5 Psychological Tricks Sociopaths Use To Manipulate You

3. feb.. 2020
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It’s scarily true that powerful psychological tricks can be used against us to make good people do bad things.
So in this video we’ll be looking at the realm of persuasion that some call brainwashing to explore the psychological tricks cults, sociopaths, and manipulative others use to make good people do bad things. Hopefully these red flags prevent you from falling victim, either in a toxic relationship or from a predatory organization.


1:59 - #1: Separating you and replacing the family unit.
4:38 - #2: Lingo that disguises what is truly happening.
6:11 - #3: They demonize the asking of questions that threaten their authority.
8:11 - #4: Games or tests that reward obedience.
9:29 - #5: Your own desire to be fair is often used against you.

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  • Manson being jailed is complete BS tbh, he never killed or ordered the murders. If he had a better lawyer he would be a free man

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  • This applies to the Democrat party.

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  • Politics

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  • please check out the Dokkodo The Way of Walking Alone by Miyamoto Musashi

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  • This is a really great video! Sometimes it's not easy to detect manipulation, especially with people we already trust. Thank you for looking out for us!

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  • All of these tricks describe the Jehova’s Witness cult almost perfectly....

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  • What is huge today on social media is forced positivity. The amount of times I have been attacked and verbally abused for daring to voice an opinion that goes against the status quo. Herd mentality has always been rife and theres now this forced morality code you are expected to follow. Ironically the abuse I have received makes my original independent thought and opinion completely negligible by comparison.

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  • Basically the same techniques used by ALL religion. 😶

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  • Charlie was a good guy. Never hurt nobody. There was no "The Family", he just . . . . knew lotsa people. Bugliosi's case reads like a "Scooby Doo" plot.

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  • Self love? What is that and do I deserve it?

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  • The irony of identifying all these red flags then using almost all of them in the ads inserted into the video to get you to buy things or subscribe lol

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  • Sounds like SJWs on twitter

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  • This seems to describe BLM and Antifa to a tee.

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  • Sounds like the tenets of the plandemic that we are all living through.

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  • isn't this *exactly* what 'the left' do? they turn average humans into cult members

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  • I feel like you posted this video in order to gain a "toxic" relationship's that you cause on your own

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  • Damn ! The last mention

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  • Thanks for this

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  • 4:44 Sounds like... Scientology! I believe they are also called supressives or SPs or Suppressive Persons. Interesting.

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  • in modern days any religion is like that lol brainwashing even non believing ppl to accept idea that you gotta respect peoples delusions lol

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  • As someone who survived a cult... this resonated

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  • We can use this for positive reasons.. just narcissists corrupt it... this is what works in people.. if a selfless person did this in the attempt to earn profits for the collective than we can encourage in a win win way that makes people successful and more effective as an entrepreneur! This is how a karate school can bring out the best by letting them get out of things because their resistance reveals the kinds of burdens they ultimately wish they didn’t have because they have tried to reach their highest potential by themselves and came to the Group because they want to transform themselves into a more competitive component. They accept they are in their own way. We have conflict that is us vs ourselves and we need help to overcome our own objectives. You just have to choose wisely in giving others that power over you but someone is worthy and we call this person sensei or master.

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  • There are good reasons to use this too

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  • Amazing, reading the comments. Realized that most of these tactics are being used on us everyday. Religion, politics, and in the workplace.

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  • Sounds like what’s happening to the trans community

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  • Political groups! If you only watch or read from a particular angle, your knowledge is skewed. Good info here.

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  • At school people have walked up to me and placed books in my hand and as I walk away with the book in my hand they ask for money. Then they get mad and ask for it back

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  • Moonies. Who funded Ronald Reagan.

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  • Self love is not the ultimate goal, you shouldnt love yourself if you are hurting others

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  • The analysis of the first two cults is incorrect.

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  • Im a sociopath then. I disagree I'm just a prepared politician

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  • Getting your followers to trip balls on acid while your straight is effective to.

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  • Now did Stalin and Hitler made millions follow 5hem?How did one Psychologist (predicted this coming) 50 years before it happwnd?

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  • Reminds me a lot of Democratic Party aka Cult

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  • Well done.

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  • My ex and his family were using these techniques on me and my former sister in law 🤔🧐🤨

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  • no one: me at 3 am:

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  • So you teach charisma ,then you decry it?

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  • Subscribe now- just slipped it in at -point enrollment was being metaphor used as selling

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  • I have low self-esteem, but bitter and can’t trust anyone. So I’m safe.

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  • This sounds exactly like the sort of techniques that Ddmocrats use! If you disagree with a Democrat they will demonize you, label you and attack your livelihood! Wake up America, the Democrat Party is the "Enemy Within", they are the force that will destroy our Nation from the inside out, which was predicted by former Russia’s Communist leader Nikita Khrushchev.

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  • "The most valuable commodity a manipulator has is your attention." - ÜM

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  • And most of this cults come from the States.

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  • All Trump supporters should pay attention to this ! When it looks like , sounds like and acts like a degenerate sociopathic grifter . Then that's what you got !

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  • So... religion

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  • People that proclaim to be leftists really need to see this video.

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  • so pretty much all churches are cults... got it "Brother"

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  • haha this was funny

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  • Is it just me, or are these five techniques being used by powers that be regarding COVID? ALL FIVE PSYCHOLOGICAL TRICKS have been used by the so-called scientists and experts, communicated by the media, and fomented by mask Nazi followers.

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  • there is a channel call "carisma al instante" that copy all you videos but in spanish

  • I read, her murder was a sacrifice ritual & that she was involved with, satanic hollywierd. I believe that.

  • Are the elites and their media not doing this on a mass scale ? Basic communist playbook

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  • Do you want me to "enroll" by "subscribing"

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  • The worst thing about being manipulated most of your life, is finding out yourself years later because noone told you that you were being manipulated. My mother which i thought loved me only manipulated me into thinking that she did. And this saddens me to the core, i didnt even notice my dad supporting me through all 12 years of manipultion after they divorced. Turns out my mom cant keep her own life in tack, so she makes everyone else help her. Not until now have i realised my dad is simply a loving and generous man. And so have i been, ill keep doing that but from recently and forward only to people that can give true love and passion with no hooks or hidden needs. Life just became wonderful, and once again i feel like i can have raw emotions without subconciously hiding them. Thats all, hope yall can find peace in this manipulative fiesta

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  • This is a tutorial for gas lighting and the MO of the woke movement.

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  • Another wannabe Jesus.

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  • I’ll add these to my arsenal

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  • Sounds exactly as Trump and Fauxnews. And him using twitter 24/7 to scream out his beliefs and control his followers.

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    • NPC: orange man bad beep beep.

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  • This video sounds like 2020 democrats

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    • @M And you sound like someone who apparently didn’t graduate from elementary school.

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    • And You sound like a douchebag trumper

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  • This sounds a hole lot like political correct speech.

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  • Prince Harry should watch this ( Yep I’m talking to you MM )

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    • Lol what

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  • I...may be a sociopath. I do most of these things and don't even realize I'm doing it most of the time.

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  • Start at 1:43 to skip the college filler

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  • Omg I’m a cult

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  • Who else watching this to try and see if they have sociopathic tendencies..?

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    • You need to watch a video to see what you are? Lame

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  • Finna use this for personal gains now

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  • The democrat party are now using these tactics

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  • Just a few bad apples eh, Sifu? I hope someone knows what I’m talking about.

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  • It’s crap when other groups other than the church use these tricks, when it’s others it’s a cult or communist.

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  • "Games or tests that reward obedience" So literally 80% of long term relationships with women in the US lol

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  • Guyanese?

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  • Sounds like the Democratic Party and progressive liberals

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  • I do all of these things. Wow, I’m terrible...

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  • #2 describes the current state of the American Democratic Party.

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  • Your body language tells a lot. Your personal life shouldnt be shared freely with anyone.

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  • The religion I believed in for 28 years of my life, is by definition, a cult!

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  • My mom-- 1. Go to your room. 2. Stop playing with your woowoo. 3. Because I said so, that's why. 4. Finish your carrots and only then may you have ice cream. 5. Tell your sister you're sorry...Now! Conclusion: All moms are sociopathic cult leaders.

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  • They are VERY manipulative, but you're mispronouncing "Narcissist"

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  • Jim Jones was a c.i.a agent... it's well documented... do your on research... it's not hard to find...

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  • I'm gonna show my mom this video so she'll realise christianity was created by a sociopath

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  • Manipulators.. like the advertisers..

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  • So.. like boost mobile.. pc metro does.. slows down my service at end of the month. Or claims I used too much data.. on my unlimited service.

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  • sounds like the team meeting dynamics at most jobs

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  • CNN does all of this on a daily basis.

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  • Charles Manson was a fictional character played by George W Bush. The Tate murder was a hoax to taint the anti war and peace movements and bring in a police state through the war on drugs.

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  • The sad truth is that this is everywhere.

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    • My soon to be ex wife has worked tirelessly at driving a wedge between my family and myself but to paraphrase Dr. Martin Luther King the truth is light and eventually it always shines thru and exposes the darkness. The darkness in this case was my wife’s lies and manipulation to cause chaos and attempt to control , use , abuse and destroy me.

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  • Liberals hate questions😂 TRUMP 2020

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  • Watching this video matches exactly what liberal progressives have been doing the last 20-30 years

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  • at 5:45, are you telling me that Raniere or however you spell it was banging THAT blonde? Revenge of the Nerds, indeed. Are they still in business? Not asking for me, I was just wondering.....

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  • its funny that he became a biggest manipulator and serial killer by never murdering anyone and only telling the truth.

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  • this is great advise, it will make it so much eser to have my girlfriend under control

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  • What is the movie that keeps getting shown with Kevin Spacey? Thank you for your time I see your development.

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  • I still think it’s kinda messed up that Manson took all the blame for the acts that his cult committed. We all have personal responsibility and the people who actually did the killings got off. Something about this really bothers me

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    • @Darren MacWhirter no yeah I understand his role it’s the fact that his hands were not involved in the actual violence. My point is I can tell someone to go do something horrific but the person choosing to follow my directions is the one who is doing the damage and they are ultimately responsible for their actions. It’s just my pov.

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    • He was their leader

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  • Hey! Churches, too, do all the very 5 tricks on you.

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  • The founder of Speechify belongs to the pack.

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  • Look at every modern military. They have brainwashing down to an art.

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    • We've been doing it for a long, long time... I remember my Army days....how great it felt to be "in the center" of that group of young men By your mid-twenties...you start to drift away...wife and kids....normal lifespan evolution transcends "group" needs But...damn....I still miss that feeling And kinda wonder what I'd do....the things I'd give up to feel that way again Could I be the guy turning the valve in the gas chamber? Don't know Could I be the guy unloading the cattle cars? Sure...too easy "Banality of evil"

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