How To Command Respect From Everyone Around You

20. juli. 2020
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Ragnar Lothbrok (Lodbrok) is a legendary leader and the main character in the show Vikings. In a time where power and respect meant everything, he was able to rise up from being a simple farmer to a ruler, to a king.
In this video we will break down 5 ways Ragnar is able to command respect from everyone around him and how you can do the same in your own life. You don't have to pick them all, so you can pick the ones that fit you the best.

0:00 - Intro.
0:32 - #1: Pursue ambitious goals that others want to join.
2:13 - #2: Speak in "you" and "we".
4:16 - #3: Project calm in the face of conflict.
5:32 - #4: Lead from the front.
7:29 - #5: See through other people's eyes.
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  • Didn't realize this might have spoilers, so... he becomes king. might want to add it in the title.

    Ryan HendriksRyan Hendriks17 timer siden
  • So having tattoos is not part of it .Phew ,how insecure those dudes with tats must feel after watching this .

    Michael ClonarisMichael Clonaris23 timer siden
  • Easier to have goals pre-modern society. Much more freedom and less technology to keep tabs on people. Plus, this was a time nobody knew of the lands away from theirs really. Some exceptions, but most knew their own yards. We can’t go discover new lands exactly

    The CatspawThe CatspawDag siden
  • While I’m happy to hear those reviews at the end were positive, part of me simply can not let the introvert-to-extrovert thing slip past. Introverts can not become extroverts, and extroverts can not become introverts. That guy was probably just what we call a shy extrovert who now just got better people-skills, or he’s still an introvert. Introversion/extroversion primarily affects where you get your energy, not whether you’re socially incapable or not.

    LethalOwlLethalOwl2 dager siden
  • The part about maintaining eye contact and low voice doesn’t really work for me. There’s someone I work with in a deli and continues to disrespect me. He never makes eye contact and it’s loud in the deli. I can’t even use this tactic but I think it would make the biggest difference

    Chill VibesChill Vibes2 dager siden
  • Um Persian Emperor? That was the King of Frankia.

    EdithaeEdithae2 dager siden
  • No offense but how do you mispronounce Lothbrok when they pronounce it many many times in the show

    Lachlan WoodLachlan Wood2 dager siden
  • i love how you clearly don't know who Ragnarr was in real life

    StalinbsStalinbs3 dager siden
  • Why do we look at tv and interviews as true social situations? Get a clue

    nahnah4 dager siden
  • Always so interesting and fun to watch 👌

    Nazanin IldarfardNazanin Ildarfard8 dager siden
  • Thanks

    BegguiabdelhadiBegguiabdelhadi16 dager siden
  • I want Ivar boneless

    Ivar NecronIvar Necron22 dager siden
  • Hi, can you please do a video on Tekashi 69 and how to be charming when people want to hate you (something like that ). His interviews are very interesting.

    Rocking RondaRocking Ronda25 dager siden
  • You are basing your life advice on how a character in a fictional story succeeded.

    KairosGymnosKairosGymnos29 dager siden
  • I used to find myself (woman in hijab) in situations where i am not heard and need to repeat myself. especially in group discussions. i started developing self-taught technics, and most of them i found here in your videos which boosts my confidence a bit and also, now, helps me develop technics faster. I overcame my issue of not being heard by speaking in an engaging slow tone and eye contact throughout the discussion. Now 2 or 3 years into practice I started noticing that people ask me to speak and love listening to what ideas i have. Got to say thank you, a lot of developing was throughout your channel on youtube.

    Nuha El HaddadNuha El HaddadMåned siden
  • First off I would like to say at. 0.49 that it was Floki that came up with the idea to lift the boats

    Chris MartinChris MartinMåned siden
    • I’m pretty sure it was Ragnar, he just lost a battle and then gives a speech about it. Couldn’t find the clip but googled it and this person remembers it the same way I do:

      Benjamin AltmanBenjamin Altman5 dager siden
  • "Cut my bonds and give me the sword." "Would you deny me the right to enter Valhalla?"

    razorMonkeyrazorMonkeyMåned siden
  • In movies. In practice?

    Ivan IvanovicIvan IvanovicMåned siden
  • I dont hate the uber wealthy and I don't respect Elon musk

    The new PrepperThe new PrepperMåned siden
  • love how it goes from some friendly advice on how to be respected to a sales pitch not cool man not cool

    gamer tasticgamer tasticMåned siden
  • He was a farmer but never simple.

    Cristhian Bryan Mercado CespedesCristhian Bryan Mercado CespedesMåned siden
  • dog

    gothsorrowsuffergothsorrowsufferMåned siden
  • why no captions?

    Rajesh Nikam YTRajesh Nikam YTMåned siden
  • Ragnor has watched this video and followed it step by step to become the king.

    RetroGun777RetroGun777Måned siden
  • Please do video about how to be respected like Oscar Schindler from movie "Schindler's list"

    misavnmisavnMåned siden
  • That "I & MY" scene in the bed is exactly how you get women to instantly lose attraction to you even if you've been together for years.

    John BishopJohn BishopMåned siden
  • Ragnar is the ultimate Chad idc what anyone says

    VerquinnVerquinnMåned siden
  • You don’t ‘command respect’ you earn respect.

    owen brightowen brightMåned siden
  • Winning at life the Ragnar way

    United Defensive TacticsUnited Defensive Tactics2 måneder siden
  • This piece of land , that piece land with lots of wealth

    JinBo HimselfJinBo Himself2 måneder siden
  • A real man dont afraid public speaking , go directly towards his goals , dont afraid rejections , be a leader in companies , lead girls to my circles

    JinBo HimselfJinBo Himself2 måneder siden
  • Thanks for sharing.

    Tim FavreauTim Favreau2 måneder siden
  • Valhalla isn't just heaven. It is the place for only the weapon killed men to fight and die every day to be resurrected after the battles are over and feast at night to do it all over again the next day. Till Ragnarock comes...

    GitOutta MyWayGitOutta MyWay2 måneder siden
  • what is line between psychopath and leader. hmmm. kills dispassionately, lacks empathy, grandiosity...

    Daeran GallDaeran Gall2 måneder siden
  • It’s a series.....he’s an actor

    t.rippy pancakest.rippy pancakes2 måneder siden
  • You dont need respect from anybody you only need to respect yourself the rest will come

    The WandererThe Wanderer2 måneder siden
  • lagertha was garbage raggy was better off

    Musta KrackishMusta Krackish2 måneder siden
  • Ragnar was like the Jack Sparrow of that show.

    SOLAIRESOLAIRE2 måneder siden
  • You can‘t command respect , unless you want to be taken for a moron. You can only earn it.

    John MalkovitchJohn Malkovitch2 måneder siden
    • Yup

      JinBo HimselfJinBo Himself2 måneder siden
  • #1. Be what others want to be. #2 Play off others wants and desires. #3. Stay calm and grounded in stressful situations. #4 Don't ask others to do what you wouldn't do yourself. #5 Show compassion to those whom deserve it.

    Thyme to DreamThyme to Dream2 måneder siden
  • Power goes to whoever stoops lowest to pick it up - Ragnar Lofbrook

    Andrew HillAndrew Hill2 måneder siden
  • The eye contact and low clam voice does magic. I learned along time ago that I don't have to like you, but if we have to work together we work, have made some friends that way.

    dominic nortondominic norton2 måneder siden
    • I learned it a hard way , lots of slav girls gave me signs 🥰

      JinBo HimselfJinBo Himself2 måneder siden
  • The well-known TV series about Vikings, like everything else described, is totally historically false, from the history of reality. The so-called Vikings, who at that time were not called Vikings, had a completely different culture, a completely different clothing, a completely different hairstyle, and behaved completely differently than the media creates them. It is probably not a people or culture that has become more falsified in history than what many call Vikings .. !!! Written by a Dane .. !!!

    Henrik LorenzenHenrik Lorenzen2 måneder siden
  • Choosing to learn something new every day will give you a reason to grown and change. This could be something as simple as driving to work via a different route or signing up for guitar lessons.

    Arrogant Knats BCNArrogant Knats BCN2 måneder siden
  • Ragnar makes everyone want to shave their head and grow a beard.

    NihilTimendumEstNihilTimendumEst2 måneder siden
  • I don't believe in demanding it.. I think you should earn it🙏😁👏✌

    Greater-VisionGreater-Vision2 måneder siden
  • charisma on command should cover King Alfreds character in the Last Kingdom

    Average AlienAverage Alien2 måneder siden
  • TL;DR: *blood eagle* on all the ones daring to still disagree with you.

    Giacomo SorbiGiacomo Sorbi2 måneder siden
  • Please make one on Ivar the boneless

    Hector BeaufortHector Beaufort2 måneder siden
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  • The Biden advert was ironic

    VitlausVitlaus2 måneder siden

  • Raid northumbria

    Hh KrishnaHh Krishna2 måneder siden
  • They should rename the channel the Chad Factory.

    I Don't Like SandI Don't Like Sand2 måneder siden
  • If you live in an inner city this doesn't work if none of your interests are popular. People out here are way too superficial and will alienate you for deviating from the norm. I'm not fat and ugly but I don't watch TV/Netflix, I don't listen to pop music, I don't watch sports, etc. so I'm treated like a circus freak. Only other highly talented people are nice to me lol because we relate on our levels of commitment to our crafts.

    bowmanpwnerbowmanpwner2 måneder siden
  • With subtitles in Spanish please!

    Maria Raquel Cuéllar ReyesMaria Raquel Cuéllar Reyes2 måneder siden
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    Samuel LoosmoreSamuel Loosmore2 måneder siden
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  • Uhhh ... have you been following Elon Musk lately? He's a tool like the others. He utterly failed to protect his workers and joked about coups that killed innocents and benefited him.

    HiThereImFootlooseHiThereImFootloose2 måneder siden
  • Make on Capt Raghu Raman

    chandan mohantachandan mohanta2 måneder siden
  • Finally a video on this awesome super badass character. Tysm 👍

    TylerTyler2 måneder siden

  • Can you guys make a video about how to handle entitled people? For example, people who feel like the rules shouldn’t apply to them or rules don’t apply to them. Especially now with the whole Karen movement being a thing.

    Marisol XOMarisol XO2 måneder siden
  • In conclusion, align other people goals with yourselves. Afterwards, you could try to going your way or going with them or even make them think you are going with them just like the politicians.

    IanIan2 måneder siden
  • Thank you!

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  • Great video! You should make one about hank moody

    Sanchit PandeySanchit Pandey2 måneder siden
  • Ragnar and Thomas Shelby are the characters men should learn from

    Tanmay BarveTanmay Barve3 måneder siden
  • those last Comments are FAKE , if you see the subject of each letter . work --- relationship ---success . its default what everyone is working towards . its bait.

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    TysoTyso3 måneder siden
  • Ragnar is the best example on how to earn respect. I cried so much when he faked his death and the second time when he actually died. It is like I know him as a real person not just as character.

    M. T.M. T.3 måneder siden
  • "... to a king." Thanks for spoiling it -_- Great video though.

    Airon_StormAiron_Storm3 måneder siden
  • thanks for teaching me how to be a successful fictional character. Next can you teach me how to fly and shoot beams from my eyes to melt steel like Superman?

    The Mad CowThe Mad Cow3 måneder siden
    • Look up your natal chart (specifically your sun, venus and ascendant sign regarding charisma, mercury as well). You can get it free online. We are all uniquely talented and meant to conquer a personal mission in order to flourish in this life. Emulating a fictional character or anyone else with a completely different blueprint from ours is paltry compared with who we become when we understand the bespoke journey crafted for each and every one of us.

      Beth CareyBeth Carey2 måneder siden
  • If you don’t have self esteem, give us money. 9:35

    None-ya BusinessNone-ya Business3 måneder siden
  • wait, who respects elon musk?

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    ilovefirewoodilovefirewood3 måneder siden
    • I worked with him back in the 90s. He was a true gentleman, He treated the crew with respect and was a really nice guy.

      Joseph CocozzaJoseph Cocozza3 måneder siden
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    Casual CasCasual Cas3 måneder siden
  • The Parisian king was a comically overexagerated coward though, a caricature, designed to show how awesome the brave and intelligent Ragnar was. In real life it's usually not this black and white, and a lot of the risks Ragnar took wouldn't have paid off (unless he had insane luck)

    Alex MAlex M3 måneder siden
  • Everyone is saying to do uthred, but you should do Alfred. Uthred is a meathead that is good at fighting, so it's obvious why people follow him. Alfred is frail and still considered a good leader

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  • Amazing

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  • Ragnar succeeded because that's what the script said must happen.

    ballybunion9ballybunion93 måneder siden
  • its Ragnar Lothbrook as in Sloth. Not Ragnar Lothbrook as in loathe. Probably should got the name right there BUD.

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