look as handsome (at least this is the case for me). So.. you don’t have to be handsome, you just have to be less shy and use these tips from this video. Also don’t have an annoying laughter, think about how you laugh when you’re laughing, and you can actually change it, without it being a fake laughter. Personally I’ve changed my laugh several times for one that fits me. I hope that this comment was useful if you actually read all this.

    Magnus SkjødtMagnus Skjødt4 måneder siden
  • I am more of a george Clooney. So this is awesome!

    Andrew WaldenAndrew Walden4 måneder siden
  • George has polished his presentation, well he is an actor after all. What makes him effective is that his non-verbal communication matches his verbal communication. George is heavily non-verbal in his facial expressions. You can almost turn the sound off and still understand what he is saying. In seeing him in film, I think it is more difficult for George to actually tone down his non-verbal, that is become stoic.

    Wind WardWind Ward4 måneder siden

    ProvaProva4 måneder siden
  • Lol when Jorge Ramos is actually a legend in the Spanish Speaking world

    Jaylinn HerreraJaylinn Herrera4 måneder siden
  • you should make a video about jeremy clarkson

    Leon Benjamin Rodriguez Del PozoLeon Benjamin Rodriguez Del Pozo5 måneder siden
  • 5 Easy Steps To Be Effortlessly Charming. Step one - be extremely handsome...

    DS SoundtracksDS Soundtracks5 måneder siden
  • My friends say that I’m really charming and I watched this video to see how charming I am. I’ve been doing all of this stuff my whole life 😎

    Phillipa Soo Cinnamon rollPhillipa Soo Cinnamon roll5 måneder siden
    • I’m really glad they think that of you. Be charming is really life, especially since you do it effortlessly

      Ashea EAshea E5 måneder siden
  • Charlie its Imad from India... I have a request.... Make a video Of Shah rukh khan.... He is hands down the most charismatic person alive

    Imad AmirImad Amir5 måneder siden
  • Clooney is a fake and liberal Hack. He has lost a lot of respect.

    Mario PanebiancoMario Panebianco5 måneder siden
  • OR - just be a nice person!

    Saint EtienneSaint Etienne5 måneder siden
  • 1. Set the tone. Entering the room. Basically linger and smile as well as greet everyone in the room. First 10-20 seconds SET THE TONE! 2. Physical Placing = leads to physiological comfort and makes you feel like you’re in your own living room. Crossing legs and being open. 3. Laugh with your eyes. Get emotionally involved without your saying. 4. Genuine eye contact = looking down whilst creating thought is normal. Yet after gathering thoughts, make eye contact often. Best time to deliver eye contact is in most important moment. Makes strong eye contact during punch line

    EE5 måneder siden
  • um.... ummmm ... 1. born again... 2. born gain... 3. born again ... sorry.. 4.. ...you knew... 5... born again with good looking like G.C... Yup... so easy! isn't it?...

    KAY YUKAY YU5 måneder siden
  • Men are exceptionally egotistical and he’s just soaking in every last minute of admiration let’s be real lol

    kristina porterkristina porter5 måneder siden
  • So before sitting down in a job interview give the guy a bear hug right? I get it

    Mr Bluntforce TMr Bluntforce T5 måneder siden
  • Danial has dyspraxia so is a bit of a struggle for him to not walk in that way lol.

    Qasim ImtiazQasim Imtiaz5 måneder siden
  • Question do You think that George Clooney knows he’s doing these things or is this just his natural ways. Thanks for this video btw.

    Omotayo OkedijiOmotayo Okediji5 måneder siden
  • Most of this is not practical. He can joke around like that because he's already walking in the door with massive clout from being a celebrity and a top tier movie star. You generally can't do this if you're a nobody. That's what's wrong with all these youtube videos, they are reading too much into this. Do you really think, George is going, ok, I'm going to laugh here and the punch line goes here? If that were true, it would come out awkward and unnatural. This type of charisma can't really be learned.

    A Metalhead's JourneyA Metalhead's Journey5 måneder siden
  • 😍😍😍😍😍 I love it

    NT-Learning HDNT-Learning HD6 måneder siden
  • Hearing the minute details the narrator told....in one moment I thought he was Clooney itself

  • George Clooney is a fuckin man

    Connor RyanConnor Ryan6 måneder siden
  • This is just analysing something that’s natural. You don’t quite “note” this. It comes out by itself.

    AmartyaAmartya6 måneder siden
  • Two easy steps: get into showbiz via nepotism, then just be good looking.

    teri dayteri day6 måneder siden
  • Great advise.

    Brandon TeaBrandon Tea6 måneder siden
  • Hi can you also do a review of Character Berlin in Money Heist Series? Thanks :D

    Bryan Dave LucidoBryan Dave Lucido6 måneder siden
  • I wonder if anyone knows if Charlie uses these videos from NOworld royalty free? Thank you

    Saint KOSaint KO7 måneder siden
  • It certainly helps to be good looking

    Chetan MehraChetan Mehra7 måneder siden
  • He’s drunk me

    Joshua DeFerrariJoshua DeFerrari7 måneder siden
  • the best batman cuz he really is rich in character

    CRAZY DIETSCRAZY DIETS7 måneder siden
  • thats why tomy wiseau is funny and famous

    CRAZY DIETSCRAZY DIETS7 måneder siden
  • It's all about being you in any environment and being strong enough internally to not depend on others for value (keep your frame) - all while being refined and sophisticated. All of this will keep you from looking like you want attention. Those with high value don't feel the need to take on crazy styles or seek shock value from their statements. People notice when you are trying to get attention (crazy hair style and then pretending like you're just "expressing yourself," shock-value statements not based on you being honest but to try to bring attention to yourself). If you have real confidence, you don't seek it in artificial ways and know that it will come naturally. Seeking it artificially actually just makes you look desperate to seem cool or "different," or whatever. Self-belief says, "I don't have to do something outlandish to seek attention. In fact, I don't have to seek attention. I receive it naturally."

    Coach LeeCoach Lee7 måneder siden
  • most of u losers in the comments should google ''halo effect'' and learn what it is...

    Dr. Sam LowryDr. Sam Lowry7 måneder siden
  • 1) be very very good looking 2) be a famous & wealthy hollywood actor 3) be very very good looking

    Dr. Sam LowryDr. Sam Lowry7 måneder siden
  • Step 1 be george clooney Step 2 repeat step 1 Step 3 figure out the step 2

    jawwad hassanjawwad hassan7 måneder siden
  • Be the Bond. Dress well, Walk with confidence. Be polite, but have a plan to kill everyone in the room.

    Philip CoffmanPhilip Coffman7 måneder siden
  • Virgin Radcliff loser vs Chad Clooney

    MaVidaMaVida7 måneder siden
  • you won't find one single pattern of likeable people. because there are multiple baseline of body languages of charismatic people. unblinking eyes, blinking eyes, those only work in whole package with other cues. and we have our own base cues.

    Atom NousAtom Nous7 måneder siden
  • I really liked this video!!

    ElliottElliott7 måneder siden
  • Honestly the best charisma channel. It's just too bad i don't have an income to join CU.

    Karan AbrahamKaran Abraham7 måneder siden
  • George Clooney and Tom Hanks seem alike in this way.

    CDArchivesCDArchives7 måneder siden
  • "Donald Trump is not going to be president" AND how well did that turn out??

    Matt IrishMatt Irish7 måneder siden
  • What a old creep

    Jorden PimblettJorden Pimblett7 måneder siden
  • 1 minute in and essentially you're saying don't be shy

    FlowUrbanFlowFlowUrbanFlow7 måneder siden
  • clooney accepts $25m dollars for nespresso then prances around pretending to be a campaner against child labour... fkn joke

    jeremy westernjeremy western8 måneder siden
  • What movie is at 0:28?

    John D. DodsonJohn D. Dodson8 måneder siden
  • I hope my cat notices the effort I'm making. He certainly picked the right job : Actor.

    free agentfree agent8 måneder siden
  • listening at 9:45 ....im about to go into engineering for next year and im already bad at being social at times

    CarlosCarlos8 måneder siden
  • I actually am glad I stopped here. I hadn’t really analyzed these things and that was really helpful :)

    Michael TrimbleMichael Trimble8 måneder siden
  • clooney doesn't need to be charming, he's rich!

    jp bartjp bart8 måneder siden
  • Thank you for all you videos, all helpful in my life. : ) Rafael Nadal is another loveable confident celeb. A look at his charisma might be interesting.

    Thanx - Love ItThanx - Love It8 måneder siden
  • 6:20 when George Clooney pays you a compliment, and you realise it's because you're beneath him

    Luvuyo SojiniLuvuyo Sojini8 måneder siden
  • Ok, so: Clooney is the God himself! 🤣

    Ákos FellnerÁkos Fellner8 måneder siden
  • love your ending comment! feel comfortable and have fun not charming others!

    tubbertubber8 måneder siden
  • You do realize he is reading a script

    Washington ConsultantsWashington Consultants8 måneder siden
  • I have started walking into my apartment to gentle canned applause. I find it puts me at ease as I cook dinner, which then is applauded further by my wife.

    thelastdetail1thelastdetail18 måneder siden
  • being attractive also doesn't hurt :))

    H AH A8 måneder siden
  • One thing that popped to me on this is Milo who does not make eye contact consistently but he does when he looks up as he makes a point or to see if his point he was trying to make connected with the person he’s speaking with or the audience he’s speaking to...

    Travis WayTravis Way8 måneder siden
  • you described it as if he’s doing all of this on purpose rather than effortlessly like you first said

    NxghtNxght8 måneder siden
  • Your website has a ton of scrolling just to find the price. The 60-day guarantee I think you could fix. If it's that good you can actually give money back if you complete 80% of the course. That was just my first reaction. Just from your videos I can tell you would get a lot out of it.

    Adam JensenAdam Jensen9 måneder siden
  • If anyone was wondering the DVDs under the television are Seinfeld. 2:33

    Alex SierraAlex Sierra9 måneder siden
  • Hes a charming left wing devil.

    David BrakefieldDavid Brakefield9 måneder siden
  • #6 Host fundraisers for corrupt democratic neoliberal warmongering elites. Super Charming...

    tHReE rabBiTtHReE rabBiT9 måneder siden
  • Why would anyone want to be a clouneytune???

    Reuben SchillerReuben Schiller9 måneder siden
  • I’ve been binge watching your videos for a couple weeks and I can honestly say that in this short amount of time, my issues with social anxiety have already improved quite a bit. Within a few days of applying a couple of these habits, I’ve noticed that I’m a lot more at ease in conversation with both strangers and people I already know. I’ve also noticed that my relationships with people at work (including bosses) have been blossoming and people are starting to show me more respect. I feel like my job performance has been steadily improving as well. It’s honestly mindblowing how a change in mindset can make a world of difference. Not every day is perfect though, I occasionally slip back into moments of self doubt or anxiousness and it’s not always easy to rebound, but the more I keep working at it and making an effort to implement what I’m learning, it keeps getting easier to bounce back. I’m so grateful that I’ve found this channel and I can’t wait for what’s in store for me and the people around me! Thank you so much

    portista20portista209 måneder siden
  • I could stop laughing after my dog sat on the floor crying after she destroyed her toy..

    Alexander the GreatAlexander the Great9 måneder siden
  • 6. Have more Money than a small country could spend in a few Decades- This Always helps 'smooth things over' with the Ladies.

    David BrownDavid Brown9 måneder siden
  • I love this channel!!

    homeworkatshomeworkats9 måneder siden