5 Ways To Develop Charisma Faster

21. nov.. 2019
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Learning things slowly is a bummer. Unfortunately, that is the route I see people go when it comes to learning confidence and charisma.
That's why in this video I want to give you 5 tips for taking everything you've learned on this channel, and making it an unthinking habit much more quickly.

2:22 - #1: Test your hypothesis in the real world.
2:43 - #2: Be aware of what makes a charismatic impression on you.
4:15 - #3: Bounce your ideas off a friend.
4:29 - #4: Don't try to do everything at once.
5:26 - #5: Model someone you look up to.
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  • I can't stop focusing on his eyebrows. With His facial expressions, it looks like a flying bird

    KINGKING6 måneder siden
  • Thanks for all the help man I started watching your videos since I was in high school and haven't looked back.

    Daniel BurfordDaniel Burford6 måneder siden
  • This is a Manual to the channel.

    Samarth HadaSamarth Hada7 måneder siden
  • I just want to know how to act like a human.

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  • 4:30 ummm...... bruh... I’ve watched like 30 of these videos 🤦‍♂️

    imtrexyimtrexy8 måneder siden
  • It was great to see you talking through a different medium as well as seeing your thought process. It made me appreciate the videos that you produce a lot more. I also subscribed to your new podcast! I'm interested in hearing you talk more.

    Colleen BoydColleen Boyd9 måneder siden
  • When I started watching HIMYM in 8th grade I taught me to be more confident and now that I don't watch TV I just feel boring. Guess I gotta do what y'all say and watch 5 minutes of someone in the mindset I want to be in.

    AmotzAmotz9 måneder siden
  • The Universe loves me!!! Simply thought about working on my Charisma and first impressions and you pop up on my feed!! Such an amazing channel. Thank you

    Lindsay PruittLindsay Pruitt9 måneder siden
  • I do the opposite of what you guys do. For example; I really hate how approachable people think I am, soooo, not to do anything too rash... I decided to look homeless! I have found people avoid even making eye contact with me like "oh no! He's gonna ask me for change!". what is really nice about this (besides avoiding small talk and increasing my productivity) is I have set people's expectations for myself, extremely low! Why is this important? One it's incredibly easy to impress someone and two people are less needy.

    Kronk EL KuzcoKronk EL Kuzco9 måneder siden
  • This might be weird to say but sir, you have a nice big friedly smile

    fruit loopsfruit loops9 måneder siden
  • есть русские?)

    Диана ГазимоваДиана Газимова9 måneder siden
  • wouw

    Israel Aguilar LuaIsrael Aguilar Lua9 måneder siden
  • Well you didnt apply it on you..

    CarlaCarla9 måneder siden
  • I like How this guy smiles

    Duck duckDuck duck10 måneder siden
  • This was incredibly helpful.

    Mr. RogersMr. Rogers10 måneder siden
  • Hey guys, love your channel! I'm sort of new, so do you have advice on charisma to and by women? Love the channel, but I personally noticed some of the things I do as a woman can be seen as threatening or bossy (mostly taking leadership and having initiative), and so I wanted to know how to act accordingly in order to keep the peace (especially it's an elephant in the room no one else wants to talk about). Cheers!

    Sofia PagenSofia Pagen10 måneder siden
  • why does you translate your videos to portuguese?

    Lucas ALucas A11 måneder siden
  • Good stuff

    Joshua TylerJoshua Tyler11 måneder siden
  • Doesn’t work if it’s ugly and no one wants to approach you

    iznaizna11 måneder siden
  • Would love to see some more philosophy videos from you. It's arguably one of the most important things in our lives. What good is it to be charismatic if you don't know to what end or what for? Maybe look to CosmicSkeptic/Sam Harris for some inspiration. Much love, man!

    Dan CenowDan Cenow11 måneder siden
  • Great video! I am not bashing now, I just wonder, didn't anyone else heard at 8:20 Charlie saying "in the description in the link below" :D :D

    Plamen DobrevPlamen Dobrev11 måneder siden
  • This is going to help me immensely! Thank you!

    Ferris 1313Ferris 131311 måneder siden
  • 6:33 Solid point there. Once you start watching something or binge watch a show you start picking up things you don't even realise about a certain character you like. And most people tend to pick up the most snarky person as he/she is he most entertaining one and suddenly you are trying to be them without really knowing it.

    v1d300v1d30011 måneder siden
  • Won't lie, it might be nitty and gritty, but I live for that niche kind of thinking. That's my life, I guess I've been doing it without the same form of execution as you guys, but I for one vote for it. Great content.

    200ike200ike11 måneder siden
  • What if I don't have a buddy to bounce off ideas with? That's pretty hard since the only like minded person I know of is me.

    R.C. BeringuelaR.C. Beringuela11 måneder siden
  • Could you guys do a breakdown of Mr. Inbetween at some point? Is he a psychopath?

    SmackyMc ProductionsSmackyMc Productions11 måneder siden
  • Do a video on Bobby Lee that guy crazy but funny af and he’s charismatic

    ManuelManuel11 måneder siden
  • I'm serious, your mouth movements are distracting and I myself have no idea if I mean it in a good or a bad way...

    VVen0mVVen0m11 måneder siden
  • Can you do a charisma breakdown of Steven Crowder? One of the least likely survivors of the “ad-pocolypse” who has actually thrives better than most

    Michael J. McCallMichael J. McCall11 måneder siden
  • Man, you guys have such great videos. And this one is really cool, being a podcast that's more in a conversational setting. Anyway, keep it up guys. You and Thomas Frank are the best.

    Kelly P. SmithKelly P. Smith11 måneder siden
  • For a guy who makes videos on how to be charismatic, I don't find you very charismatic jkjk

    Manas C.ZManas C.Z11 måneder siden
  • Would love to hear your take on Mr. Rogers!

    Geoffrey ZorefGeoffrey Zoref11 måneder siden
  • A DAVID DOBRIK charisma breakdown. Make it happen, Charlie. 1M views GUARANTEED.

    TIP TOEING TO THE TOP !!TIP TOEING TO THE TOP !!11 måneder siden
  • I love the style of this video in which Charlie and Ben are discussing the points of charisma together. More videos of this type would be greatly appreciated, as the conversation between the two of you is very informative but more importantly deeply engaging. Thanks! :)

    Simon RSimon R11 måneder siden
  • I would love to watch a video of you guys explaining how does a charisma video come to life :))

    Pickles0107Pickles010711 måneder siden
  • I love how positive the comments are for these videos

    MonkeyFaceAndTheBoysMonkeyFaceAndTheBoys11 måneder siden
  • I'd love to see how your videos are made because I have an interest in a career of filmmaking and content creation. I've found alot of wisdom in your videos, and it would be nice to see other types of wisdom

    Jack HermanJack Herman11 måneder siden
  • Charlie PLEASE and I mean PLEASE, do a charisma video on Denzel Washington. There’s so much material to work with

    Deandre FombyDeandre Fomby11 måneder siden
  • step 1: watch his how to learn anything 10 times faster video

    MondaayMondaay11 måneder siden
  • How to learn charisma faster - watch these videos in 2x speed.

    Andrew MazurAndrew Mazur11 måneder siden
    • Good one lol

      YaboiAJYaboiAJ2 måneder siden
    • That's how I watch most videos.

      Ricardo Zende KambindaRicardo Zende Kambinda5 måneder siden
  • hi can u do a video on kpop star GDragon charisma tactics and personality please

    ayssh aayssh a11 måneder siden
  • This girl was talking to me about how my zodiac sign is forever trying to “learn how to act human” And the first thing I thought of was how much I watch these videos! Anyways, please reply with your zodiac sign I’d like to see who mostly watches these videos! 👽

    CharliGirlToastCharliGirlToast11 måneder siden
    • I’m not a Leo so now I think horoscopes are a bunch of b.s. 🥴

      CharliGirlToastCharliGirlToast11 måneder siden
    • I am a leo too

      i don't knowi don't know11 måneder siden
    • CharliGirlToast I’m a Leo who’s trying to find his roar

      Young Jinzo21Young Jinzo2111 måneder siden
  • Interested in making a wholesome video on Joker like pewds did?

    Gurkirat SinghGurkirat Singh11 måneder siden
  • Bro,go to ANALYTICS Lucifer Morningstar's

    Ser1ckanov anksSer1ckanov anks11 måneder siden
  • Charisma is basically the mystic layman term for the general public about public speaking, first impression, communication theory and mindset, and social skill. There are books and course for all of them on coursera and amazon

    Alan HhhAlan Hhh11 måneder siden
  • So I like this girl A LOT. Me and her always talk in class at school. Like a lot. She’s always happy but when she talks to me she seems different but in a good way. We kinda play fight a lot too. I catch her looking at me a lot too and sometimes she’ll just tease me or joke around with me. Another time I was with her and my best friend and I was waiting for him and she asked if her and I should just leave together without him. Sometimes we get a little touchy and she’s fine when I have my hand on her and we’re never afraid to make eye contact. Idk if she actually likes me though or is just being really friendly. If anyone could maybe give me your thoughts that would be appreciated.

    Isaiah RosarioIsaiah Rosario11 måneder siden
  • I might be high but is that guys mouth massive and the other one has massive teeth?

    rice cuprice cup11 måneder siden
  • Can you do a video about Michael B Jordan?

    S4TW-31 Wan TomS4TW-31 Wan Tom11 måneder siden
  • Commenting on every video I see part 663

    Nikodim ZafirovskiNikodim Zafirovski11 måneder siden
  • Sorry, can’t take you seriously, you’re mouth’s too big

    Tyler MaendelTyler Maendel11 måneder siden
  • Can you make a video about handling anxiety or hard to answer questions at family gatherings? Like why arnt you married yet?

    Connie ParkerConnie Parker11 måneder siden
  • I love to think about that when Im looking over to someone "famous" I look up to Charlie and Ben...lol

    Santiago TorresSantiago Torres11 måneder siden
  • Please do a personality breakdown on Ryan Reynolds

    Faisal AlbisherFaisal Albisher11 måneder siden
  • Negan from walking dead

    Faraz TahaFaraz Taha11 måneder siden
  • love you guys, you both are great

    G RG R11 måneder siden
  • Didn't find the description in the link below lmao 😂

    BIG SMOKEBIG SMOKE11 måneder siden
  • Hey man can you do a video about Jurgen klopp.

    Hassan AliHassan Ali11 måneder siden
  • HE said BB Ki Vines ? at end !?

    Siddharth ShahSiddharth Shah11 måneder siden
  • The metaanalysis and help on how to approach using your videos and charisma university are really great. Hope to get more of it. I also really love the listeners questions in the podcast! Your advice to the guy who recently moved from India and was feeling overwhelmed with the charisma assignments he was giving himself was gold - as helpful as any video you've made.

    Fenix KageFenix Kage11 måneder siden
  • Wow uh . . . Idk how I feel about this video cause this video is just a clip of his podcast (which he does regularly.) But using the thumbnail to imply it's actually a new video. This feels kinda of scummy and lazy but worst of all clickbaity and I hate that I have to say that about this channel. :( I'm not lying that I wouldn't be saying this critisism if the guy at least highlighted at the end parts of the podcast and did a recap to show some effort :ccccc Plz try to be better than that for your channel 🙏

    wisdomTOASTwisdomTOAST11 måneder siden
  • You should make a Mac demarco video (not at all related to my profile pic lol) but he has a way of speaking and joking with people that makes him magnetic and welcoming! I think it would be pretty cool

    davefuccdavefucc11 måneder siden
  • Is this remind you of 5s rule?

    George's NGeorge's N11 måneder siden
  • I’ve studied social skills for a long time and I 100% agree with this. I’ve always modeled the people I found most charismatic and learned their style of skill. Jason Capital was my first ever actual role model that I genuinely modeled and I don’t regret one bit of it. Thanks for the awesome tips, guys!

    Alex Platinum DatingAlex Platinum Dating11 måneder siden
  • Anyone here in the comments that actually has used/paid for his Charisma University course?

    SyntheticKillSyntheticKill11 måneder siden
  • how to approach SSB Interview ?

    KABIR PANDITKABIR PANDIT11 måneder siden
  • Listening to 1 video a day from Charisma on Command, and implementing it makes it doable and effective. Let’s not rush changes. Small progress is still progress!

    JohnnyProgressJohnnyProgress11 måneder siden
  • If you follow the 4th rule do one thing at a time, since that’s a thing, you won’t progress at all.

    John de GreefJohn de Greef11 måneder siden
  • You have watched this video and all the other one from this channel so tell me : why does nothing changed in your life and why you're still note charismatic ?

    Nero PegasoNero Pegaso11 måneder siden
  • How do all Americans get those amazing teeth? Nobody British has teeth like that. You all look like jehovas witnesses. How do you do it? I haven’t heard half of what you are saying. I am so distracted by the teeth, the clean shiny skin and the chiselled jawline.

    Moth’s MummyMoth’s Mummy11 måneder siden
  • I holistically agree on the first fourth steps, but not the step number 5 merely to avoid impersonating others and protect individuality.

    Reo CalserReo Calser11 måneder siden
  • Tips for having energy to be charismatic? If it's physically draining can you really be charismatic?

    TovashiTovashi11 måneder siden
  • I would love to see how you do your breakdowns. Great video!

    Influence TrainerInfluence Trainer11 måneder siden
  • does it matter where the guy is to write these? Do you still look for one to hire?

    Alexander KoethAlexander Koeth11 måneder siden
  • Simon cowell charisma

    Adam BouhadouAdam Bouhadou11 måneder siden
  • I like his timing 🙌🏼

    Snow FlowsetSnow Flowset11 måneder siden
  • The idea to do ONE THING at a time is so powerful. You might think you are learning so much when you try to get 3 or 5 or 10 habits going at the same time, but you get absolutely NOTHING from it. With one thing, you go slowly but have a way higher chance of incorporating what you are learning. Rather slowly getting something than nothing while being "productive"

    William JahnWilliam Jahn11 måneder siden

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  • I'm really wanting to watch your podcast, but youtube is complicated for it, do you think about uploading it on Deezer or something like ?

    Luca TarotLuca Tarot11 måneder siden
  • take some shrooms and lsd

    Play FramePlay Frame11 måneder siden
  • hey wtf you are talking about are you crazy

    Hooper InstinctHooper Instinct11 måneder siden
  • thank you for your content. it''s wholesome, positive, and applicable. journeys are done one step at a time: one charismatic trait at a time

    Julien CraigJulien Craig11 måneder siden
  • I'd love to see how a breakdown is made. I think it would be v interesting.

    Tasnim JacksonTasnim Jackson11 måneder siden
  • Best advice I got from this - People don't want to know how to make the sausage, they just want to eat the hotdog. Literally a lightbub moment! 💡😲

    Jordan WoodallJordan Woodall11 måneder siden
  • Please do a video where you explain how to reject someone nicely!

    PromaProma11 måneder siden
  • Just The Tip

    darknmydarknmy11 måneder siden
  • Forget charisma...you guys should tell people how to get a job at Burisma

    Wilson WieggelWilson Wieggel11 måneder siden
  • Make Israel Adesanya breakdown :)

    Real GReal G11 måneder siden
  • I would be interested in a breakdown of a breakdown!

    Naj RenchelfNaj Renchelf11 måneder siden
  • 4:05 Charlie, you guys are literally my Bromance goals

    XX360SniperJesusXX NoScopingJudasXX360SniperJesusXX NoScopingJudas11 måneder siden
  • “With the description in the link below.” Bit of an oof friendo XD

    N8's Lax LifeN8's Lax Life11 måneder siden
  • Yes! I love watching once upon a time, their believe in lasting love really helps me put effort in my relationship

    cutelittledevil88cutelittledevil8811 måneder siden
  • I 100% agree that you become the people you watch. Growing up, I watched lots of Malcolm in the Middle, and I became just as cynical and bitter as malcolm as a teenager. I've found lots of better influences over the years, I would say my favorite right now are the Impractical jokers. watch those guys for a while and you will feel way more confident going up to people.

    Imagine if the Internet was realImagine if the Internet was real11 måneder siden
  • Do Cardi B or Ja'mie King Please

    Uriel AdalidUriel Adalid11 måneder siden
  • Wow, where do I apply lol...I'm a writer

    Xian The GaianXian The Gaian11 måneder siden
  • Hey, can you breakdown of Ranveer Singh (Bollywood actor), he is highly charismatic, energetic. Hope you'll think about this suggestion

    Niren VanikNiren Vanik11 måneder siden
  • Really awesome tips bro I've been following these advices for the last couple of years, and the results have been great btw, I'd love to see the process of making those breakdown videos! What you call "not so fun" parts could contain valuables insights for others :)

    Vitor MattosVitor Mattos11 måneder siden
  • I don't know why I watch this anymore as I don't have a problem being charismatic in most situations. I have learned a few things but that was learning that, if you know something and show it, people will automatically follow you if you bring it a certain way. The first problem in charisma then becomes a knowledge problem. Learn something and learn it well. Then you have something to say about it making people follow you for it. There is of course more to it than just that but if you don't understand that yet, this channel is good for you. Just not for me anymore So I hate to say it but, you sadly lost a sub today. Good luck in your future charisma on command ^^

    SilvaSilva11 måneder siden
  • He's handsome, he's smart, he's charming 🏆 Call me 💋

    SJASJA11 måneder siden
  • Make the video guys explaining the process of how you make celebrity breakdown videos!!! That would be interesting

    sarthak patnaiksarthak patnaik11 måneder siden
  • Please do video about mickey rourke.

    Warv KratosWarv Kratos11 måneder siden