How To Impress Someone You Admire

16. des.. 2019
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It’s frustratingly common to get completely tongue tied when we’re in front of people we’d like to impress. Which is doubly unfortunate because it’s often those situations that could lead to us landing a great new job, connecting with a mentor, or even dating someone we’re smitten with.
That’s why in this video I want to cover how you can avoid that awkward trap and impress the people you admire by standing out in a positive way. To do that, we’ll be referencing someone who has done it many times: Sean Evans of Hot Ones.

1:38 - #1: Ask questions beyond the obvious ones.
3:09 - #2: Use the question preamble.
4:48 - #3: Steer conversation towards things that elicit emotion.
7:40 - #4: Tease playfully / have fun.
9:18 - #5: Comfortably express disagreement.
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  • Schaub never gonna live that talk down lmfao

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  • You gotta do one on Nardwuar.

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  • Joe Rogan has a habit of agreeing with all his guests these days, hes become the average of all the guests hes seen on his show infact hes not a Conservative anymore because of this.

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  • "Have you ever killed anyone?" _Uncomfortable silence_ "Not in America, no."

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  • Dude, the best hosts are shaved bald, I have to shave bald to achieve top host charisma!

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  • Man, I wish I could show this to Amy from Brooklyn 99 so that she´d stop messing up every sing time he speaks to Holt This is definitely one of my favourites yet, good video! : )

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  • During an interview I was asked if I had any special skills I didn't mention yet. I replied: "head BBQ chef at the company picnic"

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  • God entered into my body, like a body. my same size. worlds only holy ghost filled man. God attacks me. God rips my face, shoots into mouth, gum disease. Jesus appears.laughs

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  • 5:40

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  • If someone asked me any of those questions I would be...." I don't know, why ?"

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  • "Oh wow, that's a great question" simply means "I need to think".

    Kapitan DupaKapitan Dupa25 dager siden
  • you should have put Nardwuar as well

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  • I'm Devine Goddess impressive to get the job done. I aced this interview and I 🙏I get the Job! Law of Attraction

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  • Dude is dorky and kinda bland but you can't help but respect everything about his game because he's so damn well informed

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  • I think you’re trying to teach something unteachable. Look at the humorous moments a little more. Idk if it’s possible or not. The “Coolio” comment you cannot nor will not ever teach. I appreciate what you do though.

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  • what does "to mc someone" mean? 3:28

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  • 8:15 that wasn't just an off-the-cuff comback but also a callback to a hip hop awards segment on The Pete Holmes Show where Snoop Dogg gave him that nickname. Shaun is awesome!

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  • Clickbait

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  • I'm really starting to get annoyed with Audible 😒. I will be unlikely to be a customer of theirs.

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  • Joe Rogan is no longer a reliable source he said video games are bad.

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  • idkkk but i do think this is the best episode of CoC

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  • “It’s the show with hot questions and even hotter wings.” Save yourself 13 minutes.

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  • A video on folks that when threatened can be harsh. Almost get angry. Would be helpful

    Joe HooperJoe Hooper3 måneder siden
  • This videos are so well done. Good job

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  • 1. ask killer questions beyond the obvious ones 00:28 2. use the question preamble to connect on a personal level 03:09 3. steer conversations towards the other persons emotion or passions 04:52 4. tease playfully and have some fun 07:37 5. comfortably express disagreement 09:12

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  • 6:54-7:03: How come the bottles are never moved, opened or even unwrapped accross interviews?

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  • So I was not wrong about sean

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  • I always ask hella questions and usually it ends in "i don't usually do this but"

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  • Do you think preceding a disagreement or criticism with a compliment, like you pointed out with joe rogan, might come across as disingenuous or undermine your candor or integrity? (i.e. a hero sandwich)

    Shawn CothranShawn Cothran3 måneder siden
  • Yah my name is Chuck Norris..everyone thinks they ate making an original joke when they find this out..after 40 yrs it gets really lame and hacky

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  • If it's female pull out Mr Johnson.

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  • The guy talking sounds like Shaun evens

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  • I see his stuff in snapchat, great host

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  • 1:04 this guy is asking the dumbest questions... you dont ask vague convoluted questions to "impress" someone. You do that when you need to talk and have nothing to talk about.

    Vito ScalettaVito Scaletta3 måneder siden
  • Shawn Evans gets his knowledge from his bald head absorbing the power from the sun like a solar panel

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  • Everyone answers with : That’s a great question 🙄

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  • I love the "Hot Wings" show....Sean is the greatest host.

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  • A ... *BUDDY* ... of mine

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  • This just made me want fried chicken

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  • 4:14 ó o bruxo

    Rafael VelosoRafael Veloso3 måneder siden
  • If you want an example of a master at research dont use sean evans bruh...its NARDWAUR

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  • that guy in the white T-shirt, don't know him, but i know the meme

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  • Thanks guy from Hot Ones

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  • Sean Evans can dig up some info on his interviewees but there's someone way better at that. His name is Nardwuar

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  • Naudrwar should interview Sean...

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  • Seeing Idris Elba made all the memes come to mind lmaoo

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  • Sean Evans really is a terrific interviewer; clearly he does his homework. It's no wonder he gets all these celebs. And what a great concept for a series!

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  • Without taking any credit from Sean Evans, I think people say, "That's a great question" to buy some time to respond.

    SriniSrini4 måneder siden
  • I can really relate to all this. I work as a Psych Nurse and I interact with our patients in oh so many ways that you mentioned in this clip. It’s when I connect that I enjoy my job the most. Doesn’t always last. But then again.. Hey... It’s a Psych Ward If I can lighten the load then, job well done.

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  • These are great tips! Love it. I have a question though. If you were to start a conversation with someone that you repeatedly interact, you'll tend to run out of "researchable questions", and eventually resort to the typical "How are you?" or "How was your weekend?" question, how do you avoid to do that with someone you already know and engage with on a frequent basis?

    ChangstaChangsta4 måneder siden
  • When I'm at a job interview and they hit me with the notorious "Why do you want to work here?", I just tell them "I need money. You want me to do a thing to get money, so I will do the thing". Then I tell them I don't understand why it's such an unacceptable answer. Majority of the time they respect it and hire me on the spot. Some of them would rather hear "Ah yes it is a good company because reasons and I like this company haha".

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  • Nobody: Almost one guy but actually nobody: Jeff Wittek: So... How'd ya get ya start?

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  • So now I actually don't feel that bad about "doing my research" before going on a date xD

    Nadia UlrichNadia Ulrich4 måneder siden
  • On the flipside, if someone asks you a question you've heard way too many times, try not to get annoyed. Have a concise response available and move on.

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  • This is, in my opinion, similar to what Nardwuar does in an interview.

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  • I like your videos man 👏🏻

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  • This is the movie interviewer aquivelent of Nardwuar

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  • Sean Evans and Nardwuar are both the most impressive in their research abilities

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  • YEAH WE GET IT !!! Can you stop begging people to pay for your courses already we get it, you want money...

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  • How about going for a Charisma Bypass Reversal on the President .. it’s clear that he’s had a bypass but the reversals apparently are hit & miss.

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  • I think this can all be summed up by saying, have a genuine interest in the people you talk to. A lot of those talk show circuit interviews (Maybe except Conan) are just to fill time. The hosts really don't care about your answers. Also the interview is pre-rehearsed so how genuine can it really be?

    Mel ManMel Man4 måneder siden
  • His interviews aren't really about whatever movie they are promoting but the interviewer themselves.

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  • run nardwaur his check

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  • I remember I had an interview in a high tech company and I was extremely under qualified. I researched the interviewer online before the interview and found out he had a couple of patents. I brought that up while he was walking me from the lobby to the interview room. He was so shocked I even knew about it and I got the internship the next day.

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  • I bet Sean Evans learned from watching Nardwaur

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  • What is this never ending complexity of thoughts that comes with maturity? I like it

    Cesar TresvallesCesar Tresvalles4 måneder siden
  • 1. Asking killer questions. (Ask the questions beyond the obvious ones) 2. Use the question preamble. 3. Steer questions towards emotions. 4. Tease playfully. 5. Comfortably express disagreement.

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  • this is exceptional

    egdapoegdapo5 måneder siden
  • Put yourself in their shoes. It's that simple. But that would make for a very brief video.

    misterjagmisterjag5 måneder siden
  • Nardwar + not so nerdy vibe

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  • Me not having video on and only listening, then looking for a second and seeing Brad Leone. What is Bon Appetit doing here???

    Thirze WeemhoffThirze Weemhoff5 måneder siden
  • This is idiotic, Sean is interviewing them, a totally different dynamic to a normal conversation. Asking 'How was it' to someone who came back from holiday is perfectly fine - it allows them to talk about whatever aspect of the holiday they want to. Asking 'Ok, what was the best food you ate there?' is a bit more specific and will often lead to a short, uninteresting answer that they're unable to link to another idea and continue the flow of the conversation and simply put you in the position of thinking of more follow-ups.

    AlbanZapAlbanZap5 måneder siden
  • Sean is someone who deserves to be admired (:

    TrygatorTrygator5 måneder siden
  • I came in here to comment on the thumbnail. Apparently it takes 13 minutes to tell you to "Use this phrase". Just tell me in less than a minute. Then I've got it and I'm off to impress. Gotta run. See you later

    Vaughan HamiltonVaughan Hamilton5 måneder siden
  • I started skeptical, and finished impressed. New subscriber.

    CzechboundCzechbound5 måneder siden
  • thought the guy in the thumbnail was dana white

    TheWatermelon3TheWatermelon35 måneder siden
  • How to impress someone you admire, or someone in general. Watch a few of Nardwuar's interviews and try to mimic some of his manic preparation abilities. It will impress everyone.

    D StyerD Styer5 måneder siden
  • where is the joe rogan link i would like to watch it

    BenksBenks5 måneder siden
  • Sean Evans is like the celebrity whisperer! Also, his humility is a definite plus. He’s the right balance of admirer, intelligence, and chill! I love him. ♥️🙌🏼💯

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  • people like this express the truth for truth's sake doing so makes people like this greatly appreciated I like communities like this

    GalaxyOfReeses KIngGalaxyOfReeses KIng5 måneder siden
  • Lmao he didnt have to do Rudd like that

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  • As someone who is socially awkward and maybe even on the autism spectrum... this channel surprisingly helps me a lot! 🙆‍♀️

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  • So we’re just not gonna mention Nardwar?

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  • Nobody told England that we're not allowed to complain. (I love Sean Evans)

    FrankiValerieFrankiValerie5 måneder siden
  • That time Brenden Schab beat multiple Gonaga's at once

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  • I always liked his kinda calm body language

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  • *So I guess bald white men are really good hosts?*

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  • Who's the celebrity at 2:30(Sorry,I don't watch much movies or listen to songs)

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  • great way see different perceptive in details

    Troy ATroy A5 måneder siden
  • Sean Evans, Nardwuar, Joe Rogan. The holy trinity of interviewers.

    Amelia SteynbergAmelia Steynberg5 måneder siden
  • Sean is impressive at these question but not to the extent of Nardwuar Nardwuar may be sloppy on his early years but he really grew when every question he asks is a killer question

    John Paul QuevedoJohn Paul Quevedo5 måneder siden
  • i see that this course is really good and helpe a lot of people getting better, but why should i buy that if i can watch your videos?

    LF COOKERLF COOKER5 måneder siden
  • he reminds me of that music guy that makes interviews asking really small details that no one except two people surrounding the artist should know from about like 10 years ago but he somehow knows it

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  • he takes inspiration from nardwuar xD

    NickBNickB5 måneder siden
  • Treat a celebrity you admire normally and if they get mad you don't treat them like a God stop admiring them

    not Ellanot Ella5 måneder siden
  • i mean... brad from BA gon' talk anyways 😂😂😂

    derrenderren5 måneder siden
  • Work hard at what you do. Then work harder. When you are ready to give up you are almost halfway there. If you do not live like this you will not find happiness and people will see through your schtick 80% of the time. "Great, I can live with 20%". No you can't. That will get you very very lost. Confidence built from suffering and hard work is invincible. It is authentic and makes you authentic. No cool technique will ever replace it.

    Zenon DolnyckyjZenon Dolnyckyj5 måneder siden
  • Nardwar does the same thing.

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