How To Permanently STOP Self Sabotage

7. jan.. 2019
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  • You lost me at Bill Gates, someone who is deeply evil.

    Connecting The DotsConnecting The DotsMåned siden
  • Yeah, Bill Gates is very happy pretending to be a doctor and depopulating the planet!

    MightyMick77MightyMick772 måneder siden
  • So CBT?

    fr812 librafr812 libra2 måneder siden
  • Growth mindset.

    Hiroki MoodyHiroki Moody2 måneder siden
  • This really helped me I'm using this method every time I feel like I'm sabotaging myself

    mbay tekashi tvmbay tekashi tv3 måneder siden
  • Bill Gates is probably the worst example of a human being who actually is capable of the least if no amount of empathy that you could have given. We, who have done some research know what Mr. Gates is all about and none of it is good.

    Purple HazePurple Haze3 måneder siden
  • Thank you for making this.

    Michael GondiMichael Gondi3 måneder siden
  • I feel like I am undeserving of relationships and love and I don't fight for what I really want because of anxiety and feeling I'm not ready for better things

    Robbie C.Robbie C.3 måneder siden
  • Why is the app not available in South Africa? 🤨 I was so looking forward to it

    Nontokozo MbathaNontokozo Mbatha4 måneder siden
  • You can always donate 1,000 bucks to me too C:

    Runaway CatRunaway Cat4 måneder siden
  • I dont like procrasination, I find it difficult to have a proper timetable to carry out my daily tasks.

    C FernandesC Fernandes4 måneder siden
  • I am afraid to have friends, sincerly like I think if I show people my kind side, they will hurt me easily, that's because I used to have some friends and I kept losing them for this, I wish I can get rid of this fear because I started to be socially awkward

    Dou aaDou aa5 måneder siden
  • I can’t face the mornings. I need to stop.

    Cindy SkiCindy Ski5 måneder siden
  • Doesn’t help

    BlobsMan 12BlobsMan 126 måneder siden
  • Lost all my confidence due to a break up. Ever since been self sabotaging. Lord help me

    Rachel SarbengRachel Sarbeng7 måneder siden
  • What it you just like smoking weed

    bravo1oh1bravo1oh17 måneder siden
  • I self sabotage myself A LOT when it comes to crushes.

    LarkLark8 måneder siden
  • Same acts but different how to view it and how you put intensions and feelings and what is your goal😊

    Mariam SabryMariam Sabry8 måneder siden
  • I'm watching this instead of practicing singing haha. I'm terrified of failure and not doing well in my career

    tigergirl305tigergirl30510 måneder siden
  • Good talk at same time consider the Pareto Principle and The Hedonistic Treadmill and Intrinsic -Goals -vs-Extrinsic-Goals and Acceptance of Imperfections and Keeping Goals Realistic... Progress not Perfection ☯️ Mudskipper

    Mud SkipperMud Skipper11 måneder siden
  • The beginning part is some what true every time I want to go forward my mind stops & erases what I set out to do!?

    Mohammad AlakkadMohammad AlakkadÅr siden
  • How can we find your "CONFIDENCE MED" on the app? hopefully no cred card reqd?

    Ma D.Ma D.År siden
  • I thought self sabotage was putting up barriers that you know would be fulfilling to you and others by your fulfillment.

    William ScurryWilliam ScurryÅr siden
  • What’s up with the background music? It’s all over the place. Charlie’s voice over is soothing enough.

    Erick RodríguezErick RodríguezÅr siden
  • Can you please donate 1000 to me every month? Thanks.

    Chase PotterChase PotterÅr siden
  • this is BRILLIANT! I always figured fear of failure was the thing freezing, but I fail all the time and It's just a normal thing to me. It's actually when I'm doing good that I stop myself, I can't put into words how accurate this fits my situation. Thanks a lot for making this video, I'll get to working on improving these associations!

    Oridan1Oridan1År siden
  • Comment section I need help thinking of a good counter example to Procrastination: doing school work at home makes less free time Trying to improve please help 😃

    Rachel MRachel MÅr siden

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  • Nice ! :)

    AI JAI JÅr siden
  • Today once again I screwed up the best date of my life to keep myself safe. But this video and others alike gives hope that one day people will be free :)

    Louis BalaLouis BalaÅr siden
  • Bravery isnt not being scared. Bravery is being scared and doing it anyway. Get out there and chase your dreams!

    Youngboy KevYoungboy KevÅr siden
  • Your beautiful smile is so much more charming to watch than this animation :)

    Olga R. I.Olga R. I.År siden
  • What do you do when you self sabotage every area of your life?

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    • natalie begin Stopping

      Mostafa SaadMostafa Saad8 måneder siden
  • I know that this is weird, so please bear with me. I'm really good at making friends (naturally, this has always been one of my best talents), but I'm bad at pickup because I'm worried that I'll be rejected. As someone who makes a lot of friends, this has always confused me. (I'm going to watch your Friend Zone Buster right after I do the fear list in this video)

    NeatherBen221NeatherBen221År siden
  • I self sabotage every time I try to vlog in public ://

    Ryan HurleyRyan HurleyÅr siden
    • Ryan Thomas sameee. Stopped making videos eventually

      Mostafa SaadMostafa Saad8 måneder siden
  • Wow. $1000 a month is half our income! o.O

    AFord 42AFord 42År siden
  • i just dont like the gym because its really uncomfortable and hard to lift heavy things. its exhausting, it stinks and its not fun at all. i dont think my self conscious is tricking me. i think its just really hard.

    Nega_WeebNega_WeebÅr siden
  • I self sabotage because its the easier way.

    Marko BogovićMarko BogovićÅr siden
  • It’s in my genes, I swear to god 😂🙃

    Katie BKatie BÅr siden
  • Help meeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!

    thehoneyeffectthehoneyeffectÅr siden
  • I don't get it

    Only One MITCH!Only One MITCH!År siden
  • so basically positive affirmations and use law of attraction principles.

    Arthur WithheldArthur WithheldÅr siden
  • Charlie, would it be a lot of trouble to make a video on Captain America? Captain America needs a breakdown because he's a great leader from whom you can help us learn from. And as a Marvel Fan yourself, I'm sure you'll have fun making it.

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  • What are your limiting beliefs ?

    AdoremejoyAdoremejoyÅr siden
  • Wow the first 60 secs of this video is the story of my life

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  • I self-sabotage because I’m lazy. That’s it

    N. GoldbergN. GoldbergÅr siden
  • Any advice for me. I self sabotage when it comes to being loved. I go into things with the mind set of being alone or having to always be in defense of things. I never let myself be loved or to love them. How do I teach myself to see things in a positive light?

    Morgan McKayMorgan McKayÅr siden
  • Great video but the music makes it so distracting

    Jared ByrneJared ByrneÅr siden
  • I self sabotage because my husband wants me to get into a career that I’m not interested in. He won’t change his mind no matter how miserable I tell him that I am.

    Mary DanielleMary DanielleÅr siden
  • Yeah I’d like to be healthy that sounds co- oh wait I have to do something? Never mind I am good

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  • Where is justin Y

    Samir Ahmad MirSamir Ahmad MirÅr siden
  • Hm idk I think I’m just lazy

    N. GoldbergN. GoldbergÅr siden

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  • I only have one thing to say: THANK YOU!

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  • Appreciate the hard work on the video and the content! The music is really distracting though-the music isn’t necessary.

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    • ~ Thanks for the feedback. :-)

      Charisma on CommandCharisma on CommandÅr siden
  • I usually end up giving up at the very last minute. I work hard at a goal, only to then walk away at the finish line.

    Afreen KAfreen KÅr siden
  • Nice animation 👍

    Dave ArroyoDave ArroyoÅr siden
  • pleass help me beat my own T-SERIES just do it yes u can! I just need help!98% people wont read this but for the 2% reading this I hope you become successful in life with everything you dream of and accomplish more than you imagined and I wouldnt mind a sub! I'm a small ytr

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  • Don’t think and write that you are sabotaging yourself and why, just write the second part.

    Armen AgaronianArmen AgaronianÅr siden
  • thank you

    Mr Slothbeast72Mr Slothbeast72År siden
  • Wow. I did the exercise: Success - if I get noticed, I will be a target How do I deal with this?

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  • Every fear is somehow trying to protect us! Being compassionate with it is super valuable!

    Alexandra ViolaAlexandra ViolaÅr siden
  • I am in this reality now

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  • Now that I am aware of having self sabotaging behavior, I refuse to watch this video as it may significantly help my situation and improve my quality of life

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  • I am single could someone help me to stop sabotaging myself

  • I feel like this is something a lot of people do without even realizing then just blame themselves and get stuck in a never ending cycle or rut of failure and "self-sabotaging" behaviors! It's hard to break but with a mindset shift it's totally doable and gets easier over time!

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  • I’ve heard all this from Antony Robins.

    Giaiel PaceGiaiel PaceÅr siden
  • "Greetings female human!" made me laugh :D

    Toms PirktiņšToms PirktiņšÅr siden
  • donate a $1000 a month? That is SO much money!

    BenjannaBenjannaÅr siden
  • bad background music choice - its distracting. :P

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  • But what if I self-sabotage by being too lazy? Like I know I should be studying, and I'm running out of time, but man I just can't stay focused... I tried your suggestion, but I don't seem to find any "secret fear of success" for being employed and having a salary. Does that still count?

    Eskander XanderamaEskander XanderamaÅr siden
  • by winning

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  • The infographics show animation vibes

    Ray VillaflorRay VillaflorÅr siden
  • what is the song in in back?

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  • Hey man. Outstanding channel. I'm curious about your animations. Custom and expensive, or generic and available to the public? I want to launch a channel of my own but the animations are my biggest hurdle. Thank you in advance.

    Stephen BrennanStephen BrennanÅr siden
  • Anyone know the background music?

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  • Donate to me this month._.

    A Random Introvert OnlineA Random Introvert OnlineÅr siden
  • Love your videos, but the animation and music feels really distracting in this one. Stop imitating The School of Life.

    Gries HeGries HeÅr siden
  • If you can afford to give as much a month to charity as i have to pay in rent each month, you're already doing better off than like 90% of humanity. Some of us don't have the opportunities you clearly were fortunate enough to be given;

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  • Bill Gates is an asshole

    Andrew FeistAndrew FeistÅr siden
  • The financial stakes video linked isn't the right one. Does anyone have the correct link?

    Scott SpaldingScott SpaldingÅr siden
  • checking the answered and handed it to the teacher. I knew I should do something about it. So when the teacher started collecting the papers from students I quickly went to his desk saw my paper and corrected the mistake. My body was filled with adrenaline that moment lol

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  • Thought it was Kurzgesagt

    Alexandré KotchAlexandré KotchÅr siden
  • Background music is annoying. Good content though.

    Pacific CoastPacific CoastÅr siden
  • Song

    Warren WillWarren WillÅr siden
  • The NOworld channel julienhimself is really keen on stopping self sabotage and living life in abundance, check him out!

    Rajveer SinghRajveer SinghÅr siden
  • Nice video but I think there's too much happening visually.

    Bob BobbyBob BobbyÅr siden
  • kurzgesagt?

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  • Great content! May I ask what software you use to create animated lectures?

    Ali Reza TeymouriAli Reza TeymouriÅr siden
  • I have an another technique, when ever I am tensed or afraid I go completely dumb, then to solve this I think about my self as excited I constantly tell to myself that I am excited rather than afraid. This brings back the normal state of my brain

    Kiran GoudKiran GoudÅr siden
  • I am sabotaging myself right now by watching a NOworld video, lmao

    Krzysztof WisKrzysztof WisÅr siden
  • ripped straight from school of life

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  • I take my failures and dwell on them, it’s hard for me not to tell myself stuff while I see myself failing and my co workers doing better. I try to do affirmations, have positive attitude, and do everything to focus on here and now but it helps only to a certain degree. This video is exactly what I needed, a compass TY. You da best

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  • I wonder what program they use to make the animations.

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  • Money is a multiplier. If you're caring and generous, it'll make you more so. If you're an asshole, it'll make you a bigger one. And if you have a hole in yourself that you wanna fill, it'll just make the hole more apparent.

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  • Yeah I kinda got an idea similar to what you explain in the video. Each time I try to do something new or something that makes me uncomfortable I feel like I will mess up big time. So the idea the I ended up with was that I should still try my hardest to archieve something or do the thing, so if I do and still fail at it, sure I would feel bad at the moment, but at the end of the day that becomes a new experience for me to learn from, wich would make it less scary for me to try again, and it could potentially become a funny or interesting story to tell my friends and family in the future.

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  • The biggest believe, the one I think it all boils down to, is "I don't deserve this." BUT yes: you are good enough, you can allow yourself to be happy!

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  • I think the most important thing for me about this video is that I actually believe that this will work.

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  • Please stay in realty because they will reframe reality

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  • I wish this was slower and no music.

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