How To Be Popular Without Being A Try Hard

16. mars. 2020
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David Dobrik is a popular guy, not only with his massive audience, but also with very different types of friends including his vlog squad buddies, Jason Nash who is 20 years older and the one and only John Stamos.
In this video we’ll dive into how you can be insanely popular without being an inauthentic try hard.

0:21 - #1: David Dobrik makes you laugh.
3:55 - #2: He uses a lot of high impact words.
7:32 - #3: He's very comfortable with self-deprecating humor.
8:58 - #4: He puts the spotlight on other people.
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  • So the video title is "How To Be Popular Without Being A Try Hard" and then in the picture preview, you have a guy pointing to his face saying "smile like this!". How does that work? How are you not being a try hard if you're controlling something that should come across as genuine and natural. Do you see babies controlling the way they smile? It's completely unnecessary and fake.

    DiegoDiego6 dager siden
  • This is awesome 💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💕💕💕💘💘💘💘💘💘

    Janybekov BakytJanybekov Bakyt17 dager siden
  • 1:52 I don't reply to most things because I'm introvert, inconfident and shy. So I'm naturally quiet

    Joel RoyJoel RoyMåned siden
  • I adore you! Such an AWESOME CHANNEL.

    Vandini SharmaVandini Sharma2 måneder siden
  • David has this boyish, impishness that people love to be around. Like around a kind 5 year old

    Elisa GElisa G3 måneder siden
  • I feel like one key (to me) to making your laughter make others feel good is to not just laugh at everything. If they respect your opinion and know that you won’t just laugh whenever ANYTHING happens then I’d be more likely to feel good when you laugh

    THE Isaac CooperTHE Isaac Cooper3 måneder siden
  • who is that cashier and blue bro... wit that a$$

    MLS RISEMLS RISE3 måneder siden
  • Idk, but I’m not charmed by him. He seems like a dense stoner.

    Gabe EisnerGabe Eisner3 måneder siden
  • Why are people trying so hard to be likable instead of being authentic???🤷‍♀️ Unless you are paid for it, it's REALLY not worth it

    vanessa vanessavanessa vanessa3 måneder siden
  • David's laugh seems so artificial and forcefull. He just laughs while there is nothing really funny to laugh at.

    tina basictina basic3 måneder siden
  • he date madison beer tho

    greedy guygreedy guy4 måneder siden
  • A video on the difference between a sociopath and psychopath would be awesome. And if it clouds clips from Sherlock, what can I say but YES!

    aljeffry Armandaljeffry Armand4 måneder siden
  • Constantly laughing also makes me suspicious the person is a weird fake psycho. No-one should be finding life that endlessly funny.

    TheRantingBoyTheRantingBoy4 måneder siden
  • His friends seem like a bunch of "yes men"

    Mi SmMi Sm4 måneder siden
  • He's fake laughing. His mouth smiles and laughs, yet his eye don't.

    Omgdannie2Omgdannie24 måneder siden
  • Oh man there’s so much more negativity than usual in the comments

    Jada HoizerJada Hoizer5 måneder siden
  • Hi there . A Really nice video and all of tham are great. I have a question that drove me to this video here. And it got patially answered but maybe I just want to hear specifically thoughts about the topic. It is about the topic of false smiling and played motivation. I personally started to see a habit of myself i dont really like. it is that I was confronted with false smiles and false passion in some professiones that I cant differ anymore between played passion and real passion. An example (not to attack anyone I want to better mayself) I have met so many personal tainers and fittnesscoaches who try hard to be happy etc that I cant take any positive emoutiones anymore from trainers because I allways think they are fake...... So is there a video from you how you can see if a smile is fake or not or does anyone have a good method taining yourself in getting better in diffenecing those things? I dont want to have prejudices against any profession so I have to learn to differencieate. What are the sighns of false smile false passion. If i asked a alllready answered question I am happy to get sources ^^ thanks

    MrMOGumbaMrMOGumba5 måneder siden
  • I genuinely don't like this guy.

    Senor StudlySenor Studly5 måneder siden
  • I'm an introvert and to be honest I find it SUPER annoying if people laugh every 10 seconds.. My flatmate is an extrovert, liked by everyone, and she does the same. Even about things that aren't even funny. That has nothing to do with jealousy but for me this is super irritating 😐

    javannajavanna5 måneder siden
  • basically, be authentic

    VeyroniqaVeyroniqa5 måneder siden
  • love you man

    omar ahmedomar ahmed5 måneder siden
  • This is very well made

    Mohil GargMohil Garg5 måneder siden
  • Totally agree be confident and all of this will show 🔥

    Daily UpgradeDaily Upgrade5 måneder siden
  • i just wanna say please dont go to his videos and say his laugh and smile is weird and ugly ive heard it from people and it really hurts

    fijifiji5 måneder siden
  • 1:49 - what exactly is _allowing_ yourself to laugh? If I'm not laughing it's _not_ cuz I'm holding back it's because I would be embarrassed to make a laughing sound to mimic being actually amused. And I'm not some hoity- toity person with a sophisticated sense of humor, it's just that my sense of humor is so obscure that I rarely find anyone else who shares it.

    Jo MomzJo Momz5 måneder siden
  • this video: one of the reasons why David Dobrik is so popular is because... me: i've never seen this man in my life

    Sebastian AlvaradoSebastian Alvarado5 måneder siden
  • Alex Warren watched this video 20 thousand times.

    RoZXRoZX5 måneder siden
  • I bet Alex was watching this video

    Life of MikeLife of Mike5 måneder siden
  • Secret: good dental

    ScottScott5 måneder siden
  • Absolutly amazing videos

    Gyver 2413Gyver 24135 måneder siden
  • Hi, I just discovered your channel. I find these videos super helpful. I'm super excited to continue watching these videos. I especially like the videos that break down the positive traits of celebrities and how we can learn from them. Can you do one on Zac Efron?

    H&MH&M5 måneder siden
  • I wish I could make people laugh all the time

    Adnan AAdnan A6 måneder siden
  • This tip on priming changes the whole game for me. I always knew that I'm more loose and funny when I primed myself with funny videos but it all was subconsciously. Thank you!

    Sam FellerSam Feller6 måneder siden
  • I personally don’t feel complimented when a person laughing at every joke possible laughs at my joke. Maybe a little. I feel complimented when that guy with a sophisticated sense of humour laughs at my joke. You gotta have some popularity before laughing at everything

    Don BaalmanDon Baalman6 måneder siden
  • is this what alex warren watched before he cloned himself into david

    anusha kanusha k6 måneder siden
  • Can you do a Jason Mamoa breakdown.

    FANEESH NIMFANEESH NIM6 måneder siden
  • Hi everyone. Just wondering if anyone has tried the charisma university. Is it really helpful ? I really wanted to try it but It’s abit over my budget as a student. Can anyone give me some advice ?

    Cera ChanCera Chan6 måneder siden
  • But for a matter of fact, I really get annoyed with Dobrik’s laughter. It’s really annoying.

    VAZZUVAZZU6 måneder siden
  • He laughs every 3 seconds, it gets annoying after a while.

    Sy ASy A6 måneder siden
  • Am I the only one who find this David guy super annoying? 🙄

    LifeOnTheGoLifeOnTheGo6 måneder siden
  • So if I say "I love you" to myself in a mirror I will get a job like Davids!? , can't relate, I'm not a first world citizen, but by understanding that I can maybe narrate it to others, but then that would be me doing your job dear NOworld publisher.

    Kvnt LeviathanKvnt Leviathan6 måneder siden
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    makvartanmakvartan6 måneder siden
  • I really love your content, it will be great if having a chance to meet you in Australia. Any big fan of "Charisma on Command" also comes from Australia :D?

    Michael Kuzilny Motivation & InspirationMichael Kuzilny Motivation & Inspiration6 måneder siden
  • no offence, but all the points listed are exactly the reason i dont like david dobrik. he seems sleezy and disingenuous. he is uncomfortable to watch. also, i am someone who laughs very easily (too easily) and yet nothing dobrik says or does is even remotely funny to me....

    prettycute andexpensiveprettycute andexpensive6 måneder siden
  • At 1:46 does anyone know what video this clip was from?

    Sapphire DSapphire D6 måneder siden
  • The problem is that this lough are not genuene

    Apolo romeroApolo romero6 måneder siden
  • Maybe this is why I always made friends with everyone, by laughing at everything.

    Aaron StinerAaron Stiner6 måneder siden
  • I don't have charisma, but I think it's because it requires constantly parrying other people's consciousness when the simpler solution is to just not be around tiresome people. I'm sure I could captivate a room full of kids if I had to, but why would I? I dunno, I suppose some people just have that extra energy they have to get out and I don't.

    CerebralCerebral6 måneder siden
  • *Who?*

    KingFisher TheFirstKingFisher TheFirst6 måneder siden
  • never heard of this "popular" guy - looks very unlikeable actually

    arenasificationarenasification6 måneder siden
    • ok, I didn't mean Keanu ^^ I meant that NOworldr

      arenasificationarenasification6 måneder siden
  • he's like seth rogen always laughing

    Nick ChaseNick Chase6 måneder siden
  • Laughter yoga every morning helped me lot!

    Revathy bRevathy b6 måneder siden
  • White chicks 😂

    Revathy bRevathy b6 måneder siden
  • do pete davidson next

    thassa lot of sodiumthassa lot of sodium6 måneder siden
  • Conclusion : Just be yourself.

    Vineet JohnVineet John6 måneder siden
  • Nice content as usual. You hit it again Charisma on Demand!

    Persuasion PsychoPersuasion Psycho6 måneder siden
  • All the people in the comments thinking that they're special for not liking someone famous

    PaytonPayton6 måneder siden
  • Request for david Beckham charisma

    Amadeus RoyalAmadeus Royal6 måneder siden
  • Damn, everyone in the comment section must know David pretty well, based on the way they talk about him

    JoeyJoey6 måneder siden
  • Funny that family name of this guy "Dobrik" can be translated from Slavic languages as Good (kind) man.

    KingslayerKingslayer6 måneder siden
  • no wonder his ex left

    BrandAlphaBrandAlpha6 måneder siden
  • Aviv Buchler

    TrulycrazyTrulycrazy6 måneder siden
  • She’s really calm on situations

    TrulycrazyTrulycrazy6 måneder siden
  • Do one about Aviv Buchler

    TrulycrazyTrulycrazy6 måneder siden
  • But he is not that respected

    SydixSydix6 måneder siden
  • I dislike his laugh. It feels fake and he laughs all the f**** time. It's just too much. So no, he's not a good example to follow

    HajimeHajime6 måneder siden
  • You gotta do a breakdown on John Krasinski‘s charisma

    Eliza DoblingerEliza Doblinger6 måneder siden
  • Kick Casey neistat . What a loser

    D AD A6 måneder siden
  • Please do one on Elsa!

    Eliza BarlowEliza Barlow6 måneder siden
  • Please do someone nerdy and booky and serious! We nerds ain't gonna transform ourselves into extroverts amd we shouldn't. Please do someone of our type.

    sboulderickmamsboulderickmam6 måneder siden
  • Can you do a video on Timothee Chalamet?

    Sarah RobinsonSarah Robinson6 måneder siden
  • Just ask yourself how would i act in this situation if I wasn't afraid , and act like it .

    Mohamed AlhasyMohamed Alhasy6 måneder siden
  • Just have fun and be like water my friend .. say what you think ... exprece yourself .. other people wants to be loved too .. not just you . Relax man every thing is gonna be alright .

    Mohamed AlhasyMohamed Alhasy6 måneder siden
  • DO. A. VIDEO. ON. TIGER. KING. [loved this video btw]

    Zaee DeshpandeZaee Deshpande7 måneder siden
  • I just realized that I don't need this episode bc I am David dobrik

    im allergic to soapim allergic to soap7 måneder siden

    Bhavesh KoulBhavesh Koul7 måneder siden
  • hey, your vids are awesome. id like to ask if there was any other people like david dobrik that make fun easier? thanks

    elif öelif ö7 måneder siden
  • show alex warren this video to become more of a bootlag david

    Vakatzu!Vakatzu!7 måneder siden
  • we're card

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  • You should do a video on Neal Caffrey from White Collar. The way he uses his charisma is genius

    bookworm598bookworm5987 måneder siden
  • Whenever i get my friends to talk about theirselfs they keep going on and on but when i talk or even just share something about myself their mood changes and compeletly ignores what im saying. What is ths problem here😕

    COVID-19COVID-197 måneder siden
  • Do one on DC youngfly

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  • If anyone is serious about becoming charismatic start watching RSD Jeffy. Currently, he has the deepest understanding of charisma than anyone else on the world.

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    Shashank ShekharShashank Shekhar7 måneder siden
  • Do Lewis Capaldi next :)

    Wingbar - Rocket LeagueWingbar - Rocket League7 måneder siden
  • Please do a video.on johnny depp's personality. He's so calm and so funny and very low key at the same time. That never happens. Funny people always seem loud and enthusiastic. His friends always say he has the most ofbeat personality

    Saket ShankarSaket Shankar7 måneder siden
  • Being popular is overrated. The End

    DensetsuShounenDensetsuShounen7 måneder siden
  • Funny. Because this guy IS obviously such a Tryhard.

    Mat RoemerMat Roemer7 måneder siden
  • I watched and Laugh as it said in vid but after sometime I coughed due to continuous laugh and all my cousins went outside the room shouting

    Light YagamiLight Yagami7 måneder siden
  • Could you do a video about Brian David Gilbert?

    Sally BradshawSally Bradshaw7 måneder siden
  • If you can, I would love it if you can do a video on Gene Wilder. He was truly the master of the dramatic and comedic pauses, and I think people could implement them in their social interactions, IF they understand how to use them right

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  • Is this a joke to be popular....what? If you want to be popular don’t make or watch videos about how to be popular, that’s a good place to start. And don’t be a douche.

    BASEBASE7 måneder siden