The Surprising Psychology Of OnlyFans Simps

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With credit card in hand, I signed up for an OnlyFans investigation. What I found surprised me, not only what it said about human psychology, but also the direction that consumerism is taking all of us.

0:00 - Intro
1:26 - #1: Dopamine hooks
3:48 - #2: Recognition, intimacy and community
5:22 - #3: "Guaranteed acceptance"
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