5 Harmful Psychological Tricks Your Mind Plays On You

7. okt.. 2019
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Our minds are littered with booby traps. If we’re not careful we fall into one of those traps and all of the sudden it becomes harder to feel happy, and to develop yourself further.
That’s why in this video I will be giving you 5 tricks that your mind is playing on you all the time.

0:16 - #1: The “free” trap.
1:48 - #2: Projection.
3:36 - #3: Social proof.
5:46 - #4: Choosing integrity over honesty.
7:50 - #5: We try to recapture something in the same way that we lost it.

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    Amogh GowdaAmogh Gowda7 dager siden
  • Why does the little drop of spit on your lower lip bother me so much?

    tim watztim watz12 dager siden
  • Is it possible to make an entire video on #4. I think I'm trapped in that mind set.

    JahcrooksJahcrooks19 dager siden
  • Please, never stop making videos. You're fixing my life.

    ananMåned siden
  • Your channel is such a huge help

    Benjamin BurnetteBenjamin BurnetteMåned siden
  • This is so great, especially #4 and #5. Especially in the stock market for #5. You people try and 'break even' with a stock you lost money on when it would be better to cut losses and put the rest of the money in something that you think is a better value. Love it!

    Jay JacksonJay JacksonMåned siden
  • You have no idea how much i needed this video.

    HizzyHizzy2 måneder siden
  • I find myself doing this with audible. While I like audible I am only willing to have it at $8 and not $15

    infernoinferno3 måneder siden
  • Sooo, what if I'd pay 25 cents?

    C. NickC. Nick3 måneder siden
  • You're saying people who post those perfect photos on social media don't actually have perfect lives?? Say it ain't so!

    Joseph WhiteJoseph White3 måneder siden
  • Free is not always free- this relates to everything. It always comes with a price

    ReThink with VeronicaReThink with Veronica3 måneder siden
  • Hi! About projection, it doesn't apply on all cases right? E.g. I think the world is ruthless and cruel for so many brutal crimes, that doesn't mean the I wanna be a criminal or I won't have mercy on people. And sometime I think I'm boring or bored, but I never think that all people are boring or the world is empty of fun stuff, in fact I love things that didn't do yet. So I wouldn't count on the projection thing. Had to write it so it become true or it would just go with the mess in my head.

    Isra’a Abu EidIsra’a Abu Eid3 måneder siden
  • Moral of the video is to not get a girlfriend, but instead get a video game

    Noah BatzNoah Batz4 måneder siden
  • It's absolutely vital to preserve your mental health, hence engaging in activities that are truly becoming of who you are is always a nice start.

    Rashida CostaRashida Costa5 måneder siden
  • 1:55 *cough* milo yiannopoulos *cough*

    Hermaeus_Mora1Hermaeus_Mora16 måneder siden
  • Joe Goldberg

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  • i like yo videos cause you just go straight to the point 🤝

    Simplice TagneSimplice Tagne6 måneder siden
  • Free stuff costs more than expensive stuff.

    Ray NewellRay Newell7 måneder siden
  • Your time is the most importent thing u need to care about and appreciate )

    JinBo HimselfJinBo Himself7 måneder siden
  • Social proof is waaaaaay to real. I feel like most people are stuck on that, that's why we have brands that are more about the social aspect then being an actual product

    FlowUrbanFlowFlowUrbanFlow7 måneder siden
  • I'm Sicilian so Bocce ball is a requirement of life. No way out of it. Whatsa mattah fo you?

    Tony BaloneyTony Baloney8 måneder siden
  • I wanna do things to your mind!!!!

    VictoriaVictoria8 måneder siden
  • seems this is the most contentful video we've yet seen on those kinds of topics. The type of plain constructive and simply true mindmap that helps you organize. Decent. // Only comment apart from this: we saved the video to > watch it more times. For listening to it once, it was too fast run and too contentful for us - as if each of the points is actually worth an extra video with more examples and picturing. We think this vid is a real mindmap, outstanding.

    -Bleach- punk dj-s-Bleach- punk dj-s8 måneder siden
  • this man is a social god

    AnonycadoAnonycado9 måneder siden
  • Really? Five figure cost for botchy ball?

    Mad Max And MadiMad Max And Madi9 måneder siden
  • "Free education, health care", etc. Mmm no!! Ever heard of taxes?? Basic economic principle THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A FREE LUNCH.

    Ramon AnayaRamon Anaya9 måneder siden
  • 8:35 Glad this is a video cause that "..put on Craig's List" statement would've came with a shower!

    Dusty LuckyDusty Lucky10 måneder siden
  • Good content and well delivered.

    Edmund JanasEdmund Janas10 måneder siden
  • Thats crazy same exact thing happened to me and my brother and I played divinity 2 to get over it, but we were on honor mode/tactician

    Louin GreenLouin Green11 måneder siden
  • The projection really hit home with me.

    M PM P11 måneder siden
  • The question is, whenever you feel like you've lost something: a friend, money, a job, whatever; it's not "How do I get that particular thing back?", it's "What else could I do that might be more interesting and fun to make myself feel whole again?" Oftentimes, you get better solutions than the thing that you lost.

    sallyjrw jrwsallyjrw jrw11 måneder siden
  • Soo recently i had a situation were i had to compromise will i do the thing that is at low cost but will cost time because its a long time until i get it or do what i need but lose the oportunity, but it happend so that i did the thing were i could lose the oportunity and i had time and didnt lose the oportunity but ended up not using the oportunity witch was my choice

    Up StantUp Stant11 måneder siden
  • The one dollar rule would destroy youtube

    Keegan IdlerKeegan Idler11 måneder siden
  • COC is my favorite channel!

    Andy EccentricAndy Eccentric11 måneder siden
  • 😥

    Maximus L. SatherozianMaximus L. Satherozian11 måneder siden
  • Talk more about projection please!

    mom's spaghettimom's spaghettiÅr siden
  • Regardless of the topic you've become really great at doing these videos man

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  • где я?

    kartoshka 2808kartoshka 2808År siden
  • I don't like this guy.

  • The lesson here: Think for yourself

    AxeladdenAxeladdenÅr siden
  • you have one of the most useful channels on youtube

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  • ,,,

    Randy LeeRandy LeeÅr siden
  • You need to write a book!

    Shell RaeShell RaeÅr siden
  • "I wanted to date that particular woman and then I wanted to date other people" hmm... I recieving low Bi vibes here...

    NachovyxNachovyxÅr siden
  • Number 5 got me. Really good example and something that I will start applying in my own life.

    Elise EricksonElise EricksonÅr siden
  • I always said hypocrisy is the most disgusting thing we humans posses although we are all hypocrite sometimes. You make alot off sense on the subject. I would love to see a video didicated to the subject one day. Love your work its one of the most intresting videos i came across youtube since this year

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  • can someone explain the 4th ?

    Enias K.Enias K.År siden
  • You should demonstratively threatened that GYM to return your money with a law suit in small claims court. You are in the right so they will have to return your over billed $50. They will have to use a lawyer which will cost them $100s of dollars plus your $50. They will easily give you your money ASAP because it's cost effective for them to do so.

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  • You know he has charisma and self-confidence when there is not a single cut in his video

    XXPeanutSoldierXXPeanutSoldierÅr siden
  • Amazing video this was my favorite advice 5:59 Integrity over honestly, admitting our hypocritical behavior

    Santi YoungerSanti YoungerÅr siden
  • Solid advice

    Gustavo FringGustavo FringÅr siden
  • Imagine if these videos were you projecting what you wish you were

    ThinkAboutThisThinkAboutThisÅr siden
  • I work in marketing, and it strikes me how many of these psychological tricks are marketing go-to's. Social proof, projection, price framing...

    Jonathan WalkerJonathan WalkerÅr siden
  • I don't know where the hell the term "bocce ball" came from but in the UK we call it's "bowls" and it's fun as hell so leave off

    Vincent ChapmanVincent ChapmanÅr siden
  • Love the info in this video. Thanks for the video. Enjoyed watching to the end. New friend here & rang the bell.

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  • Haha, I've been telling people hypocrisy isn't all bad for YEARS! It's an indicator that you're starting to recognize good and bad things that apply to your situation. You need to be able to see those things before you can change.

    Sarah BaiocchiSarah BaiocchiÅr siden
  • It would have been funnier if this video was sponsored by Divinity 🤣

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  • You should write a book.

    Tom SeinfeldTom SeinfeldÅr siden
  • I really enjoy this channel and the work put into it. Can I request you cover the human Shadow psychology, from Carl Jung. I read A Little Book on the Human Shadow ~Robert Bly I suggest this because taught me how 20 years old people haven't had enough experience to understand they are acting out their Shadow(dark side of the personality because it still rules them. It isn't until approximately 30 adults become more self aware and able to deal-with-it/eat-your-shadow. I'd really like to hear what take you'd have. GBÜ

    Joe CanadianJoe CanadianÅr siden
  • I love Bocce Ball, I would pay $1 to play it.

    Mathew LydyMathew LydyÅr siden
  • So in your town they play Bocce...? Are you italian?

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  • My mind‘s playing tricks on me

    Cunt CunticCunt CunticÅr siden
  • I not sure about the hypocrisy thing....if things can be allowed out of convenience, where does it end? Like it IS NOT ok for Progressives to be so perversely bigoted.

    William ScurryWilliam ScurryÅr siden
  • Subtitles pls

    vantarinitelvantarinitelÅr siden
  • People can actually be perfect

    JoSalvadorJoSalvadorÅr siden
  • How did I find this channel? I don’t know but this guy is perfection 😭 the content, the personality, the voice, the face...

    JoSalvadorJoSalvadorÅr siden
  • Awesome tips

    Obie Da ShinobiObie Da ShinobiÅr siden
  • I don't think what you suggested is hypocrisy. There is a difference between being aware that you don't live up to your own ideals and rules and thinking that these rules don't apply to yourself (the former being what Charlie proposed, while the latter is true hypocrisy)

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  • Charlie, I loved your post!!! Well-done@

    Murat KucukdugenciMurat KucukdugenciÅr siden
  • Post nut clarity

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  • 🤔Sounds like you have an issue with Dems😅

    Michael RosenbergMichael RosenbergÅr siden
  • Overarching theme. Time is the most valuable commodity in the universe. Choose wisely how to spend yours. More money can always be made, but no amount of money will ever buy you more time.

    Rambling RecruiterRambling RecruiterÅr siden
  • Can you please do something about ELVIS

    patrickwagpatrickwagÅr siden
  • The social proof and social approval dual phenomena dominate social media

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  • Dude, Divinity 2 is probably the best game I've ever played!

    Jakub GJakub GÅr siden
  • I always enjoy all your witty comments :) Has to be the funniest comment section on youtube, yes you scrolling -------- Thank you :)

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  • Make a video on Hank moody

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  • my bar had bachiball or w/e there and it was a blast for drunk people. you cray cray

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  • Good content. #1 could even be extended from “free” to include “significantly cheaper than normal price,” such as loss leaders or door buster deals.

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  • I need to watch this video of yours everyday!

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  • Thanks for what you do, from Russian fans)

    AlexAlexÅr siden
  • FakeBook is free, that's not worth a $1 either.

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  • Why is your mouth bigger than your face? Are you real or just an AI generated fake?

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  • About the money thing... When asking my money back for me it's not only important to have it back but also that the person/company or whatever just doesn't keep it.

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  • You should do a video on Jim's charisma from The Office

    Snolly GostersSnolly GostersÅr siden
  • Wow! I was especially stung by the projection part. I plead guilty. Thanks for prosecuting me. I needed that.

    Jerry MillsJerry MillsÅr siden
  • And you hit the nail on the head about hypocrisy. I've found that in myself and stamped out the failures when I become self-aware of them, or at least try to.

    Ken DKen DÅr siden
  • No matter what's going on bad in my life, when the cat wants to be sweet, I stop what I'm doing and pay him attention. I always feel better afterwards.

    Ken DKen DÅr siden
    • @Dawn Baker your neck looks thick, are you trans? no judgement.

      OPOP8 måneder siden
    • @OP When the cat wants to be sweet by approaching you for some petting or playtime

      Dawn BakerDawn Baker8 måneder siden
    • "when the cat wants to be sweet" WTF does that mean?

      OPOP10 måneder siden
  • You should do a video on Kris Jenner. This woman is the mastermind behind the Kardashians, it'd be interesting to look into it!

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  • Can you do a vídeo about Thomas shelby ?

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  • #4 Hypocrisy? No. There is no integrity without honesty unless you are a consummate liar! Haha

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  • Disliked because bocce ball is the best.

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  • Usefull good job

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  • Пиздец у него рот огромный! Стрёмно выглядит...

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  • Thanks for the awesome tricks! I definitely have to work on the $1 tip and fixing my projection screen.

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  • когда там перевод уже

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  • Brilliant stuff

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  • NOworld put an ad on this video promoting a deceitful fascist newspaper. I'm not sure if there's something you can do about this, but please look into it. I can't find a way to report it to NOworld from the ad.

    Michael AdlerMichael AdlerÅr siden
  • # 3, social proof:. Warren is a great person, and honest, because the mainstream media says so. Despite she took large donors money, lied to Americans, pretended to be a Native American, pretended to be fired because she was pregnant, thinks it's okay that son's and daughters of the VP should be allowed to take money hundreds of millions of dollars from foreign country that don't have the best interests for our country. Yes, we should love Warren because she looks so wholesome.

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