How To Be Fearless Under Pressure

11. nov.. 2019
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Okay, you guys win. By far the most requested breakdown of the last several months is here: Thomas Shelby.
Today we will dig in to what you can learn from him when it comes to staying cool in high pressure situations and then how you can use your wits to come out ahead.


0:40 - #1: He rarely overreacts in situations of extreme pressure.
7:00 - #2: Thomas gives both the carrot and the stick.
8:48 - #3: His ability to turn trash into resources.

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