5 Easy Ways To Make Small Talk With Anyone

31. aug.. 2020
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We’ve all had conversations that feel forced or boring, or are filled with awkward silences. It can be almost painful. That’s why in this video we're going to go over 5 steps to make small talk with anyone. We’ll do so by breaking down some tricks that Joe Rogan uses on his podcast to connect with everyone from academics to athletes to celebrities.  

The goal of each of these is to either get the person to like you more OR get you off small talk and into a real conversation that lets you form a genuine connection. Some will be mindsets and some will be word for word questions you can steal. They’re all easy to do, but most people don’t do them.


0:00 - Intro.
0:54 - #1: Grease the wheels early with a compliment.
2:17 - #2: Transition between topics using “reminds me of” thinking.
4:07 - #3: Ping for topics of mutual interest.
4:31 - #4: Get other people excited about the conversation.
6:27 - #5: Create a connection with people while listening.

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  • One good trick I learnt is to say the name of the person you are talking to a little bit more than you usually would. This is especially good when talking in a small group as it makes them feel more heard and included. No matter how much of an ego they have, there isn't a sweeter sound to someone's ears than the sound of their own name.

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  • I can’t believe this generation became so antisocial that they now have to make “methods” on how to socialize.

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  • You can see it in Elon's face: "...Omg I'm funny?!"

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  • Read...How To When Friends and Influence People. The book that inspired Charles Manson.

    Chris Sr.Chris Sr.14 dager siden
  • I'm tired of being the dude who carries the conversation.

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  • How to start a conversation at work: "So... What are you in for?"

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  • 7:39 ok I will watch Scott sterling soccer shootout before I meet this girl tomorrow

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  • Watched the whole vid only to find out at the end that it's just a commercial trying to sell you something

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  • “I don’t know many people from Delaware” *Thank you*

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  • I got you. Bye!!!

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  • This is a great video!

    Ron HatfieldRon Hatfield23 dager siden
  • Phucking 21st century Dale Carnegie

    Lee Van CleefLee Van Cleef23 dager siden
  • Why would I make small talk lol.

    wolfgangouillewolfgangouille24 dager siden
  • Lol this is just how stoners communicate (extroverted stoners)

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  • As a white dude in America in the year 2020, I almost feel like I need to ask for consent to give someone a compliment.

    Nunya BizNunya Biz24 dager siden
  • Hi, can you please do a video on Tekashi 69 and how to be charming when people want to hate you (something like that ). His interviews are very interesting.

    Rocking RondaRocking Ronda25 dager siden
  • This is very helpful! 💯💯💯

    Titomo DanielTitomo Daniel25 dager siden
  • Interesting, i'd always held back on 'that reminds me of' because i feel/learnt that it detracts from the attention/empathy of what theyve said. 🤔 makes sense though, to keep the conversation flowing

    dappiduckdappiduck25 dager siden
  • Slick stuff there bud

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  • who was that girl, from wilmingotn de. I'm from there and literally sont know anyone famous from there

    Jack WilkinsonJack Wilkinson26 dager siden
  • Umm smoke weed. Joe does. Makes you more sociable.

    Juan GutierrezJuan Gutierrez27 dager siden
  • "How are you?" "Good you?" "I'm Good" "Good" "Goodbye" "Bye"

    SBee GamingSBee Gaming27 dager siden
  • I cannot stand small talk .. awkward

    Social RejectzSocial Rejectz27 dager siden
  • For those of us who might find it difficult to emulate Joe or adopt the techniques he so effortlessly uses to improve the quality of content in his shows, you might try and be genuinely interested in the other person (nervousness included). It might just work.

    Imran MoonisImran Moonis27 dager siden
  • Oh mate, is over... you put Joe Rogan, Elon Musk and Dan Bilzerian in the video? The algorithms are going bananas!!

    Gabriel FungGabriel Fung27 dager siden
  • “Small talk with anyone” then proceeds to give examples of conversations with people that are actually interesting.

    Russell BennettRussell Bennett27 dager siden
  • So that is where Zanghief from Street Fighter is from.

    GregorioGregorio27 dager siden
  • When asked "How are you?" Answer with anything but good.. Good leads to nowhere

    Justino CastilloJustino Castillo27 dager siden
  • Amazing content, thank you!

    euro191euro19127 dager siden
  • Lmao Andrew hills

    The PresidentThe President28 dager siden
  • I find it difficult to make small talk and these tips will really help!

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  • We are clearly inside of the how to be joe rogan internet silo. And in the comments I see nothing but robots regurgitating the same things

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  • People are insecure

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  • Can you make this version but for teenagers cuz i cant say to my friend: why do u live there?

    jan kolkjan kolk28 dager siden
  • Thank you, mike, for welcoming me to your little kingdom... nifty, they are nifty, they’re nifty gifties.... you know who I really like is this guy Andy Bernard..

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  • LAHWF contents useful though,.. :v

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  • Joe laughs at everything because he’s high.

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  • These videos are truly gold and I mean it, but the problem is how to really Practice and Implement these in real life which takes practice. There are hundreds of tip provided by Charlie (along with his other videos) and I think I am gonna just take one or two at a step, implement them first and hopefully can master them first.

    YHTanYHTan29 dager siden
  • I think Joe does this all naturally through years of talking to people and being interpersonal and extrovert. Not something everyone is good at and also something that comes really natural to others.

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  • I knew joe had a genius formula!!!

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  • Dawg your training course costs $600...I’d rather read a couple books 😂😂

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  • He is also high as hell lol that explains the laugh

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  • I wanna see the movie with post Malone and nick cage please.

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  • Yes these tips prob are good but the most important one is the fact that Joe does all kinds of research on these people and really knows how to stroke their ego.

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  • Joe rogan genuinely is interested to the people he talks to. A lot of us are trying to imitate socially intelligent people. It begins with yourself. Rogan is very content with who he is

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    • Will Yu Right that’s honestly really it! It’s just organic no thought because he is comfortable with the life he leads.

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  • The master of laughing at anything is Jimmy Fallon.....

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  • Yeah, I laugh and then they ask "What's so funny".

    Georgi AbrashevGeorgi AbrashevMåned siden
  • Damn. I just unlearned a lifetime of awkwardness.

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  • you want to see me in the next one? -----see what I did there? I copied the last few words you said and turned it into a conversation starter.

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  • Great video! Simple advice.

    Rich Beyond Our MeansRich Beyond Our MeansMåned siden
  • You are smart

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  • Jordan Peterson and Joe Rogan are awful people and should not be looked up to

    Robert CantspellRobert CantspellMåned siden
  • Ya my souls dead, i don't laugh anymore just let out puffs of air

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  • I would like to see a video of the things Joe does wrong

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  • This video should be called How not to be an introvert

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  • Joe is awesome

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  • Your energy feels attractive just like you but how's that!!?

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  • Wow, you watched Master Class

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  • Awesome video. Thank you!

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  • What is the movie's name at 5:03? Is that an Adam Sandler's one?

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  • "where were you born?" "California" "Why?"

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  • 9:17 kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk brazilians will understand

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  • Compliment someone on their energy? You just met them...you want them to think you have a bunch of crystals lying around your house?

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  • Part of being a gentleman is being a conversationalist.

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  • What if it doesn’t remind me of anything at all

    Shi Yin CheangShi Yin CheangMåned siden
  • all of these i already knew lmao, im assuming this video is meant for ppl who are anti social lmao

    Enzo PalmaEnzo PalmaMåned siden
  • Okay but what I find ill struggle with is that ill be too hellbent on remembering this video in my head and then ill freeze up and not know what to say

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  • This should be call 5 Reasons I love Joe Rogan

  • Dr. Jordan Peterson would cringe knowing you just called him a nice guy

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  • me at the bar after watchin this video: "so, where are you from?" "Melbourne." "Why?"

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  • Wilmington is not great 😂

    Dylan MorganDylan MorganMåned siden
  • Ever met a person who wasn’t strange? Me neither.

    Kory HodgeKory HodgeMåned siden
  • What if someone truly don't want to make small talk?

    Thomas BenningshoffThomas BenningshoffMåned siden
  • What about the problem of some ppl really only like talking about themselves? Or talk over you a bunch

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  • 0:23 I was like.... "That ain't Akedemiks...?" Haha

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  • 100% agree with all the tips given. I've personally unlocked my charismatic self within the last few years, and the tips given are things that I did naturally. What kicked started my own journey was letting my walls down, and letting my authentic self out in front of everyone.

    Corey NewtonCorey NewtonMåned siden
  • small talk is EASY - simple evasion or red herring conversation logic. works like a charm .

    Jusue GranadosJusue GranadosMåned siden
  • What's fascinating to me is that most of these tips and such I actually learned through socialising with people from being a socially awkward kid to a socially competent and somewhat liked by most people and take parts (like a few personality quirks) of what was likeable among some of my popular friends, and kind of incorporated them all into my own personality, and learn from my mistakes. I guess that's why people say that what you experience is a big part of what shapes who you are as a person. I've actually been thinking about most of these. And the ones I haven't thought about in this video just taught me about a couple of arguments I've had lately. And seems obvious now. Lol I'm high as balls.

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  • It was unfair to use the example of Letterman and the girl who played April on Parks and Rec. I think she literally tries to make every interview/conversation awkward

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  • I started laughing for no reason when the laughing part was being explained

    Tim MagalingTim MagalingMåned siden
  • 8:01 Lol why does this dude look like a younger Michael Rosen?

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  • When you said “athletes” and showed Danica Patrick, that made me smile

    Mark RobinsonMark RobinsonMåned siden
  • Lol these are extremely helpful. Wow. Thank you

    Nimi GeorgeNimi GeorgeMåned siden
  • So be fake nah my soul won’t let me I can only talk with people if they genuine

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  • It's not just a skill, its a talent. You can not just learn it. But you can practice it to develop your skill and you hone your skill long enough, you become talented. Joe Rogen is talented. If you are a shy, non-social person, start by what comes natural to you. Joe Rogan has an artillery and he has spent time building it. And most of all he has learnt to be comfortable in his skin - that's the base. If you dkn't have it, you will come across as a creep while making small talks.

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  • Who is that cute little thing on Letterman????

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  • WEP

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  • Joe Rogan has his social skill tree maxed out.

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  • J0E is a Master!

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  • What this entails is that you’ll always be known as someone who listens more than talks about themselves, which makes storytelling very difficult

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  • LAHWF sighting!

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  • Have you noticed that they always use Aubree Plaza when they have a bad conversation?

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  • I think since joe smokes weed helps him laugh

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  • Bro this channel is gold. Kudos.

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  • Lol who else dound out they've been doing this without noticing

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  • this was a real cool video man 👍

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