How To Be Effortlessly Charming In Any Conversation

10. aug.. 2020
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Jamie Foxx is insanely charismatic. Some people mistakenly think that he's just an over the top comedian. While Jamie sometimes uses physical comedy, he's a magnetic storyteller and an amazing conversationalist. He can even lead a conversation just by listening and asking the right questions.
Today we're going to break down a few of Jamie's habits, and how you can use these habits to become funnier, more magnetic, and a more likeable listener.

0:00 - Intro.
0:43 - #1: Set a playful tone from the start.
2:45 - #2: Use a self burn with no heat.
4:23 - #3: Tell present tense stories with a variety of voices.
6:00 - #4: Use a "cliffhanger" pause.
7:50 - #5: Be a likeable listener.
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  • If I start doing this doesn't it mean I m not the way I m and I m fakeing things for attraction I mean its not real me I like to be silent around people I dont how does things work out

    Musadiq AhmedMusadiq Ahmed16 dager siden
  • Why do I care if someone is confident. Good for them. Idc what people think. They can think I'm insecure. Makes no difference to me.

    chad beatschad beats25 dager siden
  • I dont find him magnetic or funny at all.

    chad beatschad beats25 dager siden
  • If you ask me what's better than Jamie's social kills, id tell you the editing on this video. This is impressive work.

    got no namegot no name25 dager siden
  • I love these videos. They're my daily go-to to feel good and hope I can be a stronger person. Thanks for bringing me this feeling 💚

    Anthony R.Anthony R.26 dager siden
  • Instead of asking things like "did that feel good?" Ask "how did that feel?" Open ended questions about people's feelings on certain things, especially positive things, will bring a lot more interest and emotion to your conversations.

    Waking Up To LifeWaking Up To LifeMåned siden
  • Here's a tip for using what they're teaching here: Try it out when it doesn't matter. People watching may find themselves training for something specific, but you will find value by using these tips in everyday life, like when you're buying something at the gas station. That clerk isn't your boss, or a girl you like, or someone you think you need to connect with, but they will give you solid feedback on how your conversation is going. I want to know if anyone is doing this...I'll tell you my experiences. Talk about this in the replies!

    Daniel KhuuDaniel KhuuMåned siden
  • You need to do Anthony Mackie

    Cheery CCheery CMåned siden
  • Ok... I can totally make fun of my self, that's easy right... but when he said "burn with no heat" all my self deprecating jokes just went to waste

    Kyra HoltsclawKyra HoltsclawMåned siden
  • I have seen very fewer movies of his but i can confirm he is a gr8 actor and best for acting a innocent guy

    Ananth SundaramAnanth Sundaram2 måneder siden
  • Jamie Foxx is an incredible actor. Very profound and inspirational. Shout out from Jamaica.

    Sheldon WrightSheldon Wright2 måneder siden
  • I was paying attention until Sarah Silverman turned up.. then my brain stopped working, happens

    Sydney DrumsSydney Drums3 måneder siden
  • To bad he's a black supremacist.

    Dana GrayDana Gray3 måneder siden
  • A lot of black people in general are very charismatic

    Anonymous AccountAnonymous Account3 måneder siden
  • Take lots of iron supplements. That will make you more magnetic.

    John FlorioJohn Florio3 måneder siden
    • Even phenibut!

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  • I like your videos because you start talkink from the START

    Baking ChodaBaking Choda3 måneder siden
  • can u make more videos using women as examples in the future

    Anna parra jordanAnna parra jordan3 måneder siden
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    DJ Venky musicDJ Venky music3 måneder siden
  • never heard of this guy in my life

    AkabearclawAkabearclaw3 måneder siden
  • Amazing video guys! My favourite part was the playful tone

    Ben ErdelyiBen Erdelyi3 måneder siden
  • Magnetic is not the same as laughed at...

    babajamiacobabajamiaco4 måneder siden
  • Wow this was so much fun to watch! Thank you!!

    Nick PorterNick Porter4 måneder siden
  • Whats the question tho

    Sam AnthaSam Antha4 måneder siden
  • You do the best personality analysis down there bro.

    RajdeepRajdeep4 måneder siden
  • Bro, this content is simply amazing. Keep it up.

    The LemonThe Lemon4 måneder siden
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    Nicholaus RogersNicholaus Rogers5 måneder siden
  • All great advice, but I’d use the phrase “talk about” sparingly imo. Sounds very “interview” like, and that can kill the mood quickly. Would make sure it’s used on a question topic that’s guaranteed to land, and while using a lot of enthusiasm/genuineness like Jamie.

    SuperPapajewSuperPapajew5 måneder siden
  • What is smile priming? I didn't get it

    David AlexDavid Alex5 måneder siden
  • Could you possibly break down norm macdonald

    Damon NealDamon Neal5 måneder siden
  • This was a great video.

    Kisha LeeKisha Lee5 måneder siden
  • Gentle reminder he's 53 this year still rocking a 35 y.o. looking body

    MrPanSzymonMrPanSzymon6 måneder siden
  • I watch these NOworld videos to study how to interact with my friends. What a strange, disappointing life.

    Paul CaridiPaul Caridi6 måneder siden
  • 8:41 OMG that neckline is nuts!

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  • Powerful segment. Learnt a lot thanks..

    Big ElectronBig Electron6 måneder siden
  • I’ve gained some incredible insights in these videos. Thank you

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  • I need to say this again... this podcast is gold.

    Crunk Van NizzleCrunk Van Nizzle7 måneder siden
  • Hi, can you please do a video on Tekashi 69 and how to be charming when people want to hate you (something like that ). His interviews are very interesting.

    Rocking RondaRocking Ronda7 måneder siden
  • Insecure people please pay attention to this video! If you know you're insecure don't make self depreciating jokes because that's just awkward for everyone involved.

    Jax LinesJax Lines7 måneder siden
  • Stop this cope, the best way to be the most magnetic person in the room is to look good.

    Greyson BennettGreyson Bennett8 måneder siden
  • Next time, could you please talk about Zendaya? It would me amazing 😉

    ChryChry8 måneder siden
  • Plz do Ricky Gervais

    Not your financial advisorNot your financial advisor8 måneder siden
  • I am a good story teller so i don t have to wary about this =)

    Radu GrosuRadu Grosu8 måneder siden
  • LOOOOOOOOOVE JAMIE!!! I’ve met him a few times in my lifetime and he’s the most consistent human I’ve ever met!

    Loving MemoriesLoving Memories8 måneder siden
  • 5:55 , pick one , Jamie : does the one finger gesture

    Mac JonesMac Jones8 måneder siden
  • God, American talk shows are horrible.

    JajalaatmaarJajalaatmaar8 måneder siden
  • Damn he really likes Suits

    Applicable AppleApplicable Apple8 måneder siden
  • Naa Jamie Foxx is incredibly attractive and charismatic 😘😘😘😘😘😘

    Amrita HoreAmrita Hore8 måneder siden
  • Ok, so nex time i go to Jimmy Kimmel show ill do the wave

    dethaxe 79dethaxe 798 måneder siden
  • You care about what people will think of you only if you let them live.

    YokkyYokky8 måneder siden
  • love it thanks for sharing

    Arrogant Knats BCNArrogant Knats BCN8 måneder siden
  • "I was" is not the present tense, as all your examples showed. That's elementary school grammar...

    Blunt KatanaBlunt Katana8 måneder siden
  • I'm already the most magnetic person in any room, I repel people away from me

    NotRickyNotRicky8 måneder siden
    • Damn 💀

      Ali SaainAli Saain8 måneder siden
  • The burn with no heat thing is interesting... I’ve definitely said things before which have had too much heat and wondered why the convo took a weird turn where people have to say ‘noo that’s not true ’ or something 😅 love these videos

    reallymagnoliareallymagnolia8 måneder siden
  • love him

    dolla mahmooddolla mahmood8 måneder siden
  • you have already covered him before... same things again

    Jason GrJason Gr9 måneder siden
    • @Benjamin Altman I am pretty sure you have covered that he is enthusiastic with the crowd during his intro to Kimmel before.

      Jason GrJason Gr8 måneder siden
    • I don’t believe we’ve covered Jamie Foxx before. Can you link me to the video?

      Benjamin AltmanBenjamin Altman9 måneder siden
  • What is the movie or tv show at 1:30 or so being referenced?

    FlamingManofIronFlamingManofIron9 måneder siden
    • @Benjamin Altman Thank you! I never watched that one.

      FlamingManofIronFlamingManofIron8 måneder siden
    • Suits

      Benjamin AltmanBenjamin Altman9 måneder siden
  • Guess I'm a piece of plastic because I don't find myself attracted 😂

    ノアエールXANDERハリスノアエールXANDERハリス9 måneder siden
    • Y'all got it - because metals attract????? MY MIND.

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  • Video idea: charisma during a pandemic, like through a mask and/or over zoom.

    Sweet DreamerSweet Dreamer9 måneder siden
    • I can't tell if this is supposed to be serious or sarcastic.

      Dana GrayDana Gray3 måneder siden
    • yesss especially with a mask on, I feel like social cues become harder to read

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  • Can you please make a video about Priyanka Chopra's charisma? I find her very charismatic!

    Anita AnilAnita Anil9 måneder siden
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    Vyacheslav ChyrukVyacheslav Chyruk9 måneder siden
  • Can you do a video on Chip Gaines?!

    h_spriggs23h_spriggs239 måneder siden
  • Can you also make one about Jeff wittek He is really charming

    Brown E GirlBrown E Girl9 måneder siden
  • Can we get a video about Harry styles please

    Brown E GirlBrown E Girl9 måneder siden
  • You guys should write a book, you are amazing!

    Rania KhalilRania Khalil9 måneder siden
  • What do you think about video on Brooklyn 99? Maybe Jake's charisma breakdown

    BakiBaki9 måneder siden
  • I even wanted to buy your course, but the price is just so over the roof. Like I would never get even close to being able to afford this. Its crazy

    Vee LynchVee Lynch9 måneder siden
  • @Charisma could you do a video analyzing Peter Joseph? The way he speaks and presents information is almost hypnotic.

    King SarathosKing Sarathos9 måneder siden
  • Can you make a video in regards to Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez' charisma and what makes her so appealing when she speaks

    Steven EvenSteven Even9 måneder siden
  • We need a charisma video of Lucifer or One of the Characters from Money heist

  • Techniques are key, but also the content of the story is the payoff. Fun activities, young women approaching him, interactions with other celebrities all indicate value and that makes people want to listen.

    NelsonNelson9 måneder siden
  • I dont know why, but being a magnetic person would be one of my worst nightmares. I hate constant attention to me. I enjoy being in the background all the time. And I'm not even afraid of talking to a ton of people and I'm confident enough to face a crowd but only if the situation requires me to do so.

    So Sick And Tired Of All The Needless BeatingSo Sick And Tired Of All The Needless Beating9 måneder siden
  • Man I've just came upon your channel in the last few hours and I've went on a binge watch since then. Love your channel and advice !! It definitely helps me and I enjoy watching and hearing your ideas and perspective of how to do things. I can have super bad anxiety traits when it comes to conversation and I find your advice very relieving and enjoyable! Any videos on how to act correctly and charismatic around those you're attracted to? When you have horrible social skills and are anxiety ridden?

    Dustin FarleyDustin Farley9 måneder siden
  • Charisma breakdown on Robert Pattinson!

    Ryan ProctorRyan Proctor9 måneder siden
  • Easy steps to be better at talking: 1: Talk with a happy, hype, style(meaning be a bit more louder but not to crazy) 2: use your body and hands when you talk to show how the story goes if they were there. 3: be a listener and ask open ended questions(examples: tell me your opinion about ....., oh my thats seems interesting how you ....and how did you do it, can you talk about ..........) 4: Smile with your eyes and talk with a smile. 5: understand what the other person is saying and ask questions that you generally like about it or something that seems interesting.

    Asian Cat EaterAsian Cat Eater9 måneder siden
  • Please do XXXTENTACION. He's built a very loyal fan base that feels close to him without even knowing him. The way he expresses himself and communicates is so fascinating!

    smileyfacesmileyface9 måneder siden
  • only one point that I have noticed is that he put people on his 1st priority & only go against himself without making himself down

    Shoaib Zaib MughalShoaib Zaib Mughal9 måneder siden
  • PLEASE make a video about Anthony Mackie. I'd love to hear what you'd say about him. Anyway, loved the video!

    Letícia SLetícia S9 måneder siden
  • Do Tom Ellis in Lucifer 🙏🙏

    Daniel Wilson musicDaniel Wilson music9 måneder siden
  • can you do a video on harry styles? he’s everyone’s dream guy. im a dude but i def see why

    raphael goraphael go9 måneder siden
    • Ummm...

      Esteban BEsteban B9 måneder siden
  • See, but... what if you don’t really have stories worth telling? It seems like a lot of “stories” I have don’t really follow an interesting narrative. Like bits and pieces of it might be funny, but it’s not funny enough to tell as a complete story, thus making it hard to be a good storyteller.

    Chris HChris H9 måneder siden
  • Excuse me but I came here to become Magnito

    Trynn V.Trynn V.9 måneder siden
  • 3:20 hardik pandya is one of my favourite cricketer

    draco _007draco _0079 måneder siden
  • please make video about forrest gump personality. love ❤️ from Nepal

    suvash gcsuvash gc9 måneder siden
  • Why i really dont like jimmy Kimmel!?

    _ Abdu_ Abdu9 måneder siden
  • You say he tells stories in present tense, but he is using the past tense.

    TamTam9 måneder siden
  • Love his performance in Django

    Rody HDRody HD9 måneder siden
  • Nailed the humorous self deprecation today at work with a couple of colleagues... 1st colleague commented about a skinny colleague 2 (jokily) saying “Don’t you just hate these skinny girls!” Colleague 2 replied “I’m not skinny!” Looking at me to back her up! To which I replied, “girl! I could eat your body weight!” For the win!

    Billo PadBillo Pad9 måneder siden
  • Instruction unclear - now the wrong site of the magnet

    Lilit PotterLilit Potter9 måneder siden
  • "Where is he right now, we're here for Emit Smith, do you have any jokes for him? I'm your conscious "

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  • Is charisma unitversity a lifetime course?

    RomanRoman9 måneder siden
  • do norm mcdonald

    Eli JabarEli Jabar9 måneder siden
  • Can you please do a charisma breakdown vid on Rihanna? Great video btw😗

    hitharderthanatrainhitharderthanatrain9 måneder siden
  • 0:43 - #1: Set a playful tone from the start. 2:45 - #2: Use a self burn with no heat. 4:23 - #3: Tell present tense stories with a variety of voices. 6:00 - #4: Use a "cliffhanger" pause. 7:50 - #5: Be a likeable listener.

    LL9 måneder siden
    • Thanks, 'that guy'

      WT_NeptuneWT_Neptune6 måneder siden
    • Thank you!!!

      reallymagnoliareallymagnolia8 måneder siden
    • Thank you!!

      SiljanenSiljanen9 måneder siden
  • Answer: be Jamie Foxx

    HarrisonHarrison9 måneder siden
  • It's either you have it or yoiu don't. Don't force it

    Sam MelodiaSam Melodia9 måneder siden
  • How to be the most magnetic person in the room?? Wear a metal jacket

    Storm LordStorm Lord9 måneder siden