5 Easy Ways To Show Extreme Confidence

21. okt.. 2019
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Harvey Specter isn't exactly the perfect man. He can be rude, emotionally stunted and sarcastic. But even though he is flawed and of course fictional, his portrayal can teach you quite a bit about confidence and power in the real world.

So in this video you’ll learn concrete steps and deeper mindsets for conveying a deep sense of confidence and power.


0:48 - #1: Your body language & tone.
4:29 - #2: Attack the framing, not the content of the insult.
5:52 - #3: Don’t be there to impress.
8:09 - #4: Learn to become an expert at framing your options in any particular scenario.
9:20 - #5: Create options for yourself.

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  • I tried this, currently looking for a new job now haha

    Oscar BushellOscar Bushell17 timer siden
  • The first to be liked, is not caring about being liked

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  • He just said people are excited with college admissions even though they received the biggest bill of their lives😂😂😂😂

    Mayank JainMayank Jain2 dager siden
  • do ray donavan

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  • !

    Jean WellingtonJean Wellington5 dager siden
  • What TV show is this ?

    Malcolm LarriMalcolm Larri6 dager siden
  • GOD!! why did he cut the middle finger scene !?

    khalid oujjakhalid oujja8 dager siden
  • The Key to Harvey's Charisma is the Work underpinning it. Not just his Intelligence, or Talent, but All the Hard work he put in to get there, and his knowledge of his Chosen profession. Confidence is a LOT Easier to have when you Know what you're talking about, and can PROVE It.

    RensuneRensune9 dager siden
  • If he has done this now.. probably he had done this before

    Harsh KumarHarsh Kumar20 dager siden
  • This video is so well thought. Thank you.

    LipikaLipika24 dager siden
  • No. 5

    BennyBenny29 dager siden
  • Frank Underwood eats people like Harvey for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

    RohanRohanMåned siden
  • can anyone recommend me some confident female role models?

    Noa SchelfhoutNoa SchelfhoutMåned siden
  • If your talking about confidence never miss Zlatan Ibrahimovic

    Nitish SawantNitish SawantMåned siden
  • NOworldr wants to make sure that he is in control & you eventually buy his course. Good marketing tactic brother!

    Tushar PawarTushar PawarMåned siden
  • 0:00 “Harvey Specter isn’t exactly the perfect man” I beg to differ.

    Gabriel HamouiGabriel HamouiMåned siden
  • what movie is he showing in this video someone tell me.

    Anny M.Anny M.Måned siden
    • It's the show suits

      PeterBEPeterBEMåned siden
  • Awesome!! Great Tips!

    Tony - Persuasion SecretsTony - Persuasion SecretsMåned siden
  • Awesome!! Great Tips!

    Tony - Persuasion SecretsTony - Persuasion SecretsMåned siden
  • Rule no. 1: suit up!

    PrashanthPrashanthMåned siden
  • I cannot be confident. I'm balding....

    SnowmanSnowmanMåned siden
  • my dad made me watch suits to make me learn from the characters cause he said they have something to learn from unlike people irl.

    Aimen AhmadAimen AhmadMåned siden
  • Good.Job.OKAY.

    Shaman JyssaShaman JyssaMåned siden
  • Make a video on Micheal Corleone from godfather please

    Arslan ZafarArslan ZafarMåned siden
  • Most important point is that this kind of confidence comes from having faith in your skillsrt, whatever it may be, that comes after hard work ,smart work and trial and error that leads to consecutive success (with some losses. But net wins are more). If you are a compelte chump at what you are trying to do your 'confidence' will come across as shallow and smart people can smell that a mile away

    Fast TwitchFast TwitchMåned siden
  • Harvey Specter is the serious mode of Marshall Erickson

    Joseph Joaquin MarasiganJoseph Joaquin MarasiganMåned siden
  • The funny thing is that Gabriel Macht actually attended Meghan Markle’s wedding. So Harvey did meet the Queen of England.

    Pumpa PajPumpa PajMåned siden
  • How to show extreme confidence: have it

    Mohammad SKMohammad SK2 måneder siden
  • add summery at the end of your video. it will make your video more interesting.

    Aninda ChakrabortyAninda Chakraborty2 måneder siden
  • Can you please make a video on Berlin from Money Heist.

    Patel MeshvaPatel Meshva2 måneder siden
  • Complete bait and switch. I usually love your content but this is terrible you are in essence saying here are "Watch this video to get 5 easy ways to confidence" then you share nothing but an advertisement for your PAID charisma course. Be honest and forthcoming about what you're doing.

    K.A. RickardK.A. Rickard2 måneder siden
  • Yes! Thought there must be one on Harvey. Love this man.

    Jonny Pardoe - The Self Esteem and Confidence MindsetJonny Pardoe - The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset2 måneder siden
  • Those suits make him look so broad.

    Black StarBlack Star2 måneder siden
  • Imagine this guy's life... He probably uses everyone of his video's tips to his advantage...

    Bladezy_WadezyBladezy_Wadezy2 måneder siden
  • Now how do I implement all of these things into my life?

    Political personPolitical person2 måneder siden
  • 'The less you focus on defending yourself, the better your banter will become'. Love this!

    Jonny Pardoe - The Self Esteem and Confidence MindsetJonny Pardoe - The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset2 måneder siden
  • Citing actors to establish social methods is complete nonesense

    SmalltimRSmalltimR2 måneder siden
  • Does these rules apply for women as well?

    Jala BalaJala Bala3 måneder siden
  • Harvey is the definition of confidence - this man should’ve won an award for this show!

    Ayub MAyub M3 måneder siden
  • You could write a really good movie character without a doubt

    THE FiLM WOLFTHE FiLM WOLF3 måneder siden
  • -

    S H I O K A Z ES H I O K A Z E3 måneder siden
  • should use real world example instead of use a TV show charactor . it is an act not real situation .

    Java SpringFrameJava SpringFrame3 måneder siden
  • In Suits, someone storms out of the room in every single scene ever

    Urban ExpansionUrban Expansion3 måneder siden
  • Harvey freaking Spectre!!!

    Oriehi RaphaelOriehi Raphael3 måneder siden
  • Do a franck underwood

    don jondon jon3 måneder siden
  • The thing is, Harvey has real stuff and real value, people will respect that for their own interest. Business people care about benefits more than appearances. If you can make profit for me, I don't give a shxt if you are a jerk.

    MrChristopher0003MrChristopher00033 måneder siden
  • do one on daniel hardman he is even better than harvey

    Ankit BhattiAnkit Bhatti3 måneder siden
  • The. G. O. A. T

    Fumnanya Ike-ofuokwuFumnanya Ike-ofuokwu4 måneder siden
  • You got a point

    Nur Shakira AfifiNur Shakira Afifi4 måneder siden
  • Nothing seems interested in him

    Manish KumarManish Kumar4 måneder siden
  • comment

    John GilaltaJohn Gilalta4 måneder siden

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  • I just started watching series yesterday and today this is in my recommended

    CastellaVCastellaV4 måneder siden
  • 2:01 those were a lot of adverbs lol

    leachateeleachatee4 måneder siden
  • Dude, you're good

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    • I'm subscribing.

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  • Who else thought their screen was cracked at 0:15

    Geralt of RiviaGeralt of Rivia4 måneder siden
  • Please breakdown Lucifer!!!

    Eric FernandezEric Fernandez4 måneder siden
  • After watching all the episodes of Arabic series justice and comparing It with suits... I will give 10 out of 1 to the netflix series justice

    Nabin KhanalNabin Khanal4 måneder siden
  • Harvey exudes charisma, way more than other lawyers. I think there's a very thin line to differentiate between confidence and arrogance. Tone and micro body language set a remarkable difference in the way you portray yourself and how others perceive you as.

    Jas GJas G4 måneder siden
  • A character breakdown on Olivia Pope (Scandal) would be fantastic!

    Ruth ObaroRuth Obaro4 måneder siden
  • Even your words can't define the charm harvey specter

    Informatics TubeInformatics Tube4 måneder siden
  • How to identify when to do this and when not to?

    Shubhankar PatilShubhankar Patil4 måneder siden
  • I like your videos ❤️ very helpful

    Action MottoAction Motto4 måneder siden
  • I make my own option

    raul mayraul may4 måneder siden
  • Can you do a Jessica Pearson?

    Aishwarya SAishwarya S4 måneder siden
  • It helps if you’re a big tall guy

    Conexus X18Conexus X184 måneder siden
  • Beautiful personality that captured the heart and eyes is "Harvey "🤗

    Amina EtiAmina Eti4 måneder siden
  • Okay, but why is Harvey's hair pink in the thumbnail?

    J GuitarJ Guitar5 måneder siden
  • 4:43 that gold sword is useless mate.... But I still liked cause u included minecraft

    Atharva RajeAtharva Raje5 måneder siden
  • Step one: Have extreme confidence over :)

    LodrikBadricLodrikBadric5 måneder siden
  • Can you make a character breakdown video on Dr House ?

    Appidi Varun ReddyAppidi Varun Reddy5 måneder siden
  • NOTE: Reacting is like giving an immediate (usually negative) response to something while responding is noticing your own emotions and taking a second to breathe and consider the situation.

    Jared GijozaJared Gijoza5 måneder siden
  • Your videos are really very helpful. Thank you so much. ✨ ✨ ✨

    Shristi SahuShristi Sahu5 måneder siden
  • харви спектор

    воја танкосићвоја танкосић5 måneder siden
  • I havent even watched suits but from what I've seen this guy hits Tony Stark levels of badassness

    Jesus ChristJesus Christ5 måneder siden
  • I could learn all of these and adapt all of these but still won’t make it to the top because I have a vagina.

    sophia educatesophia educate5 måneder siden
  • Can you do a video on kellerman from prison break? I find him very charismatic and he looks like he can't be scared of something

    lioncub of cintralioncub of cintra5 måneder siden
  • My advice is simple. Empty your mind. Forget about making an impression. Just move

    Supercool CatSupercool Cat5 måneder siden
  • Ok lets face it I'm now official the #1 subscriber even when I just subscribed right now. Why? because I'm the ONLY on who said that. So thanks for having me here and also thanks for creating top tier videos. Really good work. So I have to continue watching. Also between those Videos you can watch my channel, just to see how your ideas will work out for a content creator ;)

    SkaldenwolfSkaldenwolf5 måneder siden
  • What show is this?!

    the guy in the helmetthe guy in the helmet5 måneder siden
  • Show confidence by having an open body language you can trick your subconscious mind into actually thinking you're confident

    Daily UpgradeDaily Upgrade5 måneder siden
  • You really need to watch all seasons of the Suits.... Harvey is much more relatable than I thought ...... He punched Louis when he couldn't handle it.......

    Mayuresh JogMayuresh Jog5 måneder siden
    • @Ex nihilo nihil fit You just know what I mean.... Or you don't..... There is no explaining it.......

      Mayuresh JogMayuresh Jog5 måneder siden
    • You related to THAT???

      Ex nihilo nihil fitEx nihilo nihil fit5 måneder siden
  • Yea you can analyze Harvey easily. Try analyzing Dona man...

    רז ברוכשטייןרז ברוכשטיין5 måneder siden
  • Rachel should go to Harvey if something goes wrong at the palace

    Vladimir PutinVladimir Putin5 måneder siden
  • I have watched a lot of these, and let me just say that analyzing fictional film and TV characters is ridiculous. If anyone acted like this in real life, they would be fired or shunned or hated by everyone. If you want to convince me to act a certain way, give me real life examples

    Rod ManRod Man5 måneder siden
  • Can you teach people to act like a lion? Have you thought why a lion is the way he is ? The lion is strong that is why he is confident. All these qualities that you keep teaching they can't be learnt unless at your core you have some real strength. All these celebrities you keep taking examples of they are not thinking or probably never would have thought - How to be confident , they just are confident because they have something else - Physical strength , beauty , knowledge, expertise, experience or excellence. You should rather teach people to get these qualities and all the confidence and charisma will automatically come.

    RawmixRawmix5 måneder siden
  • Thanks for the video content! Apologies for chiming in, I would appreciate your initial thoughts. Have you thought about - Schallingora Living Sculpting Scheme (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now)? It is a great one of a kind guide for learning how to get women to do anything you wantwithout the normal expense. Ive heard some awesome things about it and my old buddy Taylor finally got astronomical success with it.

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  • Charlie, really love the content of your channel. I've been binge watching lately, far better than Netflix. Can I suggest to create future videos ilustrating these behaviours in women as well (whether in real life or movies)? It would mean a lot. Thanks!

    Irina BassettIrina Bassett5 måneder siden
  • the queen of england...haha I bet she did have a word with Mike being she is the mother in law of his ex.

    Michael OatesMichael Oates6 måneder siden
  • I'd prefer getting inspired by True People not Actors

    Ayoub BensakhriaAyoub Bensakhria6 måneder siden
  • Do Donna next

    Jeriel Da SilvaJeriel Da Silva6 måneder siden
  • This video made me watch SUITS again

    angeli shettyangeli shetty6 måneder siden
  • great breakdown

    MC the NaturalMC the Natural6 måneder siden
  • no 1 rule: say goddamn every 5 second

    sumyisumyi6 måneder siden
  • harvey specter 😌😌

    sumyisumyi6 måneder siden
  • What if all confident people come in one screen...Who is gonna have frame?

  • Do dan Bilzerian

    Herbert MHerbert M6 måneder siden
  • how do i be confident? Answer... get a frame and hold it tight

    Ankit KumarAnkit Kumar6 måneder siden
  • this is useful, yet it is better to improve your confidence through fight sports and so on. Nobody is such a good actor he can play confidence perfectly if he has none.

    H AH A6 måneder siden
  • 7:43 Never before have I been so offended by something I one hundred percent agree with

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