6 Easy Ways To Charm Anyone

27. juli. 2020
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Hugh Jackman is one of the most charming people in Hollywood. The best part about his style of charisma is that once you get it down, it’s effortless. Specifically, Hugh has 6 habits that make him charming to almost anyone he meets. After you learn a few of these habits, you can go into any conversation with confidence, knowing you’ll find it’s easy to make people smile, laugh, and love being around you.

0:00 - Intro.
0:40 - #1: Reframe the situations that make you nervous.
2:04 - #2: Be contagiously positive.
4:10 - #3: Give yourself permission to admit to emotions beyond happiness.
5:03 - #4: Own your flaws and don't be afraid to talk about them.
6:37 - #5: Tell sticky stories.
7:47 - #6: Make the people around you feel special.
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  • U can be positive when your rich and gd looking

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  • All these doesn't work if your ugly lol

    Kishore KumarKishore Kumar2 dager siden
  • this is all great, solid, practical advice. I was thrilled to learn I eagerly employ all of these techniques when I'm addressing someone or telling a story- Right on down to spreading eye contact around! Whether consciously or not that's the secret to fearless engagements and my love for public speaking. Over the years I've employed all of these "tricks" (I never viewed them as such, I'm just a very sincere person and I love buttering people up and paying compliments because when people tell me they love to be around me because I make them feel good- well, to me that's just about the best compliment I can get, wouldnt you agree!?) so often and effortlessly they have seemingly become second nature. I believe in doing so consistently without thinking about it to be a testament to your genuine interest and ability to relate to others in itself. There's much to be said for positive social interactions, confidence earned through sincerety and a skillset including the ability to 'work the room'. Curious still, I'll admit here that I grapple with and often succumb to insecurity but I am a human after all! That being said, I can't endorse this video or advice more! What a find. YET it's probably best not to post this on peoples' walls or blow up their feed or repost to their timeline. I cant wait to DISCREETLY share this with those I've seen struggle with such universal (yet often unaddressed + overlooked) things.

    Jay SharpJay Sharp3 dager siden
  • Hugh Jackman is a genuinely nice man. Just being a decent human being helps make you more likeable.

    The Solar NERDThe Solar NERD5 dager siden
  • I love these videos. I struggle with being awkward because I'm autistic so I'm trying to learn how to interact

    Matthew SappMatthew Sapp6 dager siden
  • What he said about approaching auditions like they were rehearsals is DEFINITELY a very effective ability. Job interviews were something that I've always been good at. If I made it to the interview stage I knew my chances of being offered the job were good. I had a sort of mentor when I was younger, in my teens early 20s. He was just one of these people that you meet them, and after 5 minutes if talking you suddenly find yourself making plans with them to do something, and from that point on it seems like you've known them for years. He was in sales, and it was something I went into as a results. Some of the skills I developed as a result, I brought with me right out of the gate. When it comes to job interviews, MANY people aren't really able to accurately gauge how they interview actually went. They come out and are confident that it went great, only to not get the offer. Many times they find out that they actually kind of blew it early in the interview and had no idea. With me it wasn't that I had a huge toolbox of techniques or tricks. Nor did I have a script or outline that I used for every interview. I knew that if by the time they interview was over, i found that if the interviewer was answering more of my questions, then I was answering theirs, it usually went well. This is especially true in interviews for sales positions. I didn't even necessarily have any specific questions I was asking about, as long as they pertained to the position or the company, it seemed to work out well. It doesn't even have to be during the middle of that interview. Sometimes, I wouldn't be able to ask the questions until it actually ended. We'd finish ever they'd wrap up with the "do you have any questions for me?" Which I think most of the time, is just something the interviewer says to cap it off, and don't actually expect you to ask them any. It basically it's just kind of trying to switch the narrative in some way from them interviewing YOU to see if you'd be a good fit, to you interviewing THEM to see if the component is a good fit. Anyway, that's how it's worked out for me.

    tim whitetim white8 dager siden
  • So... being stupendously good looking and talented has nothing to do with it then.

    Kevin PeatKevin Peat9 dager siden
  • 10:00

    shawn burnhamshawn burnham10 dager siden
  • Have you done any video in which you used barney stinson (neil Patrick) as an example??

    Hanumath SandeepHanumath Sandeep11 dager siden
  • Anyone else love van healing (Critic reviews or not) or is that just me?

    Jay BelewJay Belew11 dager siden
  • My biggest problem watching these videos is realizing I already do all of this naturally anyways. Yet it never seems to be enough.

    Adam NowakAdam Nowak12 dager siden
  • I dont care what anyone says, Van Helsing was amazing.

    Drusif SmashingtonDrusif Smashington12 dager siden
  • Are you in love with Hugh Jackman or something?

    Francesca #KETO #OMAD ** SunrisePeoniesLab on EtsyFrancesca #KETO #OMAD ** SunrisePeoniesLab on Etsy16 dager siden
  • Hughes face looks like it’s photoshopped onto someone else in every frame

    Jackson CarterJackson Carter16 dager siden
  • Love Hugh!!!! One of my favorite movies is The Greatest Showman

    zeldahopperzeldahopper16 dager siden
  • Me: a couch potato Also me: ahh yes this will def work

    jacob warrenjacob warren19 dager siden
  • who is the woman on the right side at 10:28 ?

    Brid SoetrisnoBrid Soetrisno20 dager siden
  • Dear Charisma on Demand, what if I don’t feel genuine about anything because I’m not impressed or indifferent about a lot of people ?

    Tashtan TashiTashtan Tashi20 dager siden
  • God, I just love Hugh Jackman, and before he was even The Wolverine, my dad & mine's favorite character of all time. There was a time in my life, when I would watch Kate & Leopold three times a year just to feel good and find the strength to keep going. To this day, that is still my number one guilty pleasure film - every time I feel down or sense that I'm going to be depressed, I just don't think about it anymore, I immediately watch that film. And ever since, he (both Hugh & Leopold) has been my template of how to be a man, and especially, one rightful of a lady's. I haven't convinced my Kate to follow me back to my time & live happily ever after, granted, but I will get there eventually. Hugh Jackman makes me believe that it is possible. Wow, that was so hopeless romantic of me, but whatever. Thanks for being such a great inspiration, man!

    wayfaringshamanwayfaringshaman21 dag siden
  • Compliments work best if there is initially mutual respect.

    ExhumedXxXxExhumedXxXx25 dager siden
  • When aliens come to earth, this channel will be their communication course.

    Math bender MiataMath bender Miata26 dager siden
  • Hi, can you please do a video on Tekashi 69 and how to be charming when people want to hate you (something like that ). His interviews are very interesting.

    Rocking RondaRocking Ronda26 dager siden
  • I mean it doesn’t help that he’s drop dead gorgeous

    Bee Bee BeenzBee Bee Beenz29 dager siden
  • Number three I used to do all the time without realising. Whenever I could tell someone was ashamed of their sadness or something they were going through. I'd share a moment of sadness and doubt of mine to make them feel more comfortable and open and it works every time! The only thing you don't do is make it about you. You let them know that it's nothing to be ashamed of and that they're safe with you. But share a short story of yours and then put the focus back on to them :) Love you everyone! Wishing you happiness and confidence!

    nϒhnϒh29 dager siden
  • Jackman is my favorite male actor! He really is amazing at the craft. Great video, thank you!!

    Gaffe GiraffeGaffe Giraffe29 dager siden
  • And he plays wolverine

    Max4MillionMax4Million29 dager siden
  • coool!!!

    Mayank ShankarMayank ShankarMåned siden
  • You forget one simple rule. You can disagree all you want. Sure all these help. But they almost do not help alot in our current society if you don't have a pretty face. You can use those things to help yourself feel better but as i said in our society it's all about good looks. If you have them and still struggle these things can help you fairly well.

    Justin CaseJustin CaseMåned siden
  • Van Helsing was great tho

    Caitlynn PCaitlynn PMåned siden
  • Just be Nice to yourself. And the rest will follow. Charisma cant be copied it comes from within. I was charismatic for a span of life about 5 - 10 yrs. And I could feel that people would want to come and meet me, talk to me, glare at me in tube...try to be friends with me...tell me im a nice guy....so much So that a. friend of mine Wept to tell me that dont be so nice and genuine....bcoz ppl around dont get what i mean.... Slowly i stopped being nice....just to fkup things for myself ....to give up on that Nice guy image... And gradually lost all my charisma.... i have made ppl distance of me now... from friends to family to every single place. So all in all its in your mindset. Try to implement all those points mentioned above to yourself....it would sound silly if i try to explain ALL those points But ... the very first step is to have an eye contact with ur self first....whenever u stand in front of the mirror. Look at yourself....have an eye contact... smile.... Acknowledge yourself... this whole body that u have is a fantastic creation....every single aspect of it....once you start to acknowledge you learn to appreciate... Once u appreciate the beauty with you....u learn to appreciate the same beauty when u step out of your house... Then gradually u learn to acknowledge the unique skills each of us has been bestowed with... once u acknowledge ur own skills you will evetually come across likeminded ppl ...or will find some similarities or something to appreciate in ppl around you... Like Hugh was skilled to sing...so he knew the knitty gritty's of it and thats why he could appreciate Emily anf that too quite accurately and genuinely and not just randomly.. APPRECIATE. APPRECIATE.APPRECIATE. Thats the real beauty.... Beauty lies in appreciating good things in Life and thats what made me charismatic. ....its just that one got to be in control and not overwhelming....coz once u taste this being Nice to yourself zone u tend to get hyperactive... also it gets sucking for lot of ppl around u...they start to get jealous....as much as they will pull u down with cheap tricks. so just keep it all subbtle....not for anyone to notice. Slide on with your charisma trail...But do prevent yourself from slipping - Like Me. Cheerios Amigos!!

    nikhil tayshetenikhil taysheteMåned siden
  • Love the 85% rule...it’s true.

    M LeeM LeeMåned siden
  • I thought Hellsing was great (:

    Jonas BlomJonas BlomMåned siden
  • Is that brad pitt at 10:45?? What movie is that?

    Faith XuFaith XuMåned siden
  • I think with all these videos there is an implied assumption that these people are not in the moment, and carefully considering what to say next. Hugh Jackman was a PE teacher, a job that required being jncredibly upbeat and encouraging with people. I think it's more likely a learned trait than a conscious choice he puts effort into.

    Dylan BourqueDylan BourqueMåned siden
  • This channel brings so many rules, questions, answers. And so what did you find best way to become funnier, coolest guy in the company? Its good topic for channel but slow down thats what I mean. Too much videos maybe in terms of your financial needs.

    Bozhidar PetrovBozhidar PetrovMåned siden
  • does he seem genuine?

    John PalagyeJohn PalagyeMåned siden
    • @Nikolai Thank you for the great conversation Nikolai hope you are safe and well.

      John PalagyeJohn PalagyeMåned siden
    • @John Palagye yes you are, atleast your comments were, but you wrote them so i guess you are,i is it a bad thing? Yes and no. 1. You should valid you own opinion to the absolute max which is difficult to do even if you the tinny bit insecure. 2. Its funny I imagine you to be very cute, i feel like an teasing a child, dou i am still a adolescent.

      NikolaiNikolaiMåned siden
    • @Nikolai not at all. You're making a judgement based on a few simple statements and questions that I asked about something. I'm trying to understand your perspective though and I appreciate your responding, very interesting. If there is somewhere that I am insecure, which I'm sure there is, I will find it and conquer it :-) And it is awesome the video too which it seems like you agree.

      John PalagyeJohn PalagyeMåned siden
    • @John Palagye i stand by what i said, where's my proof? You are literally explaining your character to me

      NikolaiNikolaiMåned siden
    • @Nikolai Ok i try to understand things from multiple perspectives, not just one simple minded way of thinking

      John PalagyeJohn PalagyeMåned siden
  • Hugh is charming i get it lol

    Alexandria PAlexandria PMåned siden
  • its easy, look like hugh jackman and be filthy rich, and you will charm the pants of 90% of all woman, to be real rich does it alone too lol, the age of Harlot :)=

    Rick SanchezRick SanchezMåned siden
  • 12) Earn and do not spend early in life. Make enough money where you don’t really need it. You are in a much stronger position . I call it the F U money

    Jamessr23Jamessr23Måned siden
  • Its actually not necessary to be contagiously positive. From my experience, making people laugh is the most important way to be sympathetic. I am always acting a bit tilted and annoyed, but by combining this with a constant presence of bonedry humor, I make people laugh and not take my moods that seriousely. You dont have to always be positive, you just have to make others comfortable with your behavior. This is also why silent kids fail to be sympathetic. They act uncomfortable all the time, which makes them 1: obviousely vulnerable to bullys since they see a victim which they can easily target and get funny reactions out of, and 2. makes other people around them feel the same way. Special tip for everyone who is not good at making friends or has low self esteem: Start argueing in forums about everything. Verbal dominance is a huuuge factor when it comes to self-comfort. Someone is verbally attacking you? NEVER stay in the weak position, shoot back. AND, TALK TO PEOPLE. If you think "But they will think im weird", well they certainly will if you dont even try, so nothing is at stake, the situation can only get better

    Elon MustElon MustMåned siden
  • Learning from wolverine. Hell yeaa

    theidntheidnMåned siden
  • Look at his hand at 3:33 in the occul, this means hail satan 1 god. Every super star actor and celebrity does these hand gestures. It might just be coincidence, or it might be that they are part of the occult that bows down to the order of the illuminati. They choose charismatic people. You can be sure that Bree Larson is not part of the illuminati Freemasons, because her people skills are not good enough to be recruited by them. You have to be charismatic enough for them to want you as part of their group.

    Time SpaceTime SpaceMåned siden
  • These videos are great. It is day 1101 among the humans without being identified as "uncanny".

    Brad SBrad SMåned siden
  • sorry but u need to choose subpar looking people science shows we tend to be friendlier and happier around conventionally goodlooking people. And also goodlooking people are naturally confident because people praise them all their lives. Exhibit a: hugh

    lola brinilola briniMåned siden
  • i dont have money and i want to join C.U :/

    TheLastShinobiTheLastShinobiMåned siden
  • Read the art of seduction

    Ezekiel BrownEzekiel BrownMåned siden
  • looks to me likt beta chumps trying too hard.. not impressed

    Gvozden ZmajicGvozden ZmajicMåned siden
  • @CharlieHoupert Is calling people out when they don't pay attention to you during handshake a good thing?

    Elisha BrownsElisha BrownsMåned siden
  • Number 1. Look like Hugh Jackman....

    Gandert Van RamdonkGandert Van RamdonkMåned siden
  • What divides sociopaths/narcissists from you? This is not a rhetorical question.

    Samer HousseinSamer HousseinMåned siden
  • I found myself smilling the whole time just by seeing Hugh

    slamoto2slamoto2Måned siden
  • I’m currently studying acting at University and I think the first minute of this video just changed my life.

    Tamra MarieTamra MarieMåned siden
  • they are charming because they have been builded and boosted by hollywood, then the consequence is that they're charming because of fame and money. this period works for all videos of this and others similar channels. you don't get it, i'm shocked. you confuse the cause-effect relationship

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  • Van Helsing is AWSOME

    Theo PoliviouTheo PoliviouMåned siden

    Michael KrausMichael KrausMåned siden
  • Snake Oil for Every one!!! Type of Salesman.

    Doug HdezDoug HdezMåned siden
  • I don't think this is for introverts

    Remruatkima VuangtuRemruatkima Vuangtu2 måneder siden
  • Ehh seems to hard, can I just be Hugh Jackman instead?

    GokuGoku2 måneder siden
  • I started watching so I could be more charismatic, but I found myself slowly getting interested in Hugh 😂

    Mane KostanyanMane Kostanyan2 måneder siden
  • I don't hate you all. Is it working?

    Random IdiotRandom Idiot2 måneder siden
  • Video: first, be confident Me: ok Video: be positive Me: ok bye

    AnnaAnna2 måneder siden
  • But not if you are a bearded man...

    ΠR2ΠR22 måneder siden
  • You’re comparing an incredibly HOT celeb with a below average guy. But thanks for trying tho

    Venko LessleVenko Lessle2 måneder siden
  • Your videos shows the things that I've been unconsciously doing since I can remember... Which I didn't knew other people are having problems with. You helping them to resolve such challenges is quite amazing and I hope that your channel grew in success even more.

    IzenheartIzenheart2 måneder siden
  • ❤️

  • Anyone here taken charisma university ? What did you think about it?

    Allison MaeAllison Mae2 måneder siden
  • just be Hugh Jackman

    dylan Artsdylan Arts2 måneder siden
  • Huge Yakman

    Tyler HawkinsTyler Hawkins2 måneder siden
  • Uuuhh your goal should not be to charm anyone, that would make you manipulative.

    Azwaa AliAzwaa Ali2 måneder siden
  • ....and being incredibly handsome where most women melt in front of you helps...a little

    jc4jaxjc4jax2 måneder siden
  • Somebody has a crush on Hugh Jackman...

    CameronCameron2 måneder siden
  • just saying ... "CU" in Portuguese means anus, no joke

    Gabriel MoscaGabriel Mosca2 måneder siden
  • I can't believe how good and instructional this video is

    NoPartiesGuyNoPartiesGuy2 måneder siden
  • Hugh Jackman is one of my beloved and favourite actors .but without a beard , He looks pfffffff .lol .

    Maze RunnerMaze Runner2 måneder siden
  • You care about what people think of you only if you let them live.

    YokkyYokky2 måneder siden
  • Will you be making a video about Matthew McConaughey?

    Abhijeet PawarAbhijeet Pawar2 måneder siden
  • Ummm Hugh is handsome are we forgetting that. When you are handsome people pay attention especially if you are handsome and rich.

    Games In Le MatinGames In Le Matin2 måneder siden
  • So basically, be an interesting, positive and charming person. Wow... how insightful.

    c'est moic'est moi2 måneder siden
  • 1:05 What are those Emma Watson scenes from?

    Noblesse ObligeNoblesse Oblige2 måneder siden
  • well cause he looks good

    郭彥宗郭彥宗2 måneder siden
  • Me after completing the course/(s) at charisma University : I am now an amazingly charming and charismatic person but now I'm broke and homeless 😂😂😂

    SkulltonSkullton2 måneder siden
  • The only way i see him as normal is when he wears the claw

  • The fact that I just finished watching HIMYM on a binge today, your intricately placed scenes from it made this video way way more relatable and appealing to me! 😊 It's really a good way to get inside someone's head, isn’t it? 😉😁

    Pr ChyPr Chy2 måneder siden
  • how to charm .....have Hughs teeth

    Goldaverage7567Goldaverage75672 måneder siden
  • If you are tellung a story them follow the 3 second rule from Tom Holland to keep the group engage, but when somebody asks a question then follow Wolverine's rule, Lock It.

    Aarav RahtoleAarav Rahtole2 måneder siden
  • ❤️

    Jake TylerJake Tyler2 måneder siden
  • [in reality, Hugh Jackman hates his life and can’t look at himself in the mirror] Probably not, but it’s more common than you think. Don’t compare

    ERK RZBKERK RZBK2 måneder siden
  • But But... i enjoyed van Helsing

    Bernad AtkinsonBernad Atkinson2 måneder siden
  • I'm a panda. I'm naturally charming. (awesome video btw, I love Hugh)

    Crash PandaCrash Panda2 måneder siden
  • Literally all Oren Klaff techniques in Pitch anything. He had just mastered them

    Renata _BrajkovskiRenata _Brajkovski2 måneder siden
  • i love you channel but WOW thats alot of money for that course. im sure its worth it but im not paying that much for it

    Phsh GamingPhsh Gaming2 måneder siden
  • I Wish I was a better storyteller 😩😂

    BellaNeutellaBellaNeutella2 måneder siden
  • I realized that after watching so much of this channel, I actually already had most/basically all of the things listed here 😌

    Dj PattersonDj Patterson2 måneder siden
  • Step 1: Look like Hugh Jackman. Step 2: You have now finished your "Easy Ways To Charm Someone" Course. Step 3: Get your Diploma.

    Pedro SequeiraPedro Sequeira2 måneder siden
  • I'm a realist..... that said, I called a lady ancient once... My coworkers: 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    Jay TeeJay Tee2 måneder siden
  • i stopped watching this video after 3 secs and clicked out ...way boring

    Melania MoneyPennyMelania MoneyPenny2 måneder siden
  • Do a video about a Trump vs Biden charisma breakdown.

    Kentren YehKentren Yeh2 måneder siden
  • tell you what , nobody care about your views and thoughts , if you aren't famous. "be famous and rich before you become philosopher"

  • Ben is doing more and more videos, we wouldn't want Charlie to get burnt out with a fifth hour of work each week 😂😂 good video as usual.

    Tom RiddleTom Riddle2 måneder siden
  • Also .. Aussie accent lol

    Gian MorelliGian Morelli2 måneder siden