7 Signs You Are Emotionally Mature

9. mars. 2020
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Emotional maturity creates strength and resilience in the face of life's obstacles, but pinning down what emotional maturity looks like and how it's developed can be hard to do.

In this video we're going to cover 7 specific signs that you're emotionally mature, and if not, 7 things you can do to begin working on it.

Animation by Zeino:


0:16 - #1: Emotionally mature people do not demonize exes.
0:48 - #2: Recognize that they contribute to bad experience.
1:43 - #3: Do not take responsibility for other people's feelings.
2:38 - #4: Get angry, sad and anxious.
3:27 - #5: Don't need to dwell or wallow.
4:02 - #6: Can speak about emotions without getting emotional.
4:31 - #7: Can pause.

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  • This should be taught in highschool.

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  • Really helps

    Eliot GlassierEliot Glassier28 dager siden
  • To me the topic should be, Emotional Intelligence (EI). EI has been well established for decades, and covers all the points in the video in a much more complete way. Embracing EI will modify behaviors.

    Wind WardWind Ward4 måneder siden
  • This was a great video! (Also, is it just me or does the narrator kind of sound like Spencer Reid from Criminal Minds?) ❤️👍

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  • I really enjoyed this video but it was really really fast, like you were in a hurry while reading the text. There could have been some pauses at least between the signs

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  • I am 3 and I heard the en word

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  • Love this video thanks for sharing!

    Grim QueenGrim Queen4 måneder siden
  • This video confirmed my anxiety, but im growing on my own.

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  • Hello

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  • in number five is Dont Dwell the same as saying to not be a cry baby?

    Wiki GMWiki GM5 måneder siden
  • i blocked all my exes out of my life. i don't feel anything towards them and wish them the best, but i know it's easier for both to move on this way. dumped my last girlfriend cause she snaped with her ex all the time and lied about it, she was "emotionally mature" according to this.

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  • 3:10 i'm sorry, did this guy just imply that people who are depressed are emotionally immature? this channel is skeevy as hell

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  • Oh so im definitely missing the part of not crying while problem solving :/ Have to work on that

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  • When not dwelling in victimization, know that you get to feel like a victim when you are processing an experience where you were victimized. But it is what mentality we use going forward after that processing which tells us if we are using it as a crutch or not

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  • This advice does need to be taken carefully when in an abusive though. It is ok to see how awful a person was to you and abusers often try to make us feel to blame for their abuse, so don't take responsibility for things which are not yours

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  • This sums up who I am as a person and always was like it

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  • Emotionally Mature won't freak out about this creep animation like I just did

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  • I think it is harder for student in college to be emotionally mature. Partly because your fate is half decided by your teachers and your grades. How to be more mature in a college situation?

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  • don’t listen to this. you wanna know why. mature people have made the mistakes to get to the answers. if u blindly copy the answers you will have learned nothing. dont try to cheat on life. burn your butt so you actually know how it feels not just know the fact that fire is dangerous!

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  • All I've learned from this video is that I'm not emotionally mature 😔

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  • Too bad if you're emotionally mature but the people in your environment aren't.

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  • Im 18 and have demonized my ex. I found that allowing myself to be un-mature in this situation and to feel angry has helped me to express my feelings and let them go.

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  • 1:00 2:41 4:00

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  • After watching this video I have come to the conclusion that I am in fact, not emotionally mature 😅

    Sarah BakerSarah Baker7 måneder siden
  • Honestly..sacrificing a part of your day to make someone feel a little better isn't wrong or unhealthy in anyway! Making it your soul goal is. Also some people demonize their ex because they still have feelings for them. Sometimes those feelings aren't healthy given the relationships environment. As a way to break out of a Stockholm like trance when trying to sort out past happenings and move on. This video makes it seem like every situation is easily solved. It doesn't account for ex who are actually horrible people that go too far,or the trust issues that follow. Make a video on how to get passed relationships of all kinds that involve betrayals of trust. Relationships you can't get away from like family and long time friends. Because losing those things could leave anyone emotionally unstable and immature.

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  • I can't talk about my emotions without getting emotional. Need to work on that 🙁

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  • There is a book called “Boundaries” that helps ALOT with all this

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  • The animation was all over the place, and often didn’t make sense or line up with with the ideas being expressed. It was very distracting.

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  • the hard thing about being emotionally mature is you can never be straightforward to people who aren't. You have to constantly hold back the truth because you will hurt everybody's sensitive ego.

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  • Try the Abraham Lincoln method when crazy angry by writing a letter that is never sent. Then the emotions are spent and you can address the problem in a reasoned matter without the burden of others putting up emotional walls in defense of one's own outburst. Just as venomous anger would not change you, it won't persuade them to change either. So curb your emotions not by repression but written expression.

    Zhu BajieZhu Bajie7 måneder siden
  • Emotional maturity is all about awareness. Control over emotions and not the other way around.

    Brandon JonesBrandon Jones7 måneder siden
  • Ok well no surprises here, I'm emotionally mature. But I love this video it helps me be way more conscious about the life lessons I've learned in my 18 yrs. Thanks man❤️❤️

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    Michael VaughnMichael Vaughn7 måneder siden
  • Ahh yeas... Just as i thought. I am so immature

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  • Great video, love the animation. I struggle with a lot of this myself. Thanks a lot.

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  • What are the 4 questions. Anyone know?

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  • Here's my self awareness checklist: (min 5:09) 1. I still demonize people who are not like me -> need to work on this 2. I don't blame or complain when things go bad, I asked myself to what extent I was the cause of it -> so I believe I have this one 3. I don't fully comprehend this one so I'm not sure 4. I still hide my feelings sometimes -> need to work on 5. I don't dwell on any negative emotions for too long -> so I got that 6. I get emotional easily -> need to work on 7. I do find myself giving it a few thoughts and some time before responding, but sometimes it's not long enough for the best answer -> next time I'll give it extra time

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  • When you have all 7 but your life is a mess, and you wish that you didnt have any of them, love how you show the benefits of those traits but not the downside, the downside is allways pushing yourself/stressing to think about everything, its fun beeing in a room with people knowing what is the problem how to potentialy solve it but beeing unable to say anything as your aware enough that nobody wants any criticism/blame, and saying anything will only make your life miserable, i wish i was never impressed with the old wise man in movies and spent so much time thinking how to potentialy become one myself, in movies it fixes everything, in life it ruins you most of the time unless you thinktank the lvling sht out of it and find a workaround human mindblocks.

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  • I thought I would maybe get a few of these, but nooooo it was to the point where it felt like the video was about me. It was some self reflecting I wasn't expecting. Great video!

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  • Perhaps I’ll reach this stage one day

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  • these animations are disgusting af, sorry to break it to ya

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  • I am definitely the most emotionally immature person i have ever met

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  • couldn't be me lol

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  • Kurzgesagt???

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    Rulian EstivallettiRulian Estivalletti7 måneder siden
  • What if you life in a family with the outdated view that some negative emotions should be suppressed and the other get reprimanded for crying lol

    VincisomethingVincisomething7 måneder siden
  • Glad to know that I am emotionally mature.

    Amar FawwasAmar Fawwas7 måneder siden