How To Turn Anxiety Into Charisma

10. juni. 2019
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After watching an interview on Jimmy Fallon where Sophie Turner comes across as very charismatic, I started looking into doing a breakdown on her. I was surprised to find that she actually says she struggles in social situations.
On the second watch through, I noticed that hints of nervousness were present in that first Jimmy Fallon interview. So in this video, we’re going to learn what it seems Sophie has learned: how to turn anxiety, shyness, and nervousness into charisma.

⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
4:34 - Strategy #1: Active listening
4:50 - Strategy #2: Mirroring
6:00 - Strategy #3: Elaborate on someone else’s idea
6:31 - Strategy #4: Make fun of your own shyness
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  • I just want to say she was perfect on GoT and I hope she knows this.

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  • Once i have enough mental strength to make a phone call it’s over for everyone

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  • Most women that claim they're awkward or introverted are just doing it out of the popularity of the terms, or their perceived attractiveness of that identity. They aren't actually like that. I've only met one true introverted woman in my life.

    Oh its MikeOh its Mike29 dager siden
  • being self-conscious about your awkwardness = you give off sad, insecure vibes 😔👎🏾 being confident about your awkwardness = you give off positive, happy vibes 😉👍🏾

    palmer491palmer49129 dager siden
  • I'm anxious and introvert and still want to be the center of attention, what does that make me (okay, usually alcohol is involved)

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  • dating is hard with depression and anxiety, because girl will decide NO within 30 seconds of meeting you and swipe left, no chance.

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  • Charli d’amelio is an interesting subject! She’s shy but is great at interacting with people. And her rise to fame is fast but she adapts really well. Idk how she can interact with so many people and it looks like she’s really treating person actively

    Najiyah ZalikNajiyah ZalikMåned siden
  • Ok, this is me an extrovert awkward beneath anxiety

    Azyra FhugoAzyra FhugoMåned siden
  • My name is Maizie lol

    RavenlyRavenlyMåned siden
  • She has the same energy as timothee and saorise

    Kristen JonesKristen Jones2 måneder siden
  • do robert pattinson pleaseeee❤️❤️

    j4ylaj4yla2 måneder siden
  • please do robert pattinson

    Melanie RoselleMelanie Roselle2 måneder siden
    • yessss omg

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  • Thank you. This was actually really helpful. Please do more on shyness and social anxiety.

    A HikerA Hiker2 måneder siden
  • I want her to be my friend

    Lilibeth MirandaLilibeth Miranda2 måneder siden
  • Wanna know how to TURN anxiety into charisma? Just call Sophie TURNER

    Guilherme BeckerGuilherme Becker2 måneder siden
  • But she isn’t shy at all😐😐

    Amira SaraAmira Sara2 måneder siden
  • I bet she went to depression again because of dark phoenix.

    no oneno one2 måneder siden
  • Thanks for the tips !

    Wood DwellerWood Dweller2 måneder siden
  • so kind of you to share this helpful info for free

    Bree and StephenBree and Stephen2 måneder siden
  • i eat clit to get over it

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  • How come no one is talking about the thumbnail?? She legit looks like an 80s model.

    Daxy LolDaxy Lol2 måneder siden
  • Potus, my hookers James are charismas

    Robert LustRobert Lust2 måneder siden
  • I actually experienced this before. I was nervous on dates but my anxiety makes me talkative since I feel the need to fill the silence with interesting stories and I bring up anecdotes to relieve the stress. One guy I went on a date with assumed I was the social butterfly type and another person just said I was very charismatic. I guess it all works out in the end and fake it til you make it really works sometimes. Keep smiling and stay engaged and usually people are a lot more willing to talk about themselves when they feel welcomed and listened to.

    sadz catsadz cat2 måneder siden
  • It's basically what Ryan Reynolds does hehe it's cool and adorable

    Melted DiamonMelted Diamon2 måneder siden
  • Very helpful in many aspects!

    Ro with the FlowRo with the Flow2 måneder siden
  • Its not a strategy, its her personality. She's just being herself and completely engaging in the moment. It takes practice, you have to get out there and interact with people even if it feels like you want to crawl out of your skin.

    Rudy DavalosRudy Davalos2 måneder siden
  • I'm loving these, thank you. I am an introvert and anxiety, depression, and self worth issues. i end up being that akward person that people kinda like but at the same time kinda creepy...so..thanks for the help.

    Aubrey MorganAubrey Morgan2 måneder siden
  • Hi, how are you? I seriously hate humans

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  • Its naturally cheecky.

    PurpleoceangnomePurpleoceangnome3 måneder siden
  • I need to learn how to mirror people better, 🤔 I need better connection w my body🌀 Cos all i do is TALK🙊🙊🙊🙊

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  • As a therapist, I use your channel all the time. Thank you!

    Kelly PajaresKelly Pajares3 måneder siden
  • Mirroring is a big indicator of female autism

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  • Loved it!

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  • This makes me feel so much better about being me

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  • Worst question: “what have you been up to lately?”

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  • I’m always shy and clumsy in social interaction but I noticed that making jokes about that helps a lot.

    JanaJana3 måneder siden
  • this called me out so hard

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  • imagine being so nice people make videos about it

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  • I don’t understand how you can be shy and be an actor with camera’s on you, having to speak out onscreen and interviews.

    lisa gaetalisa gaeta3 måneder siden
  • Being a terrible liar is one of the finest qualities a KIND person can have.

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  • She has burst of charisma or energy to distract the Nervousness she is clearly feeling, because in those moments she isnt scared, she isnt nervous, those are her true reactions, personal reactions coming out! ❤️❤️❤️

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  • This is masking

    Jaime LaffoonJaime Laffoon3 måneder siden
  • studying acting really made me a better communicator; making eye contact, active listening etc

    Mutable AirMutable Air3 måneder siden
  • I have the worst poker face... I’m a terrible liar. I feel like I just saw myself in this video.

    Genesis AnsbroGenesis Ansbro3 måneder siden
  • Ahhh, got it. So cater to other people's egos.

    SamanthaSamantha3 måneder siden
  • I’m so glad to hear that I can have bursts of energy while being normally reserved. I’m concerned it comes off as off-putting or not genuine.

    Gabrielle FowlerGabrielle Fowler3 måneder siden
  • “Start by being vulnerable and open” My mental disorders and unresolved trauma: *it’s my time to shine*

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  • Love the plug for CBT!

    Bethany BurnsBethany Burns3 måneder siden
  • There are people who are really psychos whose gonna trap you in every conversation to show they are above you... Your only defense at that insta-moment is a cold passive attitude towards your verbal attacker... You have the right to remain silence no matter what provocative questions he/she wants you to get engage into. Always be in a cool posture. Dont raise your voice. Set it on level tone and volume. Never use sorry. Give no facial expression. Show whose the agressive ONE in TV and viewers won't forget it. Believe me on this social-behaviour experiment... I f you are pressed to answer questions say this : "you want me to answer that, the way you want to hear it" .. or say... "what can I say? No answer of mine would satisfy you be it the way you want to hear it - as your conviction has been made before this interview has started" dont add more. If she pressed you say "I did I've answered it"

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  • I wanna see her RED HAIR 🥀🌶️

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  • why did joseph gordon levitt go to shake that person's hand like that?? lmao

    natnat4 måneder siden
  • I see Sophie Turner, I click

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  • She is not shy

    Cxx AnonymousCxx Anonymous4 måneder siden
  • What’s up

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  • Hi

    Nicholas CheapNicholas Cheap4 måneder siden
  • I’m watching this a year later and I feel like I’ve actually absorbed and practiced these?? I’m way better today for sure

    Carolina LimaCarolina Lima4 måneder siden
  • I tried to dislike Sophie because my ex boyfriend was really thirsty for her but it was so hard because of her charisma

    ether.xether.x4 måneder siden
  • It helps when you're naturally gorgeous and have perfect hair and wardrobe. So I just need to get a personal stylist and then I can start trying to put all this into action.

    sims2lovealotsims2lovealot4 måneder siden
  • Me with severe social anxiety: 👁👄👁

    Ithinkiamgoing CrazyIthinkiamgoing Crazy4 måneder siden
  • Am I the only one who hates when other people repeat my last words? I mean it's ok if you do it sometimes but like in these clips... it drives me crazy😅

    JuliaJulia4 måneder siden
  • After so many videos about confident strong men, finally a video about... um... insecurity of women.... how about Meryl Streep in the next video

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  • Active listening is hard

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  • She's a doll ❤

    KC VeganaKC Vegana4 måneder siden
  • 2:46 was that clip used on purpose..because it always looks like he’s hiding something.. Such as a frog in his mouth

    Adrianne RossAdrianne Ross5 måneder siden
  • 2:15 and sometimes that bathfulnish can even crosh over

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  • I dont even know why I'm watching this.....I never talk to anyone in real life 😄😄

    Mrs KayMrs Kay5 måneder siden
  • How to turn vulnerability to charisma: First off, you gotta be at least 10/10.

    Green CurtainGreen Curtain5 måneder siden
  • If she has social anxiety then I am not even born.

    Harry TMHarry TM5 måneder siden
  • I'll just stick to Xanax

    AJaeAJae5 måneder siden
  • all celebrities r fake or reptiles or robots

    Jake HartmanJake Hartman5 måneder siden
  • Pace D'AngeloPace D'Angelo5 måneder siden
  • Step one: be attractive

    jelly72jelly725 måneder siden
    • Step 2: be attractive

      Gi GiGi Gi5 måneder siden
  • For the people here with things like GAD, OCD, or basically whatever else, this is about general worry. The disorders are different. Though, these tips aren't necessarily useless, but will be harder to accomplish because your body/brain fights you.

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  • that part at 3:23 just absolutely melted me.....❤👋😶my heart, ma'am, take it it's yours

    Katherina LynKatherina Lyn5 måneder siden
  • I'm about to be charismatic as heckkk B)

    Aanya PrasadAanya Prasad5 måneder siden
  • Ahhhhhhhhh! I feel like I’m a psychopath taking lessons on how to fake my association to the world! Learn this! Be like this! However, really be like this, but still.... be yourself. What the frack?! Fuuuuuuuuuhcccck

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  • She looks freaking gorgeous in that red dress daym!

    lis4lis46 måneder siden
  • It helps her that she is beautiful. Try being like this and not being pretty

    Lisa WadhamsLisa Wadhams6 måneder siden
  • I can tell that she’s not faking and she’s just a very nice person

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  • now I have a crush on her

    Thorstn BöhleThorstn Böhle6 måneder siden
  • It’s easy said but it’s soooo difficult in reality >.< especially with social anxiety

    Anne NevilleAnne Neville6 måneder siden
  • Nahh.. she is just a covert narc playing the shy girl..

    John HooperJohn Hooper7 måneder siden
  • anxiety isn’t shyness

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  • I enjoyed this video. My first time watching a video fr this channel.

    Lindsey PalmerLindsey Palmer7 måneder siden
  • She’s very much like Sansaa

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  • Timothee chalamet is the best example

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  • Me right now: memorizing these tips, rehearsing in my head Me tomorrow at work: "how do you do fellow kids?"

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  • I 100% agree with the self deprecating jokes

    Jaqueline V.Jaqueline V.7 måneder siden
  • 😆 I think I am already doing this and I have not been diagnosed with anxiety.

    Bettina OrevilBettina Orevil7 måneder siden
  • She's a girl. If a man acts like this he is getting destroyed by everyone.

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  • Nowadays getting depressed is so easy right...its not fair for people who actively are suffering from mental illness

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  • Okay at 2:36 I felt that idk why

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  • OH MY GOD I DO KNOW WHO SHE IS

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  • I had no idea who she was but now I love her just because of this video

    That BrinchThat Brinch8 måneder siden
  • I do thiss thank god I am doing it right

    Chloe BarneveldChloe Barneveld8 måneder siden
  • It makes me anxious when other people mirror me. Because some do it to ridicule or destabilize you and you cannot always tell/

    Mia CarreraMia Carrera8 måneder siden
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